Draw Near

Why Draw Near?

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Fri, 16 Oct 2020 09:00:00 -0500

Thank you for listening to Draw Near. Before beginning, start with this short "trailer" of what Draw Near is about, why Fred and Kara chose this name, and the goal of this podcast.

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Grafted Into God: The Interior Life of Romans 11

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 25 Mar 2026 06:00:00 -0500

What if being united to God begins with being cut open?

In this episode of Draw Near, we explore Romans 11 and the powerful image of being “grafted” into God. Using the biblical metaphor of the olive tree, St. Paul reveals something profound about the spiritual life: union with God is living, dependent, and deeply transformative.

Grafting is no gentle process. It requires cutting, exposure, and vulnerability before new life can take hold. And the same is true in our relationship with God. He does not simply improve us from the outside; he works within us, cutting away what is hardened so that we can receive his life more fully.

We reflect on how God is the root who sustains us, how we are invited to remain in him, and what it means to bear interior fruit fruit that comes not from our own strength, but from grace. Drawing connections to Ezekiel 36 and the promise of a new heart, this episode invites you to consider how God may be at work in the hidden places of your life; and what areas of your own life have you hardened?

If you’ve ever wrestled with vulnerability, struggled to trust God in the midst of difficulty, or wondered how real transformation actually happens—this conversation is for you.

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I Arise Today

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 18 Mar 2026 00:00:00 -0500

St. Patrick’s story is one of suffering, conversion, and mission. Enslaved as a teenager, he encountered God in hardship and later returned to Ireland to preach Christ.

This episode reflects on the Lorica of St. Patrick—a powerful prayer of spiritual strength and protection—and its invitation during Lent: to rise each day not by our own strength, but through the strength of the Trinity and the life of Christ.

Rooted in the Cross, surrounded by the communion of saints, and sustained by Christ’s presence, we are reminded: we do not walk alone.

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Faith & Fatherhood: A Conversation With My Dad

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 04 Mar 2026 06:15:00 -0600

"I sat down with my dad to ask him what he has learned as a fatherhood."
In this special episode of Draw Near, Kara sits down with her dad for an honest and heartfelt conversation about faith and fatherhood.

Together they reflect on what it means to become a father, how faith shapes parenting, what we can learn from our parents and children, and the quiet ways children absorb what their fathers believe. Along the way, there are stories, wisdom earned over time, and yes — a few classic dad jokes.

Whether you are a father, have a father, or are still healing from that relationship, this conversation invites you to consider how earthly fatherhood reflects (imperfectly but beautifully) the heart of God the Father.

Topics include:
• Growing in faith through parenting
• Spiritual leadership in the home
• Lessons learned the hard way
• What children really notice

Psalm 103:13 reminds us:
“As a father pities his children, so the LORD pities those who fear him.” (RSVCE)

We pray this episode strengthens families, encourages dads, and helps all of us draw nearer to the Father who never fails.

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Penance: The Desert Where God Transforms Us

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 18 Feb 2026 06:00:00 -0600

Suffering is where transformation begins! What does that have to do with Lent?

Many of us approach Lent thinking about what we have to give up. But what if Lent isn’t mainly about loss… but about what God wants to build within us?

In this episode, we explore the deeper meaning of penance, suffering, and the desert season of Lent. Why does the Church begin with ashes and words about death? How does penance actually train the heart? And why does every sacrifice ultimately point toward resurrection?

Journal Questions:

Where in my life right now feels like a desert, and how might God be inviting me to encounter Him there rather than escape it?
What comfort, habit, or attachment might God be asking me to surrender so He can build something deeper in me?
If resurrection always follows the cross, what “new life” might God be preparing in me through this season?

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BJ and Kara’s Date Night: The Power of Words in Marriage

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 11 Feb 2026 06:00:00 -0600

BJ and Kara go on a date, and they invite you to listen in.

This week on Draw Near, Kara is joined by a very special guest: her husband, BJ!! Join a recorded at-home date centered on one of the most important (and challenging) aspects of marriage: communication.

The date follows one of the intentional at-home dates from Draw Near's soon-to-be-released marriage resource, Near to You, a collection of ten guided dates designed to help married couples draw nearer to God and to one another at any stage of marriage.

Set at the kitchen table (in sweats, with homemade cocktails), Kara and BJ invite you into a relaxed evening that includes prayer, Scripture, reflection, meaningful conversation, and a goofy game to close the night. Along the way, they talk honestly about how communication styles develop over time, how conflict and silence can affect intimacy, and how words or actions can become instruments of love within marriage.

Whether you’re newly married, years into marriage, or simply curious about building a healthy faith-filled relationship, this episode offers encouragement, honesty, and practical ideas you can bring into your own relationship.

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What to Do When the Service is Bad

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 04 Feb 2026 00:00:00 -0600

How do you actually share your faith—without fear, awkward moments, or feeling like you have to have all the answers?

In this short episode, Fred reflects on a simple, ordinary moment that became a doorway for grace. What started as a late-night stop for ice cream after church turned into months of prayer, presence, encouragement, and quiet fidelity—and ultimately, a life gently redirected toward healing, hope, and the Church.

This story reminds us that sharing our faith doesn’t usually begin with arguments or explanations. It begins with noticing, listening, and having the courage to say a simple “yes” when the Holy Spirit nudges.

Because sometimes, the most powerful witness of the Gospel sounds like this:
“We’re about to pray. Is there anything we can pray for you about?”

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Clearing Up Catholic Misconceptions

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 28 Jan 2026 06:15:00 -0600

Clear answers to common misconceptions about Catholicism...

In this episode of Draw Near, we begin clearing up some of the most common Catholic misunderstandings or assumptions.

Misconceptions explained in this episode:

Catholicism is about rules and rituals, not a personal relationship with Jesus.
Catholics don’t read the Bible and rely on tradition instead of Scripture.
Catholics believe you earn salvation by works instead of being saved by grace.

Throughout the episode, we look at key biblical passages and show how the Catholic Church has faithfully taught the fullness of Christ’s message.

This episode isn’t a deep dive into every question; it is an invitation to understand what the Catholic Church truly teaches, where those teachings come from, and why they matter.

If there’s a specific misconception or teaching you’d like explored further, submit it here—we’d love to continue the conversation.

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Still Here

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 21 Jan 2026 06:00:00 -0600

Draw Near is still here—and this episode is all about returning to our "why."

After a season of being in and out, adjusting rhythms, and letting life take its course, we wanted to speak honestly about where Draw Near is right now and how God has been gently guiding us forward. This episode invites you into our discernment, hope, and trust.

Rooted in Isaiah 42:3, we reflect on the image of the Servant who does not break a bruised reed or extinguish a dimly burning wick. These words have shaped how we understand this season; It has not been a failure or fading, but as a time of careful tending. Jesus knows how to work with what is fragile. He repairs without rushing and restores without pressure.

We share how this passage has helped us see the recent shifts in Draw Near as an invitation to listen more closely, allowing the Spirit to breathe life into the work in more sustainable ways. The mission remains. The vision endures. What’s changing is the rhythm.

If you’ve ever wondered whether something good was slipping away—or whether a quieter season meant God was less present—this episode is for you.

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Guided Meditation: God Saw That It Was Good

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 17 Dec 2025 05:00:00 -0600

God formed you carefully—every part of you. In this episode of Draw Near, Kara leads you through a guided visualization meditation designed to quiet the noise and open you to the depth of God’s love for you.

This reflection is especially for anyone who struggles to see themselves as wholly good and loved... those who can appreciate their strengths but wrestle with their weaknesses, insecurities, or parts they wish were different. This meditation gently invites you to see yourself through God’s eyes and to receive yourself with the same love God offers.

Drawn directly from the Surrender Journal we wrote and offer through our shop, this prayer experience is meant to be returned to again and again—especially in moments of self-doubt, comparison, or discouragement.

Find a quiet place, take a deep breath, and allow God to remind you: you are deeply known, carefully created, and lovingly held.

Questions to reflect on before you begin:

Where do you find value within yourself? When do feel valuable? Are there moments when you do not feel valuable but worthless? What are they?
What lies from the evil one do you listen to regularly regarding your life, identity, or value?
What does it mean to be made in the image of God? What does it mean to be in the likeness of God?

The Surrender Journal:
Find additional meditations in the Surrender Journal. Learn more or ORDER by clicking HERE

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If Jesus Is Lord, Life Looks Different

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 03 Dec 2025 06:00:00 -0600

If we truly believe Jesus is Lord, then his words matter… even the ones that challenge us. In this week’s conversation, we reflect on Luke 6:46: “Why do you call me ‘Lord, Lord,’ and not do what I tell you?” Jesus does not rebuke here, but invites each of us personally to reflect on teachings, words from God, or passages of Scripture we truly believe. Let's also allow it to be an invitation to ask: which of Jesus's words and teachings have I forgotten or discarded because they are difficult.

All of us have places where obedience feels costly or inconvenient. Yet Jesus never calls us to follow him on our own strength. Let's also look at what he does to help us?

Throughout the episode, we also explore:

how the Holy Spirit prompts us toward deeper faithfulness
why some of Jesus’ teachings feel difficult and what that says about our spiritual growth
how grace strengthens our weak places
the invitation to reflect on areas where we’re not fully following him
the simple, daily yes that forms real discipleship

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Wearing Your Heart on Your Sleeve

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Thu, 27 Nov 2025 06:00:00 -0600

In a world that often tells us to stay guarded, what does it really mean to live with an open heart? In this episode, we explore the beauty and the cost of “wearing your heart on your sleeve,” and why Jesus shows us a better way than self-protection. If you’ve ever wondered whether vulnerability is worth it, or feared that loving deeply will only get you hurt, this conversation is for you. Come be encouraged to live with authenticity, courage, and Christ-like love.

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DN Classics: You Talking About Me?

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 19 Nov 2025 00:30:00 -0600

In this classic Draw Near episode, we revisit a heartfelt conversation with our friend Sr. Fidelis Marie about what it really means to love one another well — not in theory, but in the daily decisions that shape our relationships and communities. If you’ve ever wrestled with empathy, boundaries, or how to grow in authentic charity, this episode will encourage and challenge you in all the right ways.

In this episode, we explore:

How to tell the difference between healthy venting and harmful gossip

Why it’s so easy to expect empathy but harder to give it

How our wounds, assumptions, and interior habits shape the way we treat others

What it looks like to approach relationships with intentionality, vulnerability, and authentic love

Whether our culture is slowly training us to stop seeing one another as human beings

Why evaluating intentions — our own and others’ — matters for spiritual growth

Join us for a conversation that keeps unfolding long after the episode ends. This is one worth returning to — and we’re glad to share it with you again.

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Friend Day: Want to Join?

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 05 Nov 2025 05:00:00 -0600

Sometimes, we all just need a friend day! Grab your favorite drink and join us today for our much needed friend day chat. In this relaxed episode of Draw Near, let's cut throught the stresses and weariness. Fred and Kara catch up, asking each other questions that spark joy, honesty, and laughter. Want to join us?

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I Am Not Like the Rest of Humanity

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 29 Oct 2025 12:00:00 -0500

There’s an honest difference between "looking" holy and "living" a holy life. Reflecting on Luke 18:9–14, Fred and Kara explore how pride and comparison creep into our hearts, why appearances are not what God looks at, and how one's heart is truly the measure holiness. Looking beyond all you do for God, what does your heart look like?

Let's dive into how pride can creep into our prayer life, how comparison blinds us to grace, and why holiness is not something we achieve but an interior posture of the heart.

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The Hemorrhaging Woman: Desperate for Healing

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 22 Oct 2025 05:00:00 -0500

Imagine Jesus stopping everything just to find you and heal you. That’s exactly what happens in the story of the hemorrhaging woman. In this Lectio Divine episode, Fred and Kara pray with this passage and reflect on the woman's need to "touch" Jesus and how her circumstances during 12 years of suffering would have led to her "desperate" faith. In addition to spiritual themes, this episode also talks about Jesus' initiative to seek the woman and invite her out of her hiding place of shame and into healing.

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Hot Takes and Life Updates

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Thu, 16 Oct 2025 06:00:00 -0500

In this episode, we’re giving you a peek behind the curtain with real-life updates and our unfiltered takes on everything from reality shows and parish bingos to social media, smartphones, and DIY projects. We even get serious for a moment about how we use technology, faith, and the “thoughts and prayers” culture online.

If you’ve ever wondered what we’re like when the mics aren’t scripted—this one’s for you. Fun, honest, and a little unpredictable, this episode mixes laughter with reflection on living faith in everyday life.

Writing projects mentioned:
"The Surrender Journal"
"Near to You:" Marriage retreat at home

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Surrender: Trusting God in the Waiting

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 08 Oct 2025 06:00:00 -0500

What does it mean to actually surrender to God?... and how do we begin to do it? There are seasons when God feels silent, when prayers go unanswered, or when our hearts wrestle with waiting. In those moments, surrender can sound like a nice idea but feel nearly impossible. So, where do we begin?

To continue your journey to total surrender to God, check out The Surrender Journal on the Draw Near Shop. It shares 30 uniquely crafted meditation exercises that will bring you to a place of surrender.

Reflection Questions from this episode:
What does it look like for you to actively surrender to God’s timing right now?
What truths or promises do you cling to when waiting feels hard?
Can you recall a time when waiting brought unexpected grace, growth, or healing?

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Do Whatever He Tells You

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Sun, 05 Oct 2025 00:00:00 -0500

Imagine building a thriving career, only to hear a call so strong you can’t ignore it. That’s exactly what happened to Rob “Mr. Theology” Reynolds and Shevin McCullough. In this episode, the founders of Studio 316 share how they traded corporate success for a life of ministry—and how they’re using creativity and media to lead kids to Christ.

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Finding God in the Least Likely Movies

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 01 Oct 2025 05:30:00 -0500

What do Dungeons & Dragons, Harry Potter, the Walking Dead, and A Quiet Place have in common?

In this episode, we have some fun exploring how even the most unlikely movies and shows can open doors to deeper conversations about faith. From unlikely heroes and the battle of good and evil, to themes of sacrifice, friendship, and courage... we discover that God can shine through stories we never expected.

This isn’t about forcing a religious lens where it doesn’t belong. It’s about learning to see with eyes of faith, and enjoying the creative ways truth, beauty, and goodness can break through, even in secular media.

Pull up some popcorn and join us for this lighthearted conversation where we share some of our favorite shows and movies, laugh a little, and give you new eyes for the next time you hit “play.”

What You’ll Hear in This Episode:
How secular stories can echo the Gospel when we learn to look deeper
Why Christian themes show up in unexpected places (and why that matters)
The power of sacrifice, courage, and friendship on screen
A few of our favorite movies and shows (and why we like them!)

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All Dogs go to Heaven... or Do they?

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Thu, 28 Aug 2025 06:00:00 -0500

Do our pets go to heaven?
It’s one of those questions people of all ages wonder about. Whether it’s sparked by watching All Dogs Go to Heaven as a kid, or by the very real grief of saying goodbye to a beloved family pet, the thought lingers: Will I see them again?

In this episode, Kara shares her family’s personal experience of losing a pet—and how that moment of loss opened up bigger questions of faith, hope, and what God has in store for all creation. Together, let's explore the possibilities by looking at what Scripture and the Catechism actually say about heaven and the renewal of all things. Here, Kara will share her own considerations, as well!

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Encountering God in Scripture: Listening with Your Heart

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Sun, 27 Jul 2025 00:00:00 -0500

In this episode of Draw Near, we explore how Scripture becomes a living encounter with the voice of God. We talk about how to prepare our hearts to hear him, the power of knowing the full story of salvation, and how God speaks uniquely and personally through his Word. With personal stories, practical tips, and favorite passages that have carried us through suffering and joy, we hope to inspire you to trust that God is speaking to you.

Whether you’re new to reading Scripture or longing to go deeper, this conversation will help you move from simply reading the Bible to truly encountering the God who loves you.

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Beyond "I’m Praying for You": Being There for Others

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Thu, 10 Jul 2025 00:00:00 -0500

Prayer is essential—but sometimes, it’s not the only thing someone needs. In some seasons, words can fall short if they aren’t paired with presence and love. This episode invites you to reflect on how we can truly support one another—not only by praying for someone, but by walking with them.

Drawing from Scripture, the wisdom of the saints, and real-life experience, we explore the power of showing up, listening well, and offering small acts of mercy. Let’s become the kind of people who pray deeply—and live that prayer out with compassion.

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Life's Interruptions or Divine Invitations?

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 02 Jul 2025 10:00:00 -0500

What if the interruptions in your day aren’t distractions… but invitations? In this reflective "shorty," Kara shares a personal insight drawn from her own life and the life of Christ in Scripture. Jesus never pushed people away because they weren’t part of “the plan.” He embraced them as the plan.

This episode invites you to rethink the way you see the unexpected moments in your own life—those small or inconvenient interruptions—as potential encounters with God’s grace.

This week, when you’re interrupted: Stop. Breathe. Reflect: “Lord, is this an invitation from you? Help me to embrace this moment and invite grace.”

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The Bread of Life: Rediscovering the Power of the Eucharist

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 25 Jun 2025 00:00:00 -0500

In this episode of Draw Near, we reflect on the Solemnity of the Most Holy Body and Blood of Christ and invite you to rediscover the power, beauty, and reality of the Eucharist. More than a symbol, the Eucharist is the living presence of Jesus—true food for the soul, strength for the weary, and healing for the brokenhearted.

Together, we explore:

How to cultivate a deeper devotion to the Eucharist in your daily life
What it means to live eucharistically—offering your life as a gift
How the Eucharist has brought strength and healing in personal moments of struggle

With heartfelt stories, Scripture, practical takeaways, and wisdom from the saints, this episode will leave you inspired to approach every Mass and every moment with renewed gratitude and reverence.

Challenge for the Week:
Choose one simple way to deepen your Eucharistic devotion—adoration, prayer after Communion, or offering your day intentionally to God—and share it with someone.

Whether you're struggling to connect with the Eucharist or simply desire more, this episode offers encouragement and spiritual depth that will draw you closer to the Heart of Christ.

*Mentioned in this episode: *

Stay With Me - Prayer of St Padre Pio After Communion
Stay with me, Lord, for it is necessary to have You present so that I do not forget You. You know how easily I abandon You.

Stay with me, Lord, because I am weak
and I need Your strength,
that I may not fall so often.

Stay with me, Lord, for You are my life,
and without You, I am without fervor.

Stay with me, Lord, for You are my light,
and without You, I am in darkness.

Stay with me, Lord, to show me Your will.

Stay with me, Lord, so that I hear Your voice
and follow You.

Stay with me, Lord, for I desire to love You
very much, and always be in Your company.

Stay with me, Lord, if You wish me to be faithful to You.

Stay with me, Lord, for as poor as my soul is,
I want it to be a place of consolation for You, a nest of love.

Stay with me, Jesus, for it is getting late and the day is coming to a close, and life passes;
death, judgment, eternity approaches. It is necessary to renew my strength,
so that I will not stop along the way and for that, I need You.

It is getting late and death approaches,
I fear the darkness, the temptations, the dryness, the cross, the sorrows.
O how I need You, my Jesus, in this night of exile!

Stay with me tonight, Jesus, in life with all it’s dangers. I need You.

Let me recognize You as Your disciples did at the breaking of the bread,
so that the Eucharistic Communion be the Light which disperses the darkness,
the force which sustains me, the unique joy of my heart.

Stay with me, Lord, because at the hour of my death, I want to remain united to You,
if not by communion, at least by grace and love.

Stay with me, Jesus, I do not ask for divine consolation, because I do not merit it,
but the gift of Your Presence, oh yes, I ask this of You!

Stay with me, Lord, for it is You alone I look for, Your Love, Your Grace, Your Will, Your Heart, Your Spirit, because I love You and ask no other reward but to love You more and more.

With a firm love, I will love You with all my heart while on earth
and continue to love You perfectly during all eternity. Amen

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Is God Your Best Friend? Prayer Meditation: Unlocking the Doors of the Heart

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 18 Jun 2025 00:00:00 -0500

“Prayer is nothing else than a close sharing between friends.” — St. Teresa of Ávila

In this powerful and reflective episode of Draw Near, Kara invites you to explore the deeply personal and transformative nature of prayer as an intimate friendship with God. Using the story of Doubting Thomas in John 20, Kara reflects on how God responds to us when we ask, and gives us exactly what is needed. Jesus enters the locked rooms of our lives... those places we try to keep hidden.

You’ll be guided through a visual prayer meditation that helps you encounter Jesus in those very spaces. Is there a room in your life where you've closed the door on God? He’s already standing among you, ready to meet you with peace and transformation.

Whether you're seeking a deeper relationship with Jesus, struggling with doubt, or yearning for vulnerability in your spiritual life, this episode offers a quiet, sacred space to reconnect with the God who calls you friend.

Perfect for:
Catholics and Christians seeking to deepen their prayer life, grow in intimacy with God, or explore spiritual friendship, especially through Catholic meditation and imaginative prayer.

Discussion Questions for Reflection or Group Use:

In the visualization, what was it like in the room? What did you see, feel, or notice?

What locked door in your life is God asking you to open?

How is God calling you to grow closer to him in friendship?

Scripture for Meditation:
John 20:19–29 – Jesus appears to the disciples and to Thomas in the upper room.

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A Chosen People: Building the Kingdom of God

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 28 May 2025 00:00:00 -0500

What does it mean to be a "living stone" in God's Church? How can we live as a royal priesthood, and build communities that truly reflect the love and unity of Christ?

In this episode, Fred explores the readings for the Sixth Sunday of Easter and unpacks our identity as chosen people—called not just to believe, but to build. Drawing from Acts, Revelation, and John’s Gospel, we’ll dive into what it means to be part of something eternal and radiant: the Kingdom of God.

🔹 Discover how God is building his Church through us
🔹 Learn what it means to offer spiritual sacrifices in daily life
🔹 Be inspired to live your faith with peace, purpose, and unity

Whether you're new to the faith or a lifelong disciple, this episode will challenge and encourage you to take your place in God’s spiritual house.

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The Shepherd’s Voice: Trusting in God’s Guidance

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 14 May 2025 05:00:00 -0500

How do we hear the voice of Jesus in a world full of noise, distraction, and doubt? And what does it mean to truly follow him—especially when the road is uncertain or difficult?

In this episode, we reflect on John 10 and Jesus’ words: “My sheep hear my voice; I know them, and they follow me.” We explore how to discern the voice of the Good Shepherd through prayer, silence, and Scripture—and we introduce insights from St. Ignatius of Loyola on the discernment of spirits to help you grow in spiritual clarity and trust. If you’re longing for peace, direction, or deeper intimacy with Christ, this conversation is for you.

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Surprised by Mercy

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 30 Apr 2025 00:00:00 -0500

In this full-length episode of Draw Near, we return to the mic for a heartfelt conversation on one of the most essential themes of our faith—mercy.

What does it really mean to be merciful? Is mercy just forgiveness, or something more? And in a world full of division, anxiety, and wounds, how can God’s mercy truly heal us and flow through us to others?

Together, we explore:

How Scripture and the Catechism define mercy
The surprising ways we’ve experienced God’s mercy in our lives
Why mercy is essential to healing broken relationships—and how to live it
Practical ways to grow in compassion, patience, and forgiveness (including with ourselves)
Why mercy and truth must go hand-in-hand in today’s Church and culture
A powerful story about St. Francis and rebuilding the Church with love and mercy
What it means to show mercy without compromising truth

We also share personal stories of struggle, healing, and God’s never-ending patience, including a time of wrestling with anger toward God—and how mercy transformed it.
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Unbind Him: Finding Resurrection in the Midst of the Cross

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 16 Apr 2025 00:00:00 -0500

Is it possible to feel joy in the midst of sorrow? Can we call Holy Week happy even while meditating on the suffering of Jesus? In this short and heartfelt Holy Week reflection, Fred and Kara share a deeply personal and spiritually rich meditation on John 11—the raising of Lazarus.

Together, we explore what it means for Jesus to stand before our tombs and call us by name, how we’re invited into community to help “unbind” one another from the grave clothes of fear, shame, and sin, and how the resurrection is not just something we believe in—it’s something we’re called to live.

Whether you're walking through grief, wrestling with God's timing, or just longing for renewal, this episode is a companion for your journey toward Easter joy. You’ll also hear stories from our own lives, encouragement for your spiritual walk, and a Holy Week challenge to invite God into your deepest burdens.

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Coming Home: A God Who Runs to Us

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 02 Apr 2025 00:00:00 -0500

This week on Draw Near, we dive into one of the most beloved parables in all of Scripture—the Prodigal Son. But this time, we ask three questions that challenge us to look deeper:

How is God’s love different from the love we experience from others—or even from ourselves?

What does “coming home to the Father” look like in real life?

And how do we respond when grace feels... unfair?

With humor, vulnerability, and heart, we reflect on the extravagant mercy of God, the wounds we carry in how we love (and fail to love), and the real-life humility it takes to return home—again and again. Whether you relate most to the younger son, the older son, or the waiting father, there’s something here for you.

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The Mountaintop Experience: Encountering Christ’s Glory

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Thu, 20 Mar 2025 07:00:00 -0500

Have you ever had a powerful “mountaintop” moment in your faith—only to struggle when coming back to daily life? In this episode, we dive into the Transfiguration of Jesus (Luke 9:28-36) and explore:
How to seek moments of transformation in your spiritual life
What it means to carry the light of Christ into everyday struggles
The power of prayer to open our hearts to God’s transformative love
Lent is a season of renewal—don’t miss this episode that will challenge and inspire you to draw near to God in a deeper way!

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Into the Desert: Overcoming Temptation

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Thu, 13 Mar 2025 01:00:00 -0500

Lent isn’t just about giving things up—it’s about conversion, renewal, and drawing closer to Christ. In this episode, we dive into Jesus’ time in the desert (Luke 4:1-13) and what it teaches us about resisting temptation, deepening our faith, and embracing the call to holiness.

🔥 We also explore:
✔️ How The Screwtape Letters by C.S. Lewis reveal the battle of temptation.
✔️ The distractions that sabotage our prayer life—and what to do about them.
✔️ For some reason, we talk about zombies and we share some news on some big changes coming in April!

Plus, practical ways to grow this Lent through prayer, fasting, and almsgiving—not just as obligations, but as pathways to real transformation.

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The Cross Isn’t the End of the Story: Holding Onto Hope in Grief

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Tue, 18 Feb 2025 17:15:00 -0600

What happens when you endure the Cross, but joy feels impossibly far away? In this episode, we explore the mystery of suffering, the hope of unseen joy, and the strength we find in Christ to carry us through life’s heaviest trials.

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Roses from Heaven: In Loving Memory of Catherine Thérèse Shellabarger

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 29 Jan 2025 02:30:00 -0600

Few knew that Fred and Krystal were expecting their seventh child. At 24 weeks, their beautiful daughter’s heartbeat could no longer be detected. On January 21, 2025, with heavy hearts, they said goodbye as Krystal delivered her in the hospital.

This episode is a tribute to Catherine’s life, an acknowledgment of the deep grief of losing a child, and a witness to the hope we hold in Christ.

Please keep the Shellabarger family in your prayers. If you would like to assist in the funeral and unexpected expenses, conside giving to this fundraiser set up for them by clicking THIS LINK.

As we honor Catherine, we also pray for all parents who have lost a child—whether in the womb, in infancy, or beyond. May God bring comfort and peace, and may our little saints in heaven continue to guide us with their love.

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Washed and Chosen: Living Out Our Baptismal Call

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 15 Jan 2025 00:00:00 -0600

In this inspiring episode of Draw Near, we delve into the transformative power of our baptism and its enduring impact on our identity and mission as disciples of Christ.

**Theme: **Renewing Our Identity in Christ
Through meaningful reflection and practical insights, we explore the deep truth that each of us is a beloved child of God, uniquely called to live out our baptismal mission with purpose and joy.

Key Questions Answered:

How can we understand and embrace our identity as beloved children of God?

Discover how God’s unconditional love defines our worth, sets us free, and calls us to a life rooted in hope and purpose.

What role does baptism play in forming our mission and vocation?

Learn how baptism commissions us as missionary disciples, equipping us to live our faith in the ordinary and extraordinary moments of life. In a busy world, how can we renew our commitment to living as disciples? Gain practical steps to cultivate prayer, prioritize the Eucharist, and reflect Christ’s love in everyday actions.

Why Listen?
This episode offers not only spiritual depth but also actionable ways to deepen your relationship with God in the midst of life’s busyness. You’ll be inspired to embrace your identity, rediscover your mission, and live as a light in the world.

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Bonus: Songs for Frances

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Sat, 21 Dec 2024 00:30:00 -0600

Think of this episode as sitting by a cozy fire with some friends, singing, playing music and praising God. Its also a peek into our "family of friends" as little Frances loves to listen to Draw Near music at bedtime. We thought it would be easier if it was all in one place. But, we also thought this may be a blessing to some of our listeners. Enjoy!

Songs:
Reckless Love
I Shall Not Want
Amazing Grace
Revelation Song
I am Not Alone
'No Longer Slaves
Who You Say I Am
It is Well
Goodness of God
Gratitude

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Advent Reflection: Already and Not Yet

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 18 Dec 2024 01:30:00 -0600

Jesus is coming... AGAIN!
Advent is a time of Preparation! In this Lectio Divina Reflection Fred and Kara talk about preparing for the coming of Jesus! He was born of a virgin in a manger and so has ALREADY come. BUT also... not YET, because Jesus will come again.
Are we preparing ourselves for Jesus to return? What if Jesus returned tomorrow? Are you ready?

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Best of “Dad Jokes”, Bloopers and Shenanigans

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Mon, 16 Dec 2024 00:00:00 -0600

Pure silliness and fun with great friends. In order to celebrate both our 200th episode, and the completetion of four years of Draw Near, we thought it would be fun to share some of our "best of" dad jokes, outtakes and bloopers' moments. We are joined by special guests, Phillip Grothus, Taylor Schroll, and John Paul Keane. Enjoy!

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200th Episode Special: "Best of Guests"

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Fri, 13 Dec 2024 21:00:00 -0600

We could think of no better way to celebrate our 200th Episode, than spotlighting some "Best of Guests" moments. The truth is, there are too many to fit in one episode... but this is a good start! We pray it will be a blessing to you!

Draw Near to Christ and Draw Near to one another. Friendships rooted in Christ... with the usual sharing over coffee, has always been at the heart of Draw Near.

Fred and Kara

Listen to the episodes spotlighted:

Ask a Priest (with Fr Pat Behm)
https://drawnear.fireside.fm/20

Redemptive Suffering (with Matthew Leonard)
https://drawnear.fireside.fm/7

God’s Ways Are Desert Ways (with Sonja Corbitt)
https://drawnear.fireside.fm/30

Spiritual Direction (with Sr Fidelis Marie)
https://drawnear.fireside.fm/41

Four Steps to Hearing God’s Voice (with Julie Storr)
https://drawnear.fireside.fm/122

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Early Preview: Take, Lord, and Receive All That I Have and Possess (ISAM S4E4)

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Mon, 09 Dec 2024 00:00:00 -0600

In this early preview of the fourth episode of our I See A Movement podcast, Kara and Fred are joined by good friend and frequent collaborator, Eric Gallagher. We take a look at what Eric sees the Lord doing in his life and ministry and we discuss the nature of total surrender to the will of God in one's life. The joys, the struggles, the grounding in hope; this is sure to be an inspiring and uplifitng episode for those who are discerning possible new steps in their lives.

Learn more about Eric Gallagher at: https://suscipe.org/home

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DN Classics: There's Something About Mary

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Fri, 06 Dec 2024 00:00:00 -0600

In the deeply personal first half of this episode, Fred and Kara reflect on their relationship with Mary, and how that has changed and grown over the years. Fred shares more of his testimony about converting to Catholicism and the role Mary played in that process. He also reflects on issues such as identity, childhood trauma, mistrust, and difficult family experiences and how these can effect our relationship with God; as well as with Mary. He shares the story of his relationship with Mary, and how she has helped him to find healing. Christ, while bleeding out and dying on the Cross, said to his Mother, “Behold your son;” and to his beloved disciple, “Behold your Mother.” Scripture then affirms that from that day, this beloved disciple “took her into his home.” We to, as beloved disciples must take her into our homes, and allow the love of the Mother of God to penetrate our hearts as only that of a faithful mother can. Her heart is to draw us near to the source of peace that surpasses all understanding: her son, our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.

In the second half, we return to Kara's teaching on the Immaculate Conception, which we celebrate on December 8. Kara dives into a scriptural study of key texts that point to Mary’s Immaculate Conception with hopes that each listener would be drawn deeper into the celebration of this Holy Day of Obligation.

Questions answered in the second half:

How do we know Mary was special or set apart?
What is the Immaculate Conception?
What is Original Sin? Where is that in Scripture?
Where is Mary’s Immaculate Conception found in Scripture?

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"In the Desert, I Praise You:" Gratitude Reflection

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 20 Nov 2024 14:30:00 -0600

Do you praise God in EVERYTHING?... the Good AND the Pain? With Thanksgiving fast approaching, it is common to be thankful for the good gifts, graces, love, or comforts of life. But, how often do we thank God for the thorn in our side, the pit we have fallen into, or the desert we simply cannot find a way out of?
In this episode of the Catholic podcast, Draw Near, Fred and Kara reflect on 2 Scripture passages focusing on gratitude to God in the midst of difficulty.

Scripture passages mentioned this episode:
Fred's Passage: Psalm 103
Kara's Passage: 2 Corinthians 12: 5-10

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Wholly inadequate: Homily by Fr. Patrick Behm

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 16 Oct 2024 00:15:00 -0500

In Father Patrick Behm's homily from the 25th Sunday in Ordinary time (September 22nd), he poses the question: "Will I ever be enough?" He looks at Mark 9: 30-37: "Who is the greatest in the kingdom of Heaven?" This Gospel passage brings a beautiful reflection on: "Do successes and achievements somehow make us more lovable? Where is God in the mess?"

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An Inside look at our Catholic Friendship: Fred and Kara Interview one another

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 02 Oct 2024 00:30:00 -0500

How exciting to give listeners a look inside our lives, hearts, and our Catholic friendship! In this fun light-hearted episode, we decided to interview one another. There are serious faith-driven questions as well as goofy opinion questions. Because who says striving for holiness has to be boring?
Grab some coffee and join us as friends, as you listen to this highly caffeinated interview episode of Draw Near!

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Friday the 13th

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 18 Sep 2024 02:00:00 -0500

Fred shares a brief reflection on an experience from middle school, and how it has effected his view of present cultural circumstances and relationships.

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"Reckless Love" (Cover by Fred and Kara)

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Fri, 30 Aug 2024 00:15:00 -0500

Those that know us, know we LOVE music and worship. Please enjoy this raw (very un-edited) Cover of "Reckless Love" (with harmonies added) by Kara Kardell and Fred Shellabarger (Originally by Cory Asbury. This version by I Am They)

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One Boat: Are We a Church Divided?

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 21 Aug 2024 00:30:00 -0500

There is so much division in the world... but also in the Church! The Church has been described in the image of a "Boat" since the Early Church Fathers. We are all ONE BOAT. ONE Church.
What do we allow to divide us? Where is God in our opinions? Does pride divide us?

Join us for this episode as we discuss what causes division in the Church and how it can be healed.

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Coping with Anxiety

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 07 Aug 2024 00:15:00 -0500

How do we reconcile the faith, God's will, and Scripture with feelings of anxiety and depression? Fred and Kara with the Draw Near podcast bring in Spiritual Director, Sister Fidelis Marie to have an honest discussion about anxiety and depression.

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A Future & A Hope: A Lectio Divina Discussion

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 24 Jul 2024 00:30:00 -0500

In this surprisingly personal episode, Fred and Kara share how the words of Jeremiah 29 can change our hearts.
It gives a "map" of how to find God and what God wants to bring into your life!

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Apologetics PART 4: How to share your faith

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 10 Jul 2024 00:15:00 -0500

In this final episode of the Draw Near "Apologetics series," Fred and Kara share practical tips to defending your Catholic faith and sharing Truth with Love! "Defending" the faith doesn't have to be defensive or offensive. Here are best-practices to "always be ready" to witness when God presents you the opportunity.

Did you miss Parts 1, 2, or 3? Find them here!
Part 1 Apologetics (answering common Catholic Misconceptions —Mary and Salvation)

Part 2 Apologetics (Creation, Aliens, Eucharist, Purgatory, and Confession)

Part 3 Apologetics (The Pope, Bible Alone, Rapture, Ressurection)

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Apologetics PART 3: the Pope, Bible ALONE, Rapture, & Resurrection

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 26 Jun 2024 00:15:00 -0500

What do Catholics ACTUALLY believe? Enjoy part 3 where Fred & Kara continue to defend the Catholic Church and correct any misconceptions or misunderstandings!! (We hope you're loving these Catholic teaching episodes as much as we are.)

Questions addressed in this episode:

Where is the papacy in Scripture? How does he have authority?
The bible is all you need, so why don't Catholics believe in Sola Scripture (the bible alone)?
What is the rapture? Will it happen? Do Catholics believe in it?
How can anyone believe Jesus actually rose from the dead?

This Apologetics series will conclude with Part 4 where we share "HOW TO" defend your own faith and best practices when you go out in the world as a witness of Christ's love and the Truth of his teaching.

Did you miss Parts 1 or 2? Find them here!

Part 1 Apologetics (answering common Catholic Misconceptions —Mary and Salvation)

Part 2 Apologetics (Creation, Aliens, Eucharist, Purgatory, and Confession)

Past episodes mentioned in this episode:
Papacy episode: "Until the King Returns"
Priesthood Episode: "Giving the Vineyard to Others"
Episode on Authority, Magisterium, & Sola Scriptural: "By Whose Authroity"

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Apologetics PART 2: Creation, Aliens, & Purgatory

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 12 Jun 2024 01:00:00 -0500

In PART 2 of this 4-part apologetics series, Fred and Kara take up more difficult Catholic questions like: creation, aliens, the Eucharist, Confession, and Purgatory.

Questions answered in this episode:

What do Catholic (have to) believe about Creation? Evolution? 7-literal days?
Aliens
Where is the Eucharist in the Bible?
Why do you confess your sins to a priest?
Where is Purgatory in the Bible?

Episodes/Links mentioned in this episode:
Bible Basics for Catholics (book)

"Giving the Vineyard to Others" -- episode on priesthood

My Lord and My God episodes about Eucharist:
"Bread from Heaven"
"Feeding the 5000"
"I am the Bread of Life" --John 6
"As you did in Egypt" -- Passover
"The Last Supper"

Spelling correction: "phagate"--eat as though to eat a meal. "tropien" -- gnaw

Questions to come in this series (Part 3):

The bible is all you need; why don't Catholic believe in Sola Scripture (the bible alone)?
Where is the papacy in Scripture? How does he have authority?
What is the rapture? Will it happen? Do Catholics believe in it?
How can anyone believe Jesus actually rose from the dead?

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Apologetics PART 1: Mary & Salvation

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 29 May 2024 01:00:00 -0500

Who loves Q&A? We do! Fred and Kara answer common Catholic questions, among Catholics, Protestants, or even atheists. Enjoy part 1 of this extended series.

*Questions in this episode: *

Why do Catholic Worship Mary? What's the deal with Mary?
Why do Catholics pray to Mary and the Saints?
What do Catholics believe about salvation? How are you saved?

Questions to come in this series (upcoming episodes):

What do Catholic have to believe about Creation? Evolution? 7-literal days?
Aliens
Where is the Eucharist in the Bible?
Why do you confess your sins to a priest?
Where is Purgatory in the Bible?
The bible is all you need; why don't Catholic believe in Sola Scripture (the bible alone)?
Where is the papacy in Scripture? How does he have authority?
What is the rapture? Will it happen? Do Catholics believe in it?
How can anyone believe Jesus actually rose from the dead?

Links referenced:
Full of Grace
There's Something about Mary
Mary: Ark of the New Covenant

On the Reciprocity of Gifts: John M.G. Barclay "Under Grace"

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COVER SONG: "I Am Not Alone"

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Sat, 25 May 2024 01:00:00 -0500

Enjoy this Draw Near Cover of "I Am Not Alone" by Kara Kardell and Fred Shellabarger (originally by Kari Jobe)

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Ask and I Will Do It: A Lectio Divina Reflection on John 14

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 08 May 2024 00:00:00 -0500

"Whatever you ask in my name, I will do it." Just like that... no questions asked? Does he need anything from us? In this episode, we reflect on the words of Jesus in John 14:12-14 as we look for answers to these questions.

Scriptures Mentioned In This Episode
John 14:12-14
“Truly, truly, I say to you, he who believes in me will also do the works that I do; and greater works than these will he do, because I go to the Father. Whatever you ask in my name, I will do it, that the Father may be glorified in the Son; f you ask anything in my name, I will do it.

Mark 11:22-26
And Jesus answered them, “Have faith in God. Truly, I say to you, whoever says to this mountain, ‘Be taken up and cast into the sea,’ and does not doubt in his heart, but believes that what he says will come to pass, it will be done for him. Therefore I tell you, whatever you ask in prayer, believe that you receive it, and you will. And whenever you stand praying, forgive, if you have anything against any one; so that your Father also who is in heaven may forgive you your trespasses.”

John 15:15-17
If you abide in me, and my words abide in you, ask whatever you will, and it shall be done for you. By this my Father is glorified, that you bear much fruit, and so prove to be my disciples.

Matthew 21:21-22
And Jesus answered them, “Truly, I say to you, if you have faith and never doubt, you will not only do what has been done to the fig tree, but even if you say to this mountain, ‘Be taken up and cast into the sea,’ it will be done. And whatever you ask in prayer, you will receive, if you have faith.”

Luke 18:1-8 (Parable of the Unjust Judge)
And he told them a parable, to the effect that they ought always to pray and not lose heart. He said, “In a certain city there was a judge who neither feared God nor regarded man; and there was a widow in that city who kept coming to him and saying, ‘Vindicate me against my adversary.’ For a while he refused; but afterward he said to himself, ‘Though I neither fear God nor regard man, yet because this widow bothers me, I will vindicate her, or she will wear me out by her continual coming.’” And the Lord said, “Hear what the unrighteous judge says. And will not God vindicate his elect, who cry to him day and night? Will he delay long over them? I tell you, he will vindicate them speedily. Nevertheless, when the Son of man comes, will he find faith on earth?”

Mark 9:14-24
And when they came to the disciples, they saw a great crowd about them, and scribes arguing with them. And immediately all the crowd, when they saw him, were greatly amazed, and ran up to him and greeted him. And he asked them, “What are you discussing with them?” And one of the crowd answered him, “Teacher, I brought my son to you, for he has a dumb spirit; and wherever it seizes him, it dashes him down; and he foams and grinds his teeth and becomes rigid; and I asked your disciples to cast it out, and they were not able.” And he answered them, “O faithless generation, how long am I to be with you? How long am I to bear with you? Bring him to me.” And they brought the boy to him; and when the spirit saw him, immediately it convulsed the boy, and he fell on the ground and rolled about, foaming at the mouth. And Jesus[d] asked his father, “How long has he had this?” And he said, “From childhood. And it has often cast him into the fire and into the water, to destroy him; but if you can do anything, have pity on us and help us.” And Jesus said to him, “If you can! All things are possible to him who believes.” Immediately the father of the child cried out[e] and said, “I believe; help my unbelief!”

From the Catechism of the Catholic Church
Par. 2609
Once committed to conversion, the heart learns to pray in faith. Faith is a filial adherence to God beyond what we feel and understand. It is possible because the beloved Son gives us access to the Father. He can ask us to "seek" and to "knock," since he himself is the door and the way.

Episodes Mentioned/Related Episodes
Willingness to Suffer
Redemptive Suffering
Why Do Bad Things Happen to Good People?
Thy Kingdom Come, Thy WIll Be Done
God's Ways Are Desert Ways
Her Answered Prayer

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Christian tips on "How to Friend" in today's changing world

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 24 Apr 2024 00:00:00 -0500

We were made for relationship and friendship. Yet, so many of us often feel alone; lost in a sea of acquaintances, with few "real" friends. We feel alone. How are we to overcome this? How are we to actually "Add Friend" in real life? Why is it more important to "belong" in a friendship, rather than to simply "fit in?" What can we learn from Jesus about what true friendship looks like?

These are some of the questions we set out to answer as we reflect on Scripture, our own experiences, and of course, our own friendship.

*Scriptures we mention in this episode: *

Proverbs 27:17
Iron sharpens iron, and one man sharpens another.

Sirach 6:14-17
A faithful friend is a sturdy shelter: he that has found one has found a treasure. There is nothing so precious as a faithful friend, and no scales can measure his excellence. A faithful friend is an elixir of life; and those who fear the Lord will find him. Whoever fears the Lord directs his friendship aright, for as he is, so is his neighbor also.

Pov 18:24
There are friends who pretend to be friends, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.

John 15:12-13
“This is my commandment, that you love one another as I have loved you. Greater love has no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends.

1 thes 5:11
Therefore encourage one another and build one another up, just as you are doing.

Col 3:13
forbearing one another and, if one has a complaint against another, forgiving each other; as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive.

Gal 6:2
Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ.

Eph 4:29 Let no evil talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for edifying, as fits the occasion, that it may impart grace to those who hear.

Heb 3:12-13 Take care, brethren, lest there be in any of you an evil, unbelieving heart, leading you to fall away from the living God. 13 But exhort one another every day, as long as it is called “today,” that none of you may be hardened by the deceitfulness of sin.

Heb 10:23-24 And let us consider how to stir up one another to love and good works, 25 not neglecting to meet together, as is the habit of some, but encouraging one another, and all the more as you see the Day drawing near.

Eph 5:15-20 Look carefully then how you walk, not as unwise men but as wise, 16 making the most of the time, because the days are evil. 17 Therefore do not be foolish, but understand what the will of the Lord is. 18 And do not get drunk with wine, for that is debauchery; but be filled with the Spirit, 19 addressing one another in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing and making melody to the Lord with all your heart, 20 always and for everything giving thanks in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ to God the Father. 21 Be subject to one another out of reverence for Christ.

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Source and Summit (MLMG Ep 27)

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Fri, 19 Apr 2024 00:00:00 -0500

In this final episode of My Lord and My God, we explore the meaning of the phrase, drawn from Church teaching, "The Eucharist is the Source and Summit of our Faith." Why is it important? In Scripture, Christ wants to abide in us; to cast our anxieties upon Him. We are reminded that it is only in Him that we have life in the fullest and truest sense.
We also read that He will be with us even until the "close of the age"; He invites us to that great heavenly wedding feast as the true and final SUMMIT!
What does this all have to do with the Eucharist or your life? ...Everything!

Scriptures referenced in this episode

Matthew 11:28
Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.

John 6:51
I am the living bread which came down from heaven; if any one eats of this bread, he will live for ever; and the bread which I shall give for the life of the world is my flesh.”

Matthew 26:26
Now as they were eating, Jesus took bread, and blessed, and broke it, and gave it to the disciples and said, “Take, eat; this is my body.”

1 Corinthians 11:24
and when he had given thanks, he broke it, and said, “This is my body which is for you. Do this in remembrance of me.”

John 6:56
He who eats my flesh and drinks my blood abides in me, and I in him.

John 6:63
It is the spirit that gives life, the flesh is of no avail; the words that I have spoken to you are spirit and life.

Revelation 19:6-9
Then I heard what seemed to be the voice of a great multitude, like the sound of many waters and like the sound of mighty thunderpeals, crying, “Hallelujah! For the Lord our God the Almighty reigns. Let us rejoice and exult and give him the glory, for the marriage of the Lamb has come, and his Bride has made herself ready; it was granted her to be clothed with fine linen, bright and pure”— for the fine linen is the righteous deeds of the saints. And the angel said to me, “Write this: Blessed are those who are invited to the marriage supper of the Lamb.”

*Catechism of the Catholic Church References: *
1324: The Eucharist is "the source and summit of the Christian life." "The other sacraments, and indeed all ecclesiastical ministries and works of the apostolate, are bound up with the Eucharist and are oriented toward it. For in the blessed Eucharist is contained the whole spiritual good of the Church, namely Christ himself, our Pasch.

1407: The Eucharist is the heart and the summit of the Church's life, for in it Christ associates his Church and all her members with his sacrifice of praise and thanksgiving offered once for all on the cross to his Father; by this sacrifice he pours out the graces of salvation on his Body which is the Church.

Episodes Referenced in This Episode:
Four Peope You Need in Your Life

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DN Classics: Virtuous Friendship

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 17 Apr 2024 00:00:00 -0500

Despite the world being so "connected," many of us find ourselves struggling with feelings of isolation and loneliness. We have many "friends," or more accurately, "best acquaintances," but we often lack the meaningful relationships; the friendships we long for that are characterized by love, vulnerability, mutual encouragement and accountability. What can Scripture teach us about friendship? How do we find and maintain these friendships? What can the saints teach us? What does Aristotle have to do with this?
Find out on this episode of Draw Near as Fred and Kara discuss all of this and share from their own close friendship!

Scripture Passage to pray with:
Sirach 6:14-17
"A faithful friend is a sturdy shelter; he that has found one has found a treasure. There is nothing so precious as a faithful friend, and no scales can measure his excellence. A faithful friend is an elixir of life; and those who fear the Lord will find him. Whoever fears the Lord directs his friendship aright, for as he is, so is his neighbor also."

Referenced in the episode:
4 People you need in your life

Male and Female friendships:
Opposite Sex Friendships

Holy Friendship in a hypersexualized world

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Catholic Calisthenics (MLMG Ep 26)

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Fri, 12 Apr 2024 00:00:00 -0500

What's with all the sitting, standing, and kneeling at a Catholic mass? What is the meaning behind the different postures, because there IS meaning. There is a reason, and that reason brings us deeper into prayer!

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Why Can't non-Catholics Receive the Eucharist? (MLMG Ep 25)

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Fri, 05 Apr 2024 00:00:00 -0500

Fred's struggle with the protestant teaching on "communion" actually led him to believe the Catholic understanding! Kara grew up not knowing that, as a Catholic, she shouldn't receive "communion" in other Churches. And why can't non-Catholics receive the Eucharist in the Catholic Church?

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Why do bad things happen to good people?

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 03 Apr 2024 00:30:00 -0500

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For You (DN Classics)

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Thu, 28 Mar 2024 00:00:00 -0500

Going back to one of our earliest episodes, we pull this discussion of the Passion, Death and Resurrection of Christ from the vault. We pray that it will be a blessing to you as you prepare your hearts for the Paschal Triduum (Holy Thursday, Good Friday, and Easter).

["I Thirst" reflection ](https://avemariaradio.net/wp-content/uploads/2013/03/Jesus-I-Thirst.pdf)

Prayer at the end of episode: “To Be A Disciple of Christ” by Fr. Michael Scanlan, TOR
Lord God, you who provide the fire for a transformed life, I come before you this day and beg for the fire of your love and mercy to forgive my sins and free me from my self-imposed bondages.

I pray for the fire of your Spirit to lead me in repentance and conversion so I may be faithful in following you.

I pray for the fire of your love to ignite my heart with love for my brothers and sisters and lead me to intercede in faith for them.

I pray for the fire of faith to be committed to you and your teaching as a servant to His Master.

I pray for the fire of your desire to save all mankind to inflame me so that I can witness to the Good News of Jesus Christ and be a channel for the salvation of mankind.

Lord, I want to burn for you before all peoples.

Jesus, meek and humble of heart, make my heart like unto Thine.

Amen.

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Chosen, Blessed, Broken, and Given

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 27 Mar 2024 00:00:00 -0500

In this episode, taken from the third season of the I See a Movement podcast, we are joined by Eric Gallagher as we discuss our own personal victories through struggles and crosses. We take a look at how suffering and trials give way to resurrection! We also reflect on the necessity of embracing our own brokenness and weaknesses, and how, by grace, this helps us to trust the Lord more and become better instruments of healing in the world. We also reflect on what it means to live a Eucharistic life as we discuss the necessity of embracing our own brokenness and weaknesses.

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Emmaus Teaches the Mass (MLMG Ep 24)

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Fri, 22 Mar 2024 00:00:00 -0500

Did you know the Road to Emmaus reveals a lot about our encounter with Christ in the Mass? This is one of Fred and Kara's favorite passages!

Checkout our new endeavor:[ I See a Movement](www.iseeamovement.com) today! It has videos of us, blogs, and resources for growing in your faith!

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God is in the Mess and in the Mass (MLMG Ep 23)

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Fri, 15 Mar 2024 00:00:00 -0500

In this testimony episode of MyLord and My God, with EmmaLee Miklosovic, she shares how God has called her out of perfectionism and loved her in her mess. That translates to her relationship with Jesus in the Eucharist: where he has pursued her heart as a romance. As LOVE himself.

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Struggles in the Interior Life

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 13 Mar 2024 00:00:00 -0500

In this third episode taken from the I See a Movement series on the apostolate, we discuss the reality of struggles and obstacles we face in the interior life. Why do these obstacles exist? How do we overcome them? Listen to find out!

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The Interior Life

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 06 Mar 2024 00:00:00 -0600

In this second episode taken from the I See a Movement series on the apostolate, we discuss the interior life and it's place within the apostolate of every believer. What is the interior life? What are some of the struggles we face as we strive to grow in the interior life? Listen to find out!

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Behold the Lamb (MLMG Ep 20)

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Fri, 01 Mar 2024 01:00:00 -0600

"Behold, the Lamb of God, who takes away the sin of the world!"
In this episode, by looking at the Scriptural meaning and themes of "the lamb," we can better understand the gravity of the words we hear every mass... but perhaps have never truly heard.
These words, spoken by John the Baptist (John 1:29), are familiar to us, as Catholics. We hear them at each mass as the priest raises the consecrated bread and wine high to the Heavens. But, as John spoke these words, they would have had familiar meaning to the believers of his time, as well! What did they hear in these words that led people to immediately follow Jesus (John 1:37)? Do we have ears to hear these connections?

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The Last Supper (MLMG Ep 22)

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Fri, 23 Feb 2024 00:00:00 -0600

The Institution of the Eucharist (Catholic Mass) comes at the Last Supper. In this episode, we bring all of the episodes that come before together to show how Jesus fulfills the Old Covenant, institutes the New, and gives us the "thank" offering that will continue for all of time in the Eucharist.

*Scriptures mentioned: *
Ex 19: 3-6
Ex 24: 7-8, 11
Jer 31: 31-33
Lk 22: 19-20
Mt 26: 26-28
Scripture showing expectation of a new worship in the New Covenant
Jer 33:11; Jer 17: 26.

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The Soul of the Apostolate

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 21 Feb 2024 00:00:00 -0600

We are joined by our good friend Eric Gallagher over the next five epsiodes on the apostolate and the interior life! This episode originally posted as part of the Substack platform/podcast we share with Eric, called I See a Movement! We thought this series would be a blessing to all of our Draw Near listeners on your Lenten journey. And of course... we also want you to check out https://www.iseeamovement.com/

In this episdoe, we begin by laying a foundation for this new season. Here we look at the foundational truth, that by grace and the power of the Holy Spirit at work in our souls, we are apostles. We take an honest look at what this means for our our lives; and discuss our tendency to want to be independent and in control. We look at the value and necessity of the interior life, and the role our relationship with Christ bears in the fruitfulness of our efforts. We also take a look at the importance of prayer and humility as the greatest strength.

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The Sacrifice of Our Lives (MLMG Ep 21)

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Fri, 16 Feb 2024 00:00:00 -0600

In this episode we are joined by our friend, catholic speaker, author, filmmaker, founder of the Science of Sainthood, and host of the Art of Catholic podcast, Matthew Leonard. What was the journey from being a Protestant pastor's kid to receiving Christ in the Eucharist like for Matthew? How did meeting one Catholic family who did "relational evangelization" well set him on a new path?

Matthew and Fred share what it is like to discover Catholic teaching, and how it led them both through an, at times, confusing process asking the Lord, "Who are you?" Why was the question of authority so critical in this process? This, too. is discussed.

We look at the "pedestal" that converts can sometimes be placed on, and offer some encouragement for cradle Catholics.

Matthew also describes the radical new way he encountered Christ in the Eucharist and the realization of becoming a part of a family that goes beyond his blood relations, and why that matters!

Finally, we look at the central question of our show: "How has your encounter with Christ in the Eucharist changed your life?" The answer to this question has everything to do with how we build our lives; what we are centered on (or more accurately, WHO we are rooted in). Should our encounter with Christ in the Eucharist be evident to those around us? If so, how? What is the role of sacrfice in a Eucharistic life? Listen to find out!

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DN Classics: Doing Lent... Well?

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 14 Feb 2024 00:00:00 -0600

Reaching back into "the vault" from a couple of years ago, we share one of our most popular Lenten episodes. If you think you are good at Lent… You are not. No one is good at Lent. But there is a good reason for this. Lent is often a challenge because it requires letting go of things that hinder us in following the Lord. It requires taking up the cross and denying ourselves for something much greater and more beautiful: a deeper encounter with the love and person of Jesus Christ. This helps us to begin to think more like Christ, to live more like Christ, to love more like Christ. But how do we do this?

In this episode we invite some of our friends to share some of their own thoughts and experiences of drawing near to the Lord during Lent.

Special Guests:

Link to our previous Lent episode, Why Give Up?

*Some of Kara and Fred’s tips: *

St John the Baptist: "he must increase, and I must decrease."
Pray to your guardian angel to "humiliate you interiorly"
Pray with this question: What is holding me back from growing in my relationship with Christ?
Hear more on this in our "Come Follow Me" episode.

From the segment with Sonja:
Sonja’s LOVE method for prayerful Scripture study

From the segment with Taylor:
If you are not doing the basic fundamentals of living your faith, start there!
Check out our "Made for Greatness" episode for more on this topic.

From the segment with Matthew:
Sign up for Matthew Leonard’s free Lenten study.

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I'll See You in the Eucharist (MLMG Ep 19)

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Fri, 09 Feb 2024 00:00:00 -0600

In this episode we are joined by one of the people that makes My Lord and My God (and the Draw Near apostolate) possible: John Fitzsimmons! In his testimony we hear how the legacy of faith has been handed down from one generation to the next; how encountering Christ in the Eucharist shaped his childhood and fostered in him a desire for more as a new father. We also hear how prioritizing that encounter with Christ in the Eucharist has shaped his family and the impact it has had on his children (two of which we are blessed to call friends). Finally, we see what great fruit "dragging your kids to daily Mass" can bear as John shares how his son Jimmy (seminarian) and his daughter, Mary Kate (entering religious life), are deepening his own faith by sharing with him their own encounter with Christ in the Eucharist!

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Wrestling with God: A Lectio Divina Reflection on Genesis 32

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 07 Feb 2024 00:00:00 -0600

In this episode we dive deep into one of the most perplexing passages in Scripture and reflect on its meaning and the implications for our own lives. What is this passage? Genesis 32:22-32, in which Jacob wrestles with God. In what ways is this passage an invitation for all of us? In what we ways do (and perhaps must) we also wrestle with God? How does this wrestling leave us changed? Listen to find out!

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Her Answered Prayer: Sonja Corbitt Testimony (MLMG Ep 18)

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Fri, 02 Feb 2024 00:00:00 -0600

In this episode, we are so grateful to be joined by our good friend, Sonja Corbitt! Here, Sonja shares with us her powerfully stirring testimony about how God led her to the answer to her prayer, and the longing of her heart: "Lord, I want to be closer to you!"

As always, Sonja shares from the heart with passion. She shares her journey of falling in love with Jesus in and through the Scriptures and how that led her into the Catholic Church.

Fred and Sonja also discuss the challenges and struggles they faced in making that journey toward the Eucharist; but, also how the sacrifice is worth it! Because in Christ, the deepest longing of our hearts can be found.

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As You Did in Egypt (MLMG Ep 17)

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Fri, 26 Jan 2024 00:00:00 -0600

St Augustine famously said, that in the Old Testament, the New Testament is concealed. And in the New Testament, the meaning of the Old Testament is revealed. The Catechism of the Catholic Church reminds us that, "All sacred Scripture is but one book, and this one book is Christ (CCC 134). We hear the St John the Baptist and other New Testament writers refer to Christ as the "Lamb of God." But what does this mean? St Paul refers to Christ as our new Passover Lamb (1 Cor 5:7). but again, what is the significance of this passage? What profound truth was the apostle, inspired by the Holy Spirit, desiring to reveal to us? In this episode we look at the Passover (when Israel was freed from Egyptian bondage) found in Exodus 12, and what it reveals to us about our reception of Christ in the Eucharist.

"By celebrating the Last Supper with his apostles in the course of the Passover meal, Jesus gave the Jewish Passover its definitive meaning. Jesus' passing over to his father by his death and Resurrection, the new Passover, is anticipated in the Supper and celebrated in the Eucharist, which fulfills the Jewish Passover and anticipates the final Passover of the Church in the glory of the kingdom" (CCC 1340).

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Jesus, I Trust In You

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 24 Jan 2024 00:00:00 -0600

In this episode, we share some exciting news! We also spend some time reflecting on one of our favorite prayers, the Litany of Trust. Continuing our "Lectio Series" by reflecting on the prayer itself, we look at what it means to "trust" in the Lord. How can we trust in hard times? How does God forge our trust and hope in Him in the midst of our day to day lives? Listen to find out!

Pray the Litany of Trust here!

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I AM the Bread of Life (MLMG Ep 16)

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Fri, 19 Jan 2024 00:00:00 -0600

Continuing our discussion from the episodes, Bread from Heaven and Feeding of the 5,000, in this episode we discuss the meaning of John 6 (particularly, the Bread of Life discourse). In this passage, Jesus says, “Truly, truly, I say to you, unless you eat the flesh of the Son of man and drink his blood, you have no life in you; he who eats my flesh and drinks my blood has eternal life, and I will raise him up at the last day. For my flesh is food indeed, and my blood is drink indeed." What does Jesus mean? Is this a metaphor? Does he mean to be taken literally? If so... what does it mean for us?

Bread of Life Discourse (from John 6)

22 On the next day the people who remained on the other side of the sea saw that there had been only one boat there, and that Jesus had not entered the boat with his disciples, but that his disciples had gone away alone. 23 However, boats from Tibe′ri-as came near the place where they ate the bread after the Lord had given thanks. 24 So when the people saw that Jesus was not there, nor his disciples, they themselves got into the boats and went to Caper′na-um, seeking Jesus.

25 When they found him on the other side of the sea, they said to him, “Rabbi, when did you come here?” 26 Jesus answered them, “Truly, truly, I say to you, you seek me, not because you saw signs, but because you ate your fill of the loaves. 27 Do not labor for the food which perishes, but for the food which endures to eternal life, which the Son of man will give to you; for on him has God the Father set his seal.” 28 Then they said to him, “What must we do, to be doing the works of God?” 29 Jesus answered them, “This is the work of God, that you believe in him whom he has sent.” 30 So they said to him, “Then what sign do you do, that we may see, and believe you? What work do you perform? 31 Our fathers ate the manna in the wilderness; as it is written, ‘He gave them bread from heaven to eat.’” 32 Jesus then said to them, “Truly, truly, I say to you, it was not Moses who gave you the bread from heaven; my Father gives you the true bread from heaven. 33 For the bread of God is that which comes down from heaven, and gives life to the world.” 34 They said to him, “Lord, give us this bread always.”

35 Jesus said to them, “I am the bread of life; he who comes to me shall not hunger, and he who believes in me shall never thirst. 36 But I said to you that you have seen me and yet do not believe. 37 All that the Father gives me will come to me; and him who comes to me I will not cast out. 38 For I have come down from heaven, not to do my own will, but the will of him who sent me; 39 and this is the will of him who sent me, that I should lose nothing of all that he has given me, but raise it up at the last day. 40 For this is the will of my Father, that every one who sees the Son and believes in him should have eternal life; and I will raise him up at the last day.”

41 The Jews then murmured at him, because he said, “I am the bread which came down from heaven.” 42 They said, “Is not this Jesus, the son of Joseph, whose father and mother we know? How does he now say, ‘I have come down from heaven’?” 43 Jesus answered them, “Do not murmur among yourselves. 44 No one can come to me unless the Father who sent me draws him; and I will raise him up at the last day. 45 It is written in the prophets, ‘And they shall all be taught by God.’ Every one who has heard and learned from the Father comes to me. 46 Not that any one has seen the Father except him who is from God; he has seen the Father. 47 Truly, truly, I say to you, he who believes has eternal life. 48 I am the bread of life. 49 Your fathers ate the manna in the wilderness, and they died. 50 This is the bread which comes down from heaven, that a man may eat of it and not die. 51 I am the living bread which came down from heaven; if any one eats of this bread, he will live for ever; and the bread which I shall give for the life of the world is my flesh.”

52 The Jews then disputed among themselves, saying, “How can this man give us his flesh to eat?” 53 So Jesus said to them, “Truly, truly, I say to you, unless you eat the flesh of the Son of man and drink his blood, you have no life in you; 54 he who eats my flesh and drinks my blood has eternal life, and I will raise him up at the last day. 55 For my flesh is food indeed, and my blood is drink indeed. 56 He who eats my flesh and drinks my blood abides in me, and I in him. 57 As the living Father sent me, and I live because of the Father, so he who eats me will live because of me. 58 This is the bread which came down from heaven, not such as the fathers ate and died; he who eats this bread will live for ever.” 59 This he said in the synagogue, as he taught at Caper′na-um.

60 Many of his disciples, when they heard it, said, “This is a hard saying; who can listen to it?” 61 But Jesus, knowing in himself that his disciples murmured at it, said to them, “Do you take offense at this? 62 Then what if you were to see the Son of man ascending where he was before?[e] 63 It is the spirit that gives life, the flesh is of no avail; the words that I have spoken to you are spirit and life. 64 But there are some of you that do not believe.” For Jesus knew from the first who those were that did not believe, and who it was that should betray him. 65 And he said, “This is why I told you that no one can come to me unless it is granted him by the Father.”

66 After this many of his disciples drew back and no longer went about with him. 67 Jesus said to the twelve, “Will you also go away?” 68 Simon Peter answered him, “Lord, to whom shall we go? You have the words of eternal life; 69 and we have believed, and have come to know, that you are the Holy One of God.” 70 Jesus answered them, “Did I not choose you, the twelve, and one of you is a devil?” 71 He spoke of Judas the son of Simon Iscariot, for he, one of the twelve, was to betray him.

The Words of St Ignatius of Antioch:
“Take note of those who hold heterodox opinions on the grace of Jesus Christ which has come to us, and see how contrary their opinions are to the mind of God. . . . They abstain from the Eucharist and from prayer because they do not confess that the Eucharist is the flesh of our Savior Jesus Christ, flesh which suffered for our sins and which that Father, in his goodness, raised up again. They who deny the gift of God are perishing in their disputes” (Letter to the Smyrnaeans 6:2–7:1)

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I Was Made to Be A Priest (MLMG Ep 15)

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Fri, 12 Jan 2024 00:00:00 -0600

When God calls your heart, you answer. Fr. Andrew Auer of St. Louis shares how through an invitation to attend weekly mass, God changed his heart. Father's encounter with Christ in the mass at 16 years old led him to leave sin and desire holiness, and it ultimately led him to the priesthood.
In this episode Fred, Kara, and Father Auer also discuss God's desire for us to approach him with the security and reliance of that like a child to a parent.

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New Day's Resolution

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 10 Jan 2024 03:30:00 -0600

In this episode, we reflect on New Year's Resolutions... Or, more accurately, "New Day's Resolutions" and the idea that the Lord's mercies are new every morning. While there is great value in in resolutions for a new year, should we also place an emphasis on the hope of a new day, every day? How do we evaluate the "success" of our resolutions? How do we avoid the temptation to be overly hard on our selves when we believe we fall short? Listen to find out!

*The Quote That Inspired This Episode: *
“The beginning of a new year is an opportunity to make a new start in our lives.”
― St. Josemaria Escriva

Scriptures Mentioned in This Episode:
Psalm 5:3
O Lord, in the morning thou dost hear my voice;
in the morning I prepare a sacrifice for thee, and watch.

Isaiah 43:18-19
“Remember not the former things,
nor consider the things of old.
Behold, I am doing a new thing;
now it springs forth, do you not perceive it?
I will make a way in the wilderness
and rivers in the desert.

Eph 4:21-23
assuming that you have heard about him and were taught in him, as the truth is in Jesus. 22 Put off your old nature which belongs to your former manner of life and is corrupt through deceitful lusts, 23 and be renewed in the spirit of your minds,

Jer 29:11-13
For I know the plans I have for you, says the Lord, plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope. 12 Then you will call upon me and come and pray to me, and I will hear you. 13 You will seek me and find me; when you seek me with all your heart,

Phil 3:13-15
Brethren, I do not consider that I have made it my own; but one thing I do, forgetting what lies behind and straining forward to what lies ahead, 14 I press on toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus. 15 Let those of us who are mature be thus minded; and if in anything you are otherwise minded, God will reveal that also to you.

Isa 40:31
but they who wait for the Lord shall renew their strength,
they shall mount up with wings like eagles,
they shall run and not be weary,
they shall walk and not faint.

Prov 23:17-18
Let not your heart envy sinners,
but continue in the fear of the Lord all the day.
Surely there is a future,
and your hope will not be cut off.

Lam 3:22-23
The steadfast love of the Lord never ceases,
his mercies never come to an end;
they are new every morning;
great is thy faithfulness.

Rev 21:5
And he who sat upon the throne said, “Behold, I make all things new.” Also he said, “Write this, for these words are trustworthy and true.”

Col 3:9-17
Do not lie to one another, seeing that you have put off the old nature with its practices and have put on the new nature, which is being renewed in knowledge after the image of its creator. Here there cannot be Greek and Jew, circumcised and uncircumcised, barbarian, Scythian, slave, free man, but Christ is all, and in all.
Put on then, as God’s chosen ones, holy and beloved, compassion, kindness, lowliness, meekness, and patience, forbearing one another and, if one has a complaint against another, forgiving each other; as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive. And above all these put on love, which binds everything together in perfect harmony. And let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, to which indeed you were called in the one body. And be thankful. Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly, as you teach and admonish one another in all wisdom, and as you sing psalms and hymns and spiritual songs with thankfulness in your hearts to God. And whatever you do, in word or deed, do everything in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him.

Phil 4:6
Have no anxiety about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God.

John 13:34-35
A new commandment[a] I give to you, that you love one another; even as I have loved you, that you also love one another. 35 By this all men will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.”

James 1:17
Every good endowment and every perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of lights with whom there is no variation or shadow due to change.

1 Peter 5:7
Cast all your anxieties on him, for he cares about you.

Psalm 20:4
May he grant you your heart’s desire,
and fulfil all your plans!

2 Cor 5:17
Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; the old has passed away, behold, the new has come.

Prov 3:5-6
Trust in the Lord with all your heart,
and do not rely on your own insight.
In all your ways acknowledge him,
and he will make straight your paths.

Serenity Prayer:
O God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change the courage to change the things I can and the wisdom to know the difference.
Living one day at a time, enjoying one moment at a time. Accepting hardships as the pathway to peace. Taking, as he did, the sinful world as it is, not as I would have it. Trusting that he will make all things right if I surrender to His will; that I may be reasonably happy in this life, and supremely happy with Him forever.

*Prayer from Fred's Journal: *
Blessed is the man who delights in the Lord. In all your ways acknowledge him and he will make your paths straight. Lord, help me to delight in you today. When my strength is fading, be my strength. Lord, stay with me for I am weak and without you I can accomplish nothing. Lord, I know you will be with me; for I know you will never leave me nor forsake me; and nothing can separate me from your love. But, very often I will forget this today. I will forget you. But, thank you Lord that you do not forget about me! Lord, this day, help me to see you in the frustrations; in the joys, in the sufferings; in the situations that require patience, that require a gentle response. Keep me from my anger; help me to love those you have given me to love today.

Prayers Mentioned in This Episode:
Litany of Humility

St Patrick's Breastplate

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Feeding the 5000 (MLMG Ep 14)

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Fri, 05 Jan 2024 02:00:00 -0600

Serving as a "bridge" between our last episode, Bread from Heaven, and our discussion on the Bread of Life discourse (John 6); this week we take up the topic of the miracle of the feeding of the 5,000. From the 5 loaves of bread and 2 fish, Jesus multiplied the available food such that the crowd that was following him could "eat their fill." Yet, 12 baskets remained leftover. How is this possible? What was John trying to reveal to us about Jesus Christ? What is significant about the language the Gospel writer uses and what are the parallels that can be drawn? How does this miracle point ultimately to the Eucharist? Listen to find out!

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Bread from Heaven (MLMG Ep 13)

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Fri, 29 Dec 2023 01:00:00 -0600

Being a podcast on the Eucharist, we wanted to take up the OT account of the manna in the desert (Exodus 16). Referenced in the New Testament several times (especially in John 6). We will be devoting a few episodes to the "Bread of Life Discourse (John 6), but we wanted to first lay a good foundation and highlight some key passages in the book of Exodus, as well as the parallels that can be drawn in the New Testament and the way the reception of the "Bread from Heaven" should shape the way we live our lives.

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Giving the Vineyard to "Others"-priesthood (MLMG Ep 11)

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Fri, 22 Dec 2023 01:00:00 -0600

Priests have been given authority by God to carry on the mission of Jesus Christ through His Church -- the Catholic Church.
There are often questions about why there is a priesthood. Why are priests needed instead of a simple preacher or pastor? And by whose authority do priests change bread and wine in Jesus' body and blood?
While there is Tradition for this, the priesthood is instituted in Scripture! It is not a made up construct by the Catholic Church but, rather, given by Jesus Christ.
Listen to this episode of the My Lord & My God podcast to hear where the priesthood is found in Scripture or biblical teaching.

Until the King Returns (Draw Near episode on the papacy)

Scriptures referenced in this episode: (RSV translation)

2 Thessalonians 2:15
John 20:21
2 Corinthians 3:14
Isaiah 66:20-21
Isaiah 56:6
Matthew 18:18
Matthew 21:23; 33-46
Isaiah 5:1-7
Matthew 9:34-10:6 (I think I said "Luke 9"... I meant Matthew)
Acts 1:12, 17, 20

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Love Builds the Church: a Lectio of 1 Cor 13

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 20 Dec 2023 01:30:00 -0600

LOVE is the root of renewal of heart, renewal in the Church, and renewal in the world. "Love" builds the Church. This is a topic we have wanted to take up for a LONG time. We share personal reflections or this passage and how God has been moving in our hearts and lives recently.

_Come, Holy Spirit, fill the hearts of Thy faithful and kindle in them the fire of Thy love. Send forth Thy Spirit and they shall be created. And Thou shalt renew the face of the earth.
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Christmas Classic: Xmas and Advent Traditions

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Mon, 18 Dec 2023 02:00:00 -0600

Pulling from the Draw Near archive for this one, please enjoy this classic "Draw Near Christmas Spectacular" where we talk about our favorite Christmas memories and share some of our families' traditions. BONUS: hear all new year-end updates.
Thank you to everyone for making this year one filled with blessings. Blessing this Advent, Merry Christmas, and a Happy New Year!

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"Gratitude" COVER by Fred and Kara

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Fri, 15 Dec 2023 12:00:00 -0600

We thought we would share some bonus content: us making some music in the studio. Please enjoy our cover of one of our favorite songs: Bethel Worship's Gratitude.

Song written by: Benjamin Hastings, Brandon Lake, and Dante Bowe

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Your Heart is a Heaven For Him (MLMG Ep 12)

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Fri, 15 Dec 2023 02:00:00 -0600

In this episode, we share with listeners one of our "I Believe in Love" Book Study discussions, centered on the Eucharist! We regularly lead studies on this book and in many ways, its a book that changed our lives. We believe that the words of Fr d'Elbee, rooted in the spirituality of St Therese of Lisieux, will be a blessing to you! We begin my looking at the words of Fr d'Elbee, "Give Him the joy of descending upon your heart, which is a heaven for Him!"

In our show, we focus a lot on OUR encounter with Christ in the Eucharist. Yet, in communion, God desires not only that we encounter Him, but He also desires to encounter us! Not only does He dwell in us, but in the Eucharist, Christ becomes one with us! What are the implications of this profound mystery? How should it shape the way we live our lives and how we prepare our hearts for Mass? What does it reveal about God's great love for us? Listen to find out!

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DN Classics: There's Something About Mary

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Fri, 08 Dec 2023 00:00:00 -0600

Reposting one of our most popular episodes ever in honor of the Blessed Virgin Mary on her feast day (December 8). In the deeply personal first half of this episode, Fred and Kara reflect on their relationship with Mary, and how that has changed and grown over the years. Fred shares more of his testimony about converting to Catholicism and the role Mary played in that process. He also reflects on issues such as identity, childhood trauma, mistrust, and difficult family experiences and how these can effect our relationship with God; as well as with Mary. He shares the story of his relationship with Mary, and how she has helped him to find healing. Christ, while bleeding out and dying on the Cross, said to his Mother, “Behold your son;” and to his beloved disciple, “Behold your Mother.” Scripture then affirms that from that day, this beloved disciple “took her into his home.” We to, as beloved disciples must take her into our homes, and allow the love of the Mother of God to penetrate our hearts as only that of a faithful mother can. Her heart is to draw us near to the source of peace that surpasses all understanding: her son, our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.

Questions answered in the second half:

How do we know Mary was special or set apart?
What is the Immaculate Conception?
What is Original Sin? Where is that in Scripture?
Where is Mary’s Immaculate Conception found in Scripture?

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To Each is Given: Discovering the Charismatic Gifts

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 06 Dec 2023 00:15:00 -0600

"To Each is Given a manifestation of the Spirit" (1 Cor 12:7). We are all given supernatural gifts, or "charisms," for the common good of the Church. Each person has a purpose in the renewal and building up of the Body of Christ. Where can you begin in your process of discerning? Listen to hear about Fred and Kara's discernment and how to begin yours!

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Death Does Not Have the Final Say - Homily by Fr Patrick Behm

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Mon, 04 Dec 2023 06:00:00 -0600

Funeral for Jeffry Michael Behm - Homily by Fr Patrick Behm

As many of our listeners are aware, the Behm family has fought a great battle over the last year as the result of a cancer diagnosis for Jeffry Behm, the beloved husband of Julia, and father of Fr Patrick and Tom Behm. Throughout that battle the witness of the great faith the family has demonstrated has been nothing short of inspiring. In this homily, Fr Behm reflects on death, suffering, and the confidence the faithful should have in the face of similar trials: we do not grieve as those without hope.

Eternal rest grant unto him, O Lord, and let perpetual light shine upon him. May the souls of the faithful departed, through the mercy of God, rest in peace!

Amen

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My Baptist Friends Led Me to Priesthood (MLMG Ep 10)

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Fri, 01 Dec 2023 01:00:00 -0600

In this episode we are joined by the co-host of the Outcast Catholic podcast, Fr Travis Crotty. In this "testimony" episode, we root our discussion in one of the foundational questions for our show: How has your encounter with Christ in the Eucharist changed your life? Of course, this is not merely a once in a life time encounter, because the Lord is always seeking to encounter us and pour out his love into our hearts; and inviting us to go deeper in that same love.

This invitation, found in the Eucharist, celebrated at every Mass, is the very source of stability that helped Fr Travis to overcome difficulty and suffering during his teenage years.

So what was it then that made him take up the call to the priesthood? To dedicate his life to helping others to encounter Christ in the Eucharist? It all began with some Baptist friends challenging him for his Catholic faith. This pressure was actually a catalyst for conversion to a deeper faith rooted in, the Eucharist. So many can give in to the temptation to slip away from the Catholic faith when challenged. Fr Travis provides a great example of how to respond in these situations.

How does one maintain a fervor and love for the Eucharist? How should understanding the reality of the Christ being present in the Eucharist shape the way we live our lives and approach the world around us? Listen to find out!

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Authentic Christian Service (Homily by Fr. Behm: Solemnity of Jesus Christ, King of the Universe)

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Mon, 27 Nov 2023 15:00:00 -0600

Father Behm, as always, speaks truth with love helping us to Draw Near to God and grow in Christian charity. We are meant to be "with Jesus" through others NOT just to those outside our community on the occasionaly mission trip, but every day with our community. Mother Teresa once said when asked how to serve the poor, "Go home and love your family."

3 characteristics of Authentic Christian service:

Personal: encounter with another human being
Christocentric: See the face of Jesus Christ in every person we encounter
Begin with those closest to us

_We are blessed to have Fr. Patrick Behm, has joined us as a guest contributor! We will be posting some of his homilies as bonus content, confident that they will provide some great spiritual nourishment! Check out our website (under the blog tab) to find more of his homilies from week to week! We will also (after Thanksgiving) have small group questions available for each homily!
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Lord, I am Not Worthy (MLMG Ep 9)

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Fri, 24 Nov 2023 02:00:00 -0600

In this episode, we reflect on the words of Jesus in John 6:25 - 70, and build on the foundation of God's own example of humility demonstrated in the Person of Jesus Christ (discussed in the previous episode). St Paul reminds us, "Have this mind among yourselves, which is yours in Christ Jesus." With that, he roots this encouragement in the example of the Lord's own humility. What does humility have to do with the Eucharist? How do we become one with Christ in the Eucharist? How do we live a Eucharistic life of humility? What should this "Eucharistic life of humility" look like? Listen to find out!

Philippians 2:1-11
So if there is any encouragement in Christ, any incentive of love, any participation in the Spirit, any affection and sympathy, complete my joy by being of the same mind, having the same love, being in full accord and of one mind. Do nothing from selfishness or conceit, but in humility count others better than yourselves. Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others. Have this mind among yourselves, which is yours in Christ Jesus, who, though he was in the form of God, did not count equality with God a thing to be grasped, but emptied himself, taking the form of a servant, being born in the likeness of men. And being found in human form he humbled himself and became obedient unto death, even death on a cross. Therefore God has highly exalted him and bestowed on him the name which is above every name, that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, in heaven and on earth and under the earth, and every tongue confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father.

1 Corinthians 13:4 - 7
Love is patient and kind; love is not jealous or boastful; it is not arrogant or rude. Love does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrong, but rejoices in the right. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.

Stay With Me - Prayer of St Padre Pio

Stay with me, Lord, for it is necessary to have You present so that I do not forget You. You know how easily I abandon You.

Stay with me, Lord, because I am weak
and I need Your strength,
that I may not fall so often.

Stay with me, Lord, for You are my life,
and without You, I am without fervor.

Stay with me, Lord, for You are my light,
and without You, I am in darkness.

Stay with me, Lord, to show me Your will.

Stay with me, Lord, so that I hear Your voice
and follow You.

Stay with me, Lord, for I desire to love You
very much, and always be in Your company.

Stay with me, Lord, if You wish me to be faithful to You.

Stay with me, Lord, for as poor as my soul is,
I want it to be a place of consolation for You, a nest of love.

It is getting late and death approaches,
I fear the darkness, the temptations, the dryness, the cross, the sorrows.
O how I need You, my Jesus, in this night of exile!

Stay with me tonight, Jesus, in life with all it’s dangers. I need You.

Stay with me, Lord, because at the hour of my death, I want to remain united to You,
if not by communion, at least by grace and love.

Stay with me, Jesus, I do not ask for divine consolation, because I do not merit it,
but the gift of Your Presence, oh yes, I ask this of You!

Stay with me, Lord, for it is You alone I look for, Your Love, Your Grace, Your Will, Your Heart,
Your Spirit, because I love You and ask no other reward but to love You more and more.

With a firm love, I will love You with all my heart while on earth
and continue to love You perfectly during all eternity. Amen

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God Humbled Himself (MLMG Ep 8)

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Fri, 24 Nov 2023 01:00:00 -0600

"Who am I that you are mindful of me?" These are the words of Scripture reflecting on the human experience in relationship to God and his great love for, and His mindfulness of, each one of us. His Love is what holds us together. He is Creator of all the universe and yet he chooses to come and dwell among us in the Incarnation. By the power of the Holy Spirit, he becomes present in the Eucharist. Body, Blood, Soul and Divinity: He further humbles Himself that he may dwell in us in the form of bread and wine.

What can we learn about God's humility in reflecting on the "kenosis" (self-emptying) of God found in Phillipians 2? What can we learn from the examples of humility we find in the life of Christ? And how about the examples of humility in His Passion, Death and Resurrection? What is "true humility?" Finally, what does all of this have to do with the Eucharist? Listen to find out!

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Dad Joke Rematch

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 22 Nov 2023 00:00:00 -0600

Back by popular demand, enjoy the "dad joke" challenge. We have a rematch between Fred Shellabarger and Phillip Grothus, with Kara as the judge. Who do you think will take the title this time?

Check out the first judged "dad joke challenge" here.

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Heaven: What God Has Planned for Those Who Love Him - Homily with Fr Patrick Behm (33rd Sunday in Ordinary Time)

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Mon, 20 Nov 2023 00:00:00 -0600

We are blessed to share that our good friend and frequent guest, Fr Patrick Behm, has joined us as a guest contributor! We will be posting some of his homilies as bonus content, confident that they will provide some great spiritual nourishment! Check out our website (under the blog tab) to find more of his homilies from week to week! We will also (after Thanksgiving) have small group questions available for each homily!

This week, Fr Behm continues his series on the Four Last Things with a homily on Heaven!

Read the readings for the 33rd Sunday in Ordinary Time here!

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The God Who Sees: Lectio of Genesis 16

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 15 Nov 2023 00:00:00 -0600

We are back! (Again)! We are back in the studio TOGETHER with a new episode! Here we share some updates on our lives, where we are and what God has been doing in our hearts and in our lives over the last month and a half. Very much the fruit of prayer, in this episode, we return to our Lectio Divina series and reflect on Genesis 16, the story of Hagar, and what we can be sure of in our relationship with God during dark, difficult and dry seasons.

One thing we are sure of... We don't know who needs to hear this, but if you are finding yourself in a place of feeling like life has just happened to you, maybe right now circumstances have presented themselves that leave you feeling bruised and broken, maybe even through no fault of your own, feeling like it's hard to get up, maybe you are tired, things seem too hard to fix, you are losing hope... If that is you, take courage! Take comfort. THERE IS A GOD WHO SEES!

He sees. He is with you. You may think He is far, but He has never been closer. Call out to Him!

Pray this prayer with us:
"Heavenly Father, I know you see. You see my hurts, my scars, my falls. Help me to know and believe that you are with me. Help me to know your love. That I am your beloved child and you see me. Lord, you say, "Come to me all who are burdened and heavy ladened and I will give you rest." Lord, I give you all my burdens. I lay them at your feet. You see it all. You know me. Lord, stay with me. Fill me with your love and help me to know your peace."

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Purgatory: Letting Our Eyes Adjust to the Light - Homily with Fr Patrick Behm (32nd Sunday in Ordinary Time)

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Mon, 13 Nov 2023 08:00:00 -0600

We are blessed to share that our good friend and frequent guest, Fr Patrick Behm, has joined us as a guest contributor! We will be posting some of his homilies as bonus content, confident that they will provide some great spiritual nourishment! Check out our website (under the blog tab) to find more of his homilies from week to week! We will also have small group questions available for each homily!

This week, Fr Behm continues his series on the Four Last Things with a homily on Purgatory.

Read the readings for the 32nd Sunday in Ordinary Time here!

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Is Mass Boring A Priest Responds (MLMG Ep 7)

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Fri, 10 Nov 2023 02:00:00 -0600

Continuing the discussion from the previous episode on the often heard statement, "Mass is boring," we thought it would be good to hear from a priest who celebrates Mass daily. What is his experience of the Holy Mass? What is his perspective on this? What potential obstacles to our participation in the Mass does he see and how might they be overcome? How might we enter into the sacred mystery of the Mass more fully engaged? Hear from our good friend, Fr Patrick Behm on this most important topic.

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Is Mass Boring? (MLMG Ep 6)

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Fri, 10 Nov 2023 01:00:00 -0600

Catholic Mass is beautiful! Absolutely. Heaven meeting earth. The angels join us in offering praise to the Lord. God Himself, our savior and Lord Jesus Christ is fully present. In the Scriptures, in each one of us gathered together, and even more profoundly, in the Eucharist. But... as many of us have heard... or even thought... it can also be boring. Is there shame in admitting that? Have you ever had that thought? As humans, we experience the world through our senses. But what if what we see, hear, and smell at Mass bores us? How can we enter into the Mass more fully? This is the topic we take up in this first episode of a two part series on, "Is Mass Boring?"

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Hell: Understanding What's At Stake - Homily with Fr Patrick Behm (31st Sunday in Ordinary Time)

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Sun, 05 Nov 2023 08:00:00 -0600

We are blessed to share that our good friend and frequent guest, Fr Patrick Behm, has joined us as a guest contributor! We will be posting some of his homilies as bonus content, confident that they will provide some great spiritual nourishment! Check out our website (under the blog tab) to find more of his homilies from week to week! We will also have small group questions available for each homily!

Read the readings for the 31st Sunday in Ordinary Time here!

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Fred's Testimony: From Heathen to Heaven (MLMG Ep 5)

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Fri, 27 Oct 2023 02:00:00 -0500

What led a "professional heathen" to an encounter with Jesus Christ? How did merely "looking for a church to get married in" lead to a radical conversion that gave way to a quest for the fullness of faith and desire for truth? In this episode Fred tells the story of his "tale of two conversions" and recounts how a desire for a deeper encounter with Christ led him into the Catholic Church. Fred also recounts his First Communion and how that has shaped his reception of Communion ever since that first moment. He also recounts the challenges he faced coming into the Catholic Church and why he would do it all over again. As he states, "For me, receiving Christ in the Eucharist was the end of a lifelong journey; I found what I had been looking for my whole life. But, it was also more than that. It was also the commissioning for a new journey. A mission; sharing the love of Christ that I have found in the Eucharist with others."

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Kara's Testimony: "I Am Here" (MLMG Ep 4)

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Fri, 27 Oct 2023 01:00:00 -0500

God deeply desires our love, just as he gives his love to us. He draws us to a deeper encounter with Christ through the Eucharist. This is exactly what happened in Kara Kardell's life. From a lukewarm Catholic with every opportunity to leave the Faith to a Catholic in love with God and the Church, tune in to this episode to hear her testimony of how her life was changed one night in Adoration.

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Greatness Is... What you were made for

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Tue, 24 Oct 2023 05:00:00 -0500

Once again, Fred invites you into his morning routine. The obligatory coffee and a reflection on the call to holiness and mission, the purpose for which we were created, and how God desires to work in our lives. Drawing on the words of Pope Benedict XVI, Scripture, the Catechism, and the lives and teachings of the saints, we pray this reflection will help you to begin your day, the right way! Listen to find out what that means! :)

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BONUS: The Book of Philippians

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Fri, 20 Oct 2023 07:00:00 -0500

As we have mentioned in the past, Fred's favorite Scripture passage... Literally, the Book of Philippians. We have teased posting a simple recording, reading the Philippians. So, as he sipped his coffee this morning, and prepared for the day, Fred thought, "Why not today!" So, we hope you enjoy!

Take some time to reflect on the wisdom the Lord offers us through St Paul; four simple chapters on living the Christian life well. And a great way to start the day.

The reading comes from the RSVCE.

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Being the Right Kind of Ass: A Reflection on Num 22

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Tue, 17 Oct 2023 01:00:00 -0500

In this at times humorous, but always heartfelt (and honest) reflection, Fred brings our "Hearing God's Voice" series to a close by sharing some insights from the story of Balaam and his talking... @$$... er... eh... donkey. What can we learn about the Christian life, hearing the Lord's voice and the importance of relationships? Listen to find out!

You can read the story of Balaam in: Num 22:22-35

Matt 22:36-40 Love God. Love Neighbor

1 John 4:20 Love of God and love of neighbor go hand in hand.

“A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another; even as I have loved you, that you also love one another. By this all men will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.” (Jn 13:34-35)

No greater love: John 15:12-13

Thes 5:11 Therefore encourage one another and build one another up…

Eph 4:29 Let no evil talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for edifying, as fits the occasion, that it may impart grace to those who hear.

Gal 6:2 “Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ.” What is that law? Love God. Love neighbor.

Prov 27:17 As iron sharpens iron, so one man sharpens another.

Listen to the "Saying Goodbye" episode here!

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Encountering Christ in Adoration w/ Tim Glemkowsi (MLMG Ep 3)

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Fri, 13 Oct 2023 02:00:00 -0500

In this second part of a two part discussion, we are joined by Tim Glemkowski, who is helping to lead the Eucharistic Revival in the United States. In this episode, Tim shares his own profound encounter with Christ in the Eucharist and the very heart and foundation of the national Eucharistic Revival efforts led by the USCCB.

Learn more about Tim Glemkowski: https://www.timglemkowski.com/ and the L'Alto Catholic Institute: https://www.laltocatholic.com/new-page-2

Visit the Eucharistic Revival landing page here: https://www.eucharisticrevival.org/

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Eucharistic Revival w/Tim Glemkowski (MLMG Ep 2)

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Fri, 13 Oct 2023 01:00:00 -0500

In this first part of a two part discussion, we are joined by Tim Glemkowski, who is helping to lead the Eucharistic Revival in the United States. What is the Eucharistic Revival? How did it come about and is it necessary? What does it have to do with the mission and identity of the Church? And, how can the average lay person get involved? These are some of the many questions we seek to answer as we sit down to discuss this generational moment and growing national movement.

Learn more about Tim Glemkowski: https://www.timglemkowski.com/ and the L'Alto Catholic Institute: https://www.laltocatholic.com/new-page-2

Visit the Eucharistic Revival landing page here: https://www.eucharisticrevival.org/

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The Still Small Voice: Finding God in Silence

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 04 Oct 2023 00:15:00 -0500

Why are so many uncomfortable with silence? We live in a world where there is always noise. There's always something to consume. We are never without entertainment. However, God is found in the silence; the still small voice. Why is this both scary and amazing? How can we set aside silence in our lives?

The Catholic Gentleman: "The practice of silence for lay people"
I See a Movement article referenced to resist the temptation to be nagative

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An Invitation and a Challenge to Abide

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Sat, 30 Sep 2023 11:00:00 -0500

Surprise! We've got some Saturday morning bonus content for you! Fred provides an update on what is coming up in the next week, shares some news, and finally offers a reflection on what it means (well... at least SOME of what it means) to ABIDE!

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Doubting Thomas (MLMG Ep. 1)

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 27 Sep 2023 00:45:00 -0500

Episode 1 of My Lord and My God: Doubting Thomas. MLMG is a show on the Eucharist that will make it's way over to be hosted on the Draw Near podcast page, too! Enjoy this additional weekly content, and if you're already a MLMG listener, enjoy these re-runs!

In our very first episode, we take some time to reflect on the words of St Thomas, "My Lord and My God." He speaks these words after his famous doubt... "Unless I stick my fingers in his wounds I will not believe." Why did Thomas say this? What can we learn from him? How is St Thomas' encounter with the risen Christ similar to what we are invited into every time we attend Mass and receive Communion? These are just some of the topics we will explore in this episode!

My Lord & My God website.

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Trailer: My Lord and My God

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 27 Sep 2023 00:30:00 -0500

The hosts of Draw Near, Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell, have a second show, My Lord & My God, focused on the Eucharist! This show is based on the words of St. Thomas. Over the next few months, this show will make it's way over to be hosted on the Draw Near podcast page, too! Enjoy this additional weekly content, and if you're already a MLMG listener, enjoy these re-runs!

My Lord & My God website.

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One Year Later: What happened after quitting our jobs?

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 20 Sep 2023 00:15:00 -0500

What has this past year held for Fred, Kara, and their families? How has God worked and How has he spoken?

I See a Movement vision of Draw Near

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Four Steps to Hearing God's Voice

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Mon, 04 Sep 2023 00:00:00 -0500

This episode serves as a companion and follow up to our "Does God Speak to Me?" episode. Here we are joined by Julie Storr, from Lectio the Liturgy. Julie presented at our recent Draw Near Retreat in which the theme was, "Hearing God's Voice." Julie offers some great practical steps for not only hearing the Lord's voice, but also building a lifestyle in which a relationship with God characterized by talking with your loving Father is not just a wish, but an actual lived experience, rooted in prayer, in Scripture, and in the life of the Holy Spirit.

Our journey with the Lord is one that is lived step by step! So many effective spiritual disciplines that help us grow in the life of prayer and relationship with Christ walk us through a process of steps (e.g. Lectio Divina, Ignatian Discernment, the ACTS prayer method, etc). If you are looking for a way to grow deeper in your relationship with Christ, if you are not sure if you have ever heard the Lord speak, this may just be a great place to start!

This four step method to hearing God's voice comes from Habakkuk 2:1-2
"I will take my stand at my watchpost and station myself on the tower, and look out to see what he will say to me, and what I will answer concering my complaint. And the LORD answered me: "Write the vision; make it plain on tablets, so he may run who reads it.""

Step 1
Quiet Your Heart and Mind
Poistion yourself in faith to hear. I can hear Jesus' voice because he said so (Jn 10:1-5; Jn 1-:27)

Step 2
Put Yourself in Jesus' Presence
Prepare and quiet yourself to receive. Focus your spiritual eyes on what Jesus wants to give you. Use Scripture, music, art, to help reset your mind.
Ask God direct questions. Ask and you shall receive! (Mt 7:7)
(e.g. "What do you want me to know right now?" "How do you want to love me today?" "Who have you given me to love today?"

Step 3
Pay Attention
Pay attention to the spontaneous thougths, images or feelings in your heart that flow like a stream.

Step 4
Honor God's Words
Honor what the Lord has spoken by writing down what you receive. Do not doubt, just write.

This four step method was adapted from Enounter Ministries and the book, The Four Keys to Hearing God's Voice.

This adaptation is prepared and provided by Julie Storr. Learn more about her ministry by visiting [lectiotheliturgy.com](lectiotheliturgy.com)

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Hearing God: Ask and You Shall Receive

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Sat, 02 Sep 2023 00:15:00 -0500

This shorty serves as a follow-up to the episode, "Does God Speak to Me?" Here, Kara offers two practical tips for your spiritual life to grow in your ability to hear God's voice and familiarity with his voice.

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Hearing God: Does God Speak to Me?

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 30 Aug 2023 00:00:00 -0500

We are back!!! In this episode, we reflect on our experiences coming back from our summer "break", unplanned home renovations and being a sheep. In all these things, the Lord was speaking! But what do we mean by the Lord was "speaking?" What does it mean to hear the Lord's voice? Is hearing the Lord's voice something we all can do? What does this have to do with sheep and our identity? These are the questions we seek to answer in the first of a series on "Hearing the Lord's Voice." Hearing the Lord's voice is not a privilege to be earned, but rather an inheritance, a promise from our loving Father. As such, we hope this series will help you grow in your relationship with the Lord, and hear the voice of our Shepherd.

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BONUS: Revelation Song (Cover Song)

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Thu, 08 Jun 2023 19:00:00 -0500

Revelation Song by Kari Jobe (Cover by Fred and Kara with Draw Near)
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Behind the Scenes BLOOPERS!

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 07 Jun 2023 00:15:00 -0500

The long awaited blooper reel is here! Take a few minutes out of your day to have a good laugh with us; you won't regret it. ;)
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What Makes Us Different? (ISAM PREVIEW 1: Ep. 1)

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Fri, 26 May 2023 08:15:00 -0500

We have some exciting news to share with our listeners!

We have partnered with our long time ministry colleague and friend Eric Gallagher in forming a ministry apostolate. Phase 1 of this effort, launches on the Feast of Pentecost: May 28, 2023! Much more to come as it is not simply a podcast!

Draw Near listeners may recognize that the name sounds familiar. That's because the three of us drew inspiration from what we have seen and witnessed in our many years of combined ministry experience, in our time forming disciples, and of course in our own seeking to grow in relationship with Christ. We also drew inspiration from this: https://www.drawnear.me/blog/iseeamovement

You will hear more about this in our first two episodes which launch on Pentecost! In the meantime, enjoy these previews!

You can find the I See a Movement (ISAM) podcast here: https://iseeamovement.fireside.fm/ and on your favorite podcast apps!

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Be Like Lincoln (ISAM PREVIEW 2: Ep.1)

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Fri, 26 May 2023 08:00:00 -0500

We have some exciting news to share with our listeners!

You will hear more about this in our first two episodes which launch on Pentecost! In the meantime, enjoy these previews!

You can find the I See a Movement (ISAM) podcast here: https://iseeamovement.fireside.fm/ and on your favorite podcast apps!

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The Holy Spirit and Hope (ISAM PREVIEW 3: Ep. 1)

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Fri, 26 May 2023 07:45:00 -0500

We have some exciting news to share with our listeners!

You will hear more about this in our first two episodes which launch on Pentecost! In the meantime, enjoy these previews!

You can find the I See a Movement (ISAM) podcast here: https://iseeamovement.fireside.fm/ and on your favorite podcast apps!

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A Step of Faith (ISAM PREVIEW 1: Ep. 2)

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Fri, 26 May 2023 07:30:00 -0500

We have some exciting news to share with our listeners!

You will hear more about this in our first two episodes which launch on Pentecost! In the meantime, enjoy these previews!

You can find the I See a Movement (ISAM) podcast here: https://iseeamovement.fireside.fm/ and on your favorite podcast apps!

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Swimming Upstream (ISAM PREVIEW 2: Ep. 2)

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Fri, 26 May 2023 07:15:00 -0500

We have some exciting news to share with our listeners!

You will hear more about this in our first two episodes which launch on Pentecost! In the meantime, enjoy these previews!

You can find the I See a Movement (ISAM) podcast here: https://iseeamovement.fireside.fm/ and on your favorite podcast apps!

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Let's Be a Church of Hope (ISAM PREVIEW 3: Ep. 2)

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Fri, 26 May 2023 07:00:00 -0500

We have some exciting news to share with our listeners!

You will hear more about this in our first two episodes which launch on Pentecost! In the meantime, enjoy these previews!

You can find the I See a Movement (ISAM) podcast here: https://iseeamovement.fireside.fm/ and on your favorite podcast apps!

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By Whose Authority: Catholic teaching on Divine Revelation

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Fri, 19 May 2023 00:15:00 -0500

Why don't Catholics believe in sola scriptura (Scripture alone) as the authority of faith? This is a common question posed to Catholics, but are we prepared to answer it? In this episode of Draw Near, Fred and Kara take up this question of authority pulling from Scripture itself.
What is Divine Revelation? It is Scripture and Tradition, and the Magisterium of the Church is at the service of what has been divinely revealed. Through God's great love, he did not leave us to lean on our understanding (Proverbs 3:5-6). Instead, he gave his authority to leaders in the Church, and that authority has been handed on. He gave us a gift in the Church.

Church hierarchy Scripture passages mentioned:
Old Testament: Exodus 24 (there are others not mentioned in the show as well!)
New Testament: Lk 22: 31-32; Lk 8:51, 9:28; Lk 9:1, 22:28-30; Lk 10: 1, 17_**

Dei Verbum written by Pope Paul VI

Papacy Draw Near Episode: Until the King Returns

Priesthood My Lord & My God Episode: Giving the vineyard to "others"

Resources mentioned:
Catholicism and Fundamentalism by Karl Keating
Rome Sweet Home by Scott Hahn
Catholic Answers website

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BONUS: It is Well (Cover Song)

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Thu, 18 May 2023 00:00:00 -0500

It Is Well by Bethel Music. Cover by Fred and Kara with Draw Near.
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BONUS: I Shall Not Want (Cover Song)

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Thu, 18 May 2023 00:00:00 -0500

I Shall Not Want by Audrey Assad. Cover by Fred and Kara with Draw Near.
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Lectio Reflection of Phil 4: How to follow Christ

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 03 May 2023 00:00:00 -0500

Continuing our series of lectio discussions, in this episode we look at one of Fred's favorite passages in all of Scripture: Phil 4:4-9. Paul's words to the Philippians are packed full of encouragement and guidance in how we are to follow Christ. Can we rejoice? More importantly, can we rejoice... always? Even in the midst of difficult circumstances? St Paul wrote to Timothy, "Follow me as I follow Christ." In many ways, those words are for us too! But what does that look like? How do we balance the "being" with the "doing"? Furthermore, in the face of negativity, discouragement, division, and so much in the world that can be troubling to our minds and hearts, how do we maintain our hope? How do we guard our hearts and minds to avoid temptation, fear, anxiety, and despair? The answers to these questions all form the core of our lectio discussion this week!

I See a Movement (previous episode we mentioned)

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I See a Movement

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 19 Apr 2023 00:00:00 -0500

In what is likely the most deeply personal, vulnerable, and passionate Draw Near discussion we have ever offered listeners, we decided to share exactly what is at the heart of what we do. What has the Lord put on our hearts? How does it shape our ministry together? The lives of our families? What do we see as our vision and goals? For the past three years we have talked about these things in passing, but never in a meaningful way. We decided its time to do just that!

It is our deepest prayer and desire that this episode, more than anything else, would inspire you to allow the Holy Spirit to move upon the waters of your heart, to enkindle the fire of God's love in your heart, so that you would be moved to renew the world around you through the joy of the Gospel! Even the greatest fire begins with but a spark!
Visit the [Project Timothy website here](www.projecttimothy.me)!

Mentioned in this episode:

Four People You Need in Your Life

I See a Movement

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Crippled Beggars: A Reflection of Acts 3

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 29 Mar 2023 00:00:00 -0500

In this episode we continue our Lenten lectio divina Scripture reflections by taking a look at the account of the Lame Beggar at the Beautiful Gate. Here we see Peter and John look at him intently, though they could not offer him the money he was asking for, it did not prevent their fixed and loving attention on him. What they offer the man was something even greater than he asked for. Prayer. Jesus Christ. Healing! The man asked with expectancy; that his needs would be met. But the Lord provided even greater things. Peter and John offered prayer, and expected that that prayer would bear fruit. What are the many things we can learn from this passage? In what ways can we relate to this beggar? In what ways are we called to follow the example of Peter and John? What does all of this have to do with hope? Listen to find out!

Acts 3:1-10
"Now Peter and John were going up to the temple area for the three o’clock hour of prayer. And a man crippled from birth was carried and placed at the gate of the temple called “the Beautiful Gate” every day to beg for alms from the people who entered the temple. When he saw Peter and John about to go into the temple, he asked for alms. But Peter looked intently at him, as did John, and said, “Look at us.” He paid attention to them, expecting to receive something from them. Peter said, “I have neither silver nor gold, but what I do have I give you: in the name of Jesus Christ the Nazorean, [rise and] walk.” Then Peter took him by the right hand and raised him up, and immediately his feet and ankles grew strong. He leaped up, stood, and walked around, and went into the temple with them, walking and jumping and praising God. When all the people saw him walking and praising God, they recognized him as the one who used to sit begging at the Beautiful Gate of the temple, and they were filled with amazement and astonishment at what had happened to him."

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I Will Give You Rest

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 15 Mar 2023 00:00:00 -0500

In this episode, we take a different approach than usual, by doing a Lectio Divina together on Matthew 11:28-30. What we offer in this episode is a much deeper, personal and more vulnerable reflection on our walk with Christ and how He is working in our lives during this season; in and through the launch of our full time apostolate work, and especially during Lent. We discuss the things that are weighing on our hearts as well how the Lord is calling us to rest and trust in Him. We pray this conversation will be a blessing in your own lenten journey.

Matthew 11:28-30
"Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me; for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.”

Bar 3:9; 37-41
Hear the commandments of life, O Israel;
give ear, and learn wisdom!
Afterward she appeared upon earth
and lived among men.
She is the book of the commandments of God,
and the law that endures for ever.
All who hold her fast will live,
and those who forsake her will die.

Acts 15:10
Now therefore why do you make trial of God by putting a yoke upon the neck of the disciples which neither our fathers nor we have been able to bear?

Gal 5:1
For freedom Christ has set us free; stand fast therefore, and do not submit again to a yoke of slavery.

Mat 5:48
You, therefore, must be perfect, as your heavenly Father is perfect.

John 14:16
And I will pray the Father, and he will give you another Counselor, to be with you for ever...

Phil 2:1-8
So if there is any encouragement in Christ, any incentive of love, any participation in the Spirit, any affection and sympathy, complete my joy by being of the same mind, having the same love, being in full accord and of one mind. Do nothing from selfishness or conceit, but in humility count others better than yourselves. Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others. Have this mind among yourselves, which was in Christ Jesus, 6 who, though he was in the form of God, did not count equality with God a thing to be grasped, but emptied himself, taking the form of a servant, being born in the likeness of men. 8 And being found in human form he humbled himself and became obedient unto death, even death on a cross.

1 Cor 13:4-8
Love is patient and kind; love is not jealous or boastful; it is not arrogant or rude. Love does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrong, but rejoices in the right. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never ends...

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Return to Me With Your Whole Heart

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Tue, 21 Feb 2023 22:30:00 -0600

It's Ash Wednesday! Our Lenten journey has begun. In this "shortie" episode, Fred offers a reflection on the readings for the day: in particular, the words, “Return to me with your whole heart…” What do these words mean? What is the Lord calling us to and reminding us of? What can we learn from our tendencies in our human relationships? How do we avoid growing cold in our love and taking our beloved for granted? The answers to these questions are found in this reflection. As you begin your Lenten journey, we encourage you to listen and take up the challenge that Fred offers here: "This Lent, may we return to the Lord with our whole heart, so that the fire of his love may be enkindled in our hearts. May we be filled by that fire with the warmth of his grace; and may we inspire others to do the same."

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Sports and Sainthood

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 15 Feb 2023 00:15:00 -0600

At times the world of sports can seem to run headlong into conflict with the world of faith. Studies and lived world experience seem to reveal that at least in the hearts and minds of many, participation in and consumption of sports entertainment take the priority over matters of faith and worship on any given Sunday. This can be found even in the pressures placed upon young people. What is this the cause of this seeming divide? What does the Church (and Scripture) have to say about the relationship between faith and sports? What value is there in athletics in terms of informing our faith and helping us to grow in virtue? In this episode we are joined by coach and teacher, Kelley Grothus and Fr Patrick Behm as we discuss the answers to these questions and more.

Scripture referenced:
1 Cor 9:22-27; 1 Tim 4:78; 1 Cor 12:1-31; Phil 3:12-15

Read the document Giving the Best of Yourself here: https://press.vatican.va/content/salastampa/en/bollettino/pubblico/2018/06/01/180601b.pdf

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One Hour with Our Son

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 01 Feb 2023 00:15:00 -0600

Trigger Warning: Infant Loss and Miscarriage
In this episode we are joined by our friends Danny and Ashley Swalve as we discuss their journey of coming to a deeper faith in Christ and how that has shaped their marriage and helped them to find great hope even through otherwise overwhelmingly difficult circumstances. At the heart of their testimony is their story of surrender and trust in God's will for their lives; a desire to be used by Him to help bring healing to others who have faced similar challenges.

*Looking for resources on infant loss? Here are some that we recommend: *

This article helped Fred and his wife, Krystal, in the immediate days and weeks following their own miscarriage

[Elizabeth Ministry](www.elizabethministry.org)

[Springs in the Desert](www.springsinthedesert.org)

Rachel's Vineyard (a ministry for those needing healing from abortion)

Learn more about Danny's Podcast: https://feeds.buzzsprout.com/2115328.rss

The book Ashley mentions, "Don't Give the Enemy a Seat at Your Table: https://amzn.to/3X5Z0Lg

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Jesus, Mary, and the Saints: Ch. 10 - I Believe in Love

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 25 Jan 2023 16:00:00 -0600

Week 10 discussion on "Jesus, Mary, and the Saints" from the I Believe in Love book study led by Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell from the [Draw Near](drawnear.me) podcast!!
This book is a personal retreat based on the teachings of St. Therese of Lisieux written by: Book by Fr Jean C J D'Elbee

Read Conference 10 (pgs. 257-280)
Listen to this discussion of Conference 10 between Fred and Kara.
Discuss the discussion questions with a friend OR in the "discussion" feed within the book study on Suscipe *Be sure to share all God is speaking to your during this study. We want to hear from you in the discussions!

Blog post mentioned in the episode: Mary is Relateable

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PREVIEW: My Lord & My God Ep 5: Fred's Testimony

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Tue, 24 Jan 2023 03:00:00 -0600

We have a new podcast coming out on January 24th, 2023! This weekly, year-long show is called, "My Lord & My God," based on the words of St. Thomas. Our focus in every episode will be helping listeners to encounter Christ in the Eucharist and to better understand this most beautiful and sacred mystery: Christ present, Body, Blood, Soul and Divinity. We will explore Scripture, the teachings of the Church, and the writings of the saints. We will also hear many powerful testimonies of how lives have been changed through encountering Christ in the Eucharist. What difference should this encounter with Christ make in our lives? How does it shape our relationship with the Lord and with one another? Listen to find out!

Be sure to subscribe/follow on your favorite podcast platform to catch all the new episodes. In the meantime, enjoy this preview of our fourth episode. "How has your encounter with Christ in the Eucharist changed your life? What difference has it made?" We love to ask people these questions and hear their response. While in reality, this profound mystery of encounter with Christ should be more than just one single experience, we still have those moments that seem altogether unique, impactful, life changing. Like the apostle John, we can find that we even remember the time of day (John 1:39). In this episode, Fred shares his "Thomas" moment. That first encounter with Christ in the Eucharist that really led to him proclaiming, "My Lord and my God!" The full episode will post on Tuesday, February 21.

My Lord & My God website

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PREVIEW: My Lord & My God Ep 4: Kara's Testimony

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Tue, 24 Jan 2023 02:45:00 -0600

Be sure to subscribe/follow on your favorite podcast platform to catch all the new episodes. In the meantime, enjoy this preview of our fourth episode. "How has your encounter with Christ in the Eucharist changed your life? What difference has it made?" We love to ask people these questions and hear their response. While in reality, this profound mystery of encounter with Christ should be more than just one single experience, we still have those moments that seem altogether unique, impactful, life changing. Like the apostle John, we can find that we even remember the time of day (John 1:39). In this episode, Kara shares her "Thomas" moment. That first encounter with Christ in the Eucharist that really led to her proclaiming, "My Lord and my God!" The full episode will post on Tuesday, February 14.

My Lord & My God website

Who are "Fred and Kara?" Find out by visiting our home page. Join the Draw Near Community Space on Suscipe.co

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PREVIEW: My Lord & My God Ep 3: Eucharistic Revival (Pt 2) w/ Tim Glemkowski

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Tue, 24 Jan 2023 02:30:00 -0600

Be sure to subscribe/follow on your favorite podcast platform to catch all the new episodes. In the meantime, enjoy this PREVIEW of the second part of our two part discussion with Tim Glemkowski, who is helping to lead the Eucharistic Revival in the United States. What is the Eucharistic Revival? How did it come about? Why is it necessary? What does it have to do with the mission and identity of the Church? And, how can the average lay person help? These are some of the many questions we seek to answer as we sit down to discuss this generational moment and growing national movement. The full episode posts Tuesday, February 7!

My Lord & My God website

Learn more about Tim Glemkowski: https://www.timglemkowski.com/ and the L'Alto Catholic Institute: https://www.laltocatholic.com/new-page-2

Visit the Eucharistic Revival landing page here: https://www.eucharisticrevival.org/

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PREVIEW: My Lord & My God Ep 2: Eucharistic Revival (Pt 1) w/ Tim Glemkowski

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Tue, 24 Jan 2023 02:15:00 -0600

Be sure to subscribe/follow on your favorite podcast platform to catch all the new episodes. In the meantime, enjoy this preview of the first part of our two part discussion with Tim Glemkowski, who is helping to lead the Eucharistic Revival in the United States. What is the Eucharistic Revival? How did it come about? Why is it necessary? What does it have to do with the mission and identity of the Church? And, how can the average lay person help? These are some of the many questions we seek to answer as we sit down to discuss this generational moment and growing national movement. The full episode posts Tuesday, January 31!

My Lord & My God website

Learn more about Tim Glemkowski: https://www.timglemkowski.com/ and the L'Alto Catholic Institute: https://www.laltocatholic.com/new-page-2

Visit the Eucharistic Revival landing page here: https://www.eucharisticrevival.org/

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PREVIEW: My Lord and My God Ep 1: Doubting Thomas

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Tue, 24 Jan 2023 02:00:00 -0600

Be sure to subscribe/follow on your favorite podcast platform to catch all the new episodes. In the meantime, enjoy this preview of episode 1 in which we reflect on the inspiration for this show, "Doubting Thomas," and those beautiful words of encounter, "My Lord and My God." This episode will post Tuesday, January 24! Here, we take some time to reflect on the words of St Thomas, "My Lord and My God." He speaks these words after his famous doubt... "Unless I stick my fingers in his wounds I will not believe." Why did Thomas say this? What can we learn from him? How is St Thomas' encounter with the risen Christ similar to what we are invited into every time we attend Mass and receive Communion? These are just some of the topics we will explore in this episode!

My Lord & My God website

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You talkin' about me?

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 18 Jan 2023 02:00:00 -0600

"Treat me like a human being." These were the words of a friend of ours recounting a difficult situation to us recently. These words have stuck with us since. We - like so many we'd be willing to guess - often speak of the "dignity of the human person," and yet belief in that dignity is not always evident in the experiences of daily life. Christ tells us that the world will know us by our love for one another; that we are to love one another as he has loved us. Yet, we gossip, we slander. We are quick to desire empathy and we want to be given the benefit of the doubt, but we are not always so quick to extend that to others. How can we overcome this? What are the implications of the dignity of each human person, on the way we live our lives as social beings? These are some of the topics we dive into with our good friend, and special guest, Sr Fidelis Marie.

*Some of the questions we discuss: *
What’s the difference between gossip and venting? When is venting unhealthy?

What is the line between getting something off of our chest and being uncharitable?

Has our culture trained us to not treat one another as human beings?

What role does evaluating the intentions of others and the practice of empathy play in your interior life?

Is there value in reflecting on how our own wounds and experiences can shape how we interact with others and perceive things?

How should these experiences shape your relationships with others? How can we overcome our tendency to desire empathy and understanding from others but be less inclined to extend it?

What role does vulnerability and authenticity play?

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NEW PODCAST COMING! My Lord and My God

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 18 Jan 2023 01:00:00 -0600

The hosts of Draw Near, Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell, have a new podcast coming out on January 24th. This show is called, "My Lord & My God," based on the words of St. Thomas. It will be centered on the Eucharist... helping people understand this great mystery and come to a deeper encounter with the love of Christ through the Eucharist.
Be sure to subscribe/follow on your favorite podcast platform to catch all the new episodes.

My Lord & My God website. (logo coming soon)

Who are "Fred and Kara?" Find out by visiting our home page. Join the Draw Near Community Space on Suscipe.co

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Dad Joke Challenge

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 04 Jan 2023 00:00:00 -0600

Enjoy some lighthearted fun and conversation with our good friend, Phillip Grothus! Back by popular demand, in this bonus episode as we begin the new year, Fred and Phillip battle in an exchange of dad jokes to see who can make Kara laugh. Will she crack? Who will be the winner? This is really just pure silly fun and we hope you enjoy it! Happy New Year!

We will be back with the usual Draw Near discussions in our next episode!

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The Eucharist: Ch. 9 - I Believe in Love

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Fri, 30 Dec 2022 17:00:00 -0600

Week 9 discussion on "The Eucharist" from the I Believe in Love book study led by Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell from the [Draw Near](drawnear.me) podcast!!
This book is a personal retreat based on the teachings of St. Therese of Lisieux written by: Book by Fr Jean C J D'Elbee

Read Conference 9 (pgs. 219-256)
Listen to this discussion of Conference 9 between Fred and Kara.
Discuss the following discussion questions with a friend OR in the "discussion" feed within the book study on Suscipe *Be sure to share all God is speaking to your during this study. We want to hear from you in the discussions!

Blog post mentioned in the episode: "I missed him."

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The Cross: Ch. 8 - I Believe in Love

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Fri, 30 Dec 2022 16:30:00 -0600

Week 8 discussion on "The Cross" from the I Believe in Love book study led by Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell from the [Draw Near](drawnear.me) podcast!!
This book is a personal retreat based on the teachings of St. Therese of Lisieux written by: Book by Fr Jean C J D'Elbee

Read Conference 8 (pgs. 195-218)
Listen to this discussion of Conference 8 between Fred and Kara.
Discuss the following discussion questions with a friend OR in the "discussion" feed within the book study on Suscipe *Be sure to share all God is speaking to your during this study. We want to hear from you in the discussions!

Click to Donate to become a supporter/patron! Join the community by following the Draw Near Facebook page. Book Fred and/or Kara to speak by visiting the Draw Near "booking page."

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The Apostolate: Ch. 7 - I Believe in Love

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Fri, 30 Dec 2022 16:00:00 -0600

Week 7 discussion on "The Apostolate" from the I Believe in Love book study led by Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell from the [Draw Near](drawnear.me) podcast!!
This book is a personal retreat based on the teachings of St. Therese of Lisieux written by: Book by Fr Jean C J D'Elbee

Read Conference 7
Listen to this discussion of Conference 7 between Fred and Kara.
Discuss the following discussion questions with a friend OR in the "discussion" feed within the book study on Suscipe *Be sure to share all God is speaking to your during this study. We want to hear from you in the discussions!

Read "I See a Movement" as mentioned in the episode.

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Fraternal Charity: Ch. 6 - I Believe in Love

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Mon, 26 Dec 2022 17:00:00 -0600

Week 6 discussion on "Fraternal Charity" from the I Believe in Love book study led by Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell from the [Draw Near](drawnear.me) podcast!!
This book is a personal retreat based on the teachings of St. Therese of Lisieux written by: Book by Fr Jean C J D'Elbee

Read Conference 6
Listen to this discussion of Conference 6 between Fred and Kara.
Discuss the following discussion questions with a friend OR in the "discussion" feed within the book study on Suscipe *Be sure to share all God is speaking to your during this study. We want to hear from you in the discussions!

Click to Donate to become a supporter/patron! Join the community by following the Draw Near Facebook page. Book Fred and/or Kara to speak by visiting the Draw Near "booking page."

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BONUS: The Gift of the Magi

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Thu, 22 Dec 2022 00:00:00 -0600

Continuing to share some of our favorite Christmas stories this holiday season, here is a a classic that may just bring you to tears: "The Gift of the Magi" by O. Henry. For this reading, Fred is joined by Siouxland Catholic Radio's, Joanne Fox, who narrates. He is also joined by his wife, Krystal, in the role of Della and his daughter who plays the part of Mrs. Sofronie.

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Great Desires, Humility, and Peace: Ch 5 - I Believe in Love

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 21 Dec 2022 01:15:00 -0600

For a limited time, as a "Christmas gift" to our listeners, please enjoy our full discussion from our I Believe in Love book study on the fifth chapter of this life changing book. Here we discuss the desires of our hearts, how are we to follow and discern those desires, and how the Lord has given us gifts to build the kingdom. Shorter than a typical episode of Draw Near, but also a bit more personal at times, we hope and pray, but also believe, that these discussions will be a blessing to you (whether you have read the book or not - but we hope you will!).

For the Book Study (or for going deeper):
This book, "I Believe in Love," is a personal retreat based on the teachings of St. Therese of Lisieux written by Fr Jean C J D'Elbee

Read Chapter 5 (pgs. 115-140)
Listen to this discussion of Conference 5 between Fred and Kara from [Draw Near](drawnear.me)!
Discuss the following discussion questions with a friend OR in the "discussion" feed within the book study on Suscipe You can also click on this link to join the study! It's not too late!

For your convenience, here are the questions:

Chapter 5 opens with the words, "Nothing great ever comes about without great desires... If they are lacking, everything is dull and lifeless." Was there a time you were driven to achieve a desire only to discover that it did not bring fulfillment or glory to God? How did that impact you?
"'When we decide on some action, nine times out of ten we keep asking ourselves, "What are people going to think? What will So-and-so think if I do that?' and not, "What will Jesus think?" (pg.128). Have you ever made a decision based on what others would think? Have you made a decision for God? Which one brought greater peace/ joy/fulfillment or the like?
Reflect on the reality of God's grace at work in your life, and the desires he has placed in your heart; attainable desires according to St Therese! In what way might the Lord be calling you to use your natural gifts, talents, and the desires he placed in your heart, to bring him glory and build the kingdom?
"A ravishing form of humility is simplicity. It is the charm of those who know how to put themselves in their proper place and are not puffed up in their own eyes" (pg 130). Who is someone in your own life that you would describe in this way--simple humility? How might you follow that person as they follow Christ, and imitate their witness?
Building on the discussion about how the Lord speaks to us, and reflecting on being an "angel of peace," as Fr D'Elbee describes it, how is the Lord calling you to be a messenger ("angel") of peace in your home? In your work? In your relationships? In the world around you?

Learn more about (or purchase) the book, I Believe in Love here!

Learn more about the Suscipe Community or sign up to join the platform here.

Click to Donate to become a supporter/patron! Join the community by following the Draw Near Facebook page. Book Fred and/or Kara to speak by visiting the Draw Near "booking page."

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Abandonment to Jesus: Ch 4 - I Believe in Love

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 21 Dec 2022 01:00:00 -0600

For a limited time, as a "Christmas gift" to our listeners, please enjoy our full discussion from our I Believe in Love book study on the fourth chapter of this life changing book. Here we discuss what it means to abandon one's self to Jesus; to live the prayer, "Thy will be done." Shorter than a typical episode of Draw Near, but also a bit more personal at times, we hope and pray, but also believe, that these discussions will be a blessing to you (whether you have read the book or not - but we hope you will!).

For the Book Study (or for going deeper):
This book, "I Believe in Love," is a personal retreat based on the teachings of St. Therese of Lisieux written by Fr Jean C J D'Elbee

Read Chapter 4 (Pgs. 81-113)
Listen to this discussion of Conference 4 between Fred and Kara from [Draw Near](drawnear.me)!
Discuss the following discussion questions with a friend OR in the "discussion" feed within the book study on Suscipe You can also click on this link to join the study! It's not too late!

For your convenience, here are the questions:

There are examples and definitions of "abandonment" through Conference 4. Which do you relate to the most in your spiritual life? Why?
Meditate on the "Our Father" prayer. Pray it slowly. Think of each word. Pause when you say, "thy will be done." What did God speak to you through your time in meditation?
Share a moment in your life when you followed the will of God. How did you know it was his will? How did it feel to say "yes" when he said, "Let me do it." What was the outcome?
Grab your Bible and read the Word of God in Mt 6: 25-30. Read it once then pray with it for 2 minutes. Read it a second time and pray with in for 2 more minutes. Read it one final time and pray with it for 2 more minutes. What WORD or PHRASE stood out to you? Why do you think it stood out?
Jesus told St. Gertrude, "You trouble me, Gertrude, by asking me for the cure of your friend. I sent her this sickness as a trial. She accepts it with admirable submission to my will which gains great merit for her, and I thus prepare a more beautiful Heaven for her for all eternity" (pg. 100). Have you ever had a prayer go unanswered? Did it seem like God ignored it? What good can you see coming from it?

Learn more about (or purchase) the book, I Believe in Love here!

Learn more about the Suscipe Community or sign up to join the platform here.

Click to Donate to become a supporter/patron! Join the community by following the Draw Near Facebook page. Book Fred and/or Kara to speak by visiting the Draw Near "booking page."

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Unshakeable Confidence: Ch 3 - I Believe in Love

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 21 Dec 2022 00:45:00 -0600

For a limited time, as a "Christmas gift" to our listeners, please enjoy our full discussion from our I Believe in Love book study on the third chapter of this life changing book. Here we discuss the danger in becoming too dependent upon ourselves, how our weaknesses are actually opportunities to encounter the Lord and why we must "become like little children." Shorter than a typical episode of Draw Near, but also a bit more personal at times, we hope and pray, but also believe, that these discussions will be a blessing to you (whether you have read the book or not - but we hope you will!).

For the Book Study (or for going deeper):
This book, "I Believe in Love," is a personal retreat based on the teachings of St. Therese of Lisieux written by Fr Jean C J D'Elbee

Read Chapter 3 (pgs. 55-80)
Listen to this discussion of Conference 3 between Fred and Kara from [Draw Near](drawnear.me)!
Discuss the following discussion questions with a friend OR in the "discussion" feed within the book study on Suscipe You can also click on this link to join the study! It's not too late!

For your convenience, here are the questions:

Take a moment to reflect on the words of St John Vianney, "God's greatest pleasure is to pardon us." We see similar words in St Teresa of Calcutta's I Thirst reflection, "When you give me your sins, you give me the joy of being your Savior."

What does this reveal about the mercy of God? How can we keep the realization of the Lord's joy in being our Savior before us from day to day, moment to moment?

Fr D'Elbee writes, "There is a double danger in the method which diminishes the role of confidence and stresses the role of personal effort... If we are successful, there is the danger of pride, of attributing to ourselves what is in reality the work of grace; on the other hand, if we see no signs of progress, nine times out of ten, we fall into wretched, sterile discouragement."

In what ways have you found yourself relying on personal effort vs. grace?
How might a greater awareness of your own faults and "littleness" help you grow in confidence and holiness?

On page 78 we read, "Pure love is realized in pure faith, and pure faith is realized in darkness in the same way as 'strength is perfected in weakness.'" How have you experienced moments of darkness and weakness? In what ways did these moments help to strengthen your faith?
What does it mean to "become like children" (Mt 18:3)? Meditate on the image of God as YOUR father. How does this image speak to your heart? What does it reveal about his love for you as a his child?
What strikes you about the words, "I believe in Your love for me and I believe in my love for You"? How might we root these words deep in our heart?

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Humble Confidence: Ch 2 - I Believe in Love

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 21 Dec 2022 00:30:00 -0600

For a limited time, as a "Christmas gift" to our listeners, please enjoy our full discussion from our I Believe in Love book study on the first chapter of this life changing book. Here we discuss times in our lives when we have needed his mercy, when we have felt alone and afraid and like God is far from us, and what it means to have a "living faith." Shorter than a typical episode of Draw Near, but also a bit more personal at times, we hope and pray, but also believe, that these discussions will be a blessing to you (whether you have read the book or not - but we hope you will!).

For the Book Study (or for going deeper):
This book, "I Believe in Love," is a personal retreat based on the teachings of St. Therese of Lisieux written by Fr Jean C J D'Elbee

Read Chapter 2 (Pgs 25-53)
Listen to this discussion of Conference 2 between Fred and Kara from [Draw Near](drawnear.me)!
Discuss the following discussion questions with a friend OR in the "discussion" feed within the book study on Suscipe You can also click on this link to join the study! It's not too late!

For your convenience, here are the questions:

"The elevator which must raise me to the heavens is Your arms, O Jesus! For that I do not need to grow; on the contrary, I must necessarily remain small, become smaller and smaller. O my God, You have surpassed what I expected, and I want to sing Your mercies" (pg. 28). Read and re-read this quotation. Meditate upon it. What strikes you about these words of St. Therese? What is God saying to you through her words?
Fr D'Elbee asks the question, "How many young people have lost the Faith, not from having fallen, but from not having been helped, with love, to pick themselves up again as many times as was necessary?" In what way have you experienced this loving help in your own life? How can we be that loving help to others, substantially, in our daily lives?
The words "mercy" and "misery" both derive from the Latin root "miseri." Meditate on how these two words relate to one another; how do they relate to you? To God?
Jesus slept in the boat. When he awoke to fearful disciples he asked, "Why are you afraid? Have you no faith?" Have you ever felt as though Jesus was asleep in your spiritual life? Did this cause your faith to wain? How can you get to a place of faith to say, "You are always in the boat with me... You may sleep; I shall not awaken You... I shall remain in peace" (pg. 41).
"In a living faith, you will not approach the confessional with dragging feet, but as if you were going to a feast, even if you have to make a great effort each time to humble yourself and to conquer the monotony of the routine" (pg. 35). Put this in to practice this week by going to confession. Receive this Sacrament as if you were going to a feast.

In what ways have you allowed past faults, struggles, failures and sins to be an obstacle in receiving the love and mercy of God? How might this be overcome?

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Love for Love: Ch 1 - I Believe in Love

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 21 Dec 2022 00:15:00 -0600

For a limited time, as a "Christmas gift" to our listeners, please enjoy our full discussion from our I Believe in Love book study on the first chapter of this life changing book. Here we discuss our relationship with Christ, whether or not we see ourselves as a "joy" for Jesus, and what it means to "abide" in Him. Shorter than a typical episode of Draw Near, but also a bit more personal at times, we hope and pray, but also believe, that these discussions will be a blessing to you (whether you have read the book or not - but we hope you will!).

For the Book Study (or for going deeper):
This book, "I Believe in Love," is a personal retreat based on the teachings of St. Therese of Lisieux written by Fr Jean C J D'Elbee

Read the Forward, Preface, and Chapter 1 (pgs 3-24)
Listen to this discussion of Conference 1 between Fred and Kara from [Draw Near](drawnear.me)!
Discuss the following discussion questions with a friend OR in the "discussion" feed within the book study on Suscipe You can also click on this link to join the study! It's not too late!

For your convenience, here are the questions:

One of the goals of this study is to provide an opportunity for the Holy Spirit to transform your heart. "There are persons... who pass their whole lives on earth without ever having experienced this heart-to-heart relationship with the Father in Heaven, their Creator and Savior" (pg.23). Reflect on this. How would you describe your relationship with God (stranger, genie, Father, best friend, etc.)? How is God calling you to grow closer to him?
In John 15:5, Jesus declares, "I am the vine, you are the branches. He who abides in me, and I in him, he it is that bears much fruit, for apart from me you can do nothing." What does this passage have to do with the theme of this week's conference -"love"?
Take a few minutes to meditate on Phillipians 2:7-8: "[He] emptied himself, taking the form of a servant, being born in the likeness of men. And being found in human form he humbled himself and became obedient unto death, even death on a cross." What do these words reveal to you about the incredible love of God?
Do you think you are a "joy for Jesus"? What about you brings Him joy?
Reflect on these words from the text:
"I should like to ask you urgently... never let your past sins be an obstacle between you and Jesus. It is a ruse of the Devil to keep putting our sins before our eyes in order to make them like a screen between the Savior and us. Think of your past sins for your own humiliation or to persuade yourself once again of your weakness, of your unworthiness; think of them in order to find happiness in expiation, in order to confirm your firm resolution not to fall again... but especially in order to bless Jesus for having pardoned you, for having purified you, for having cast all your sins to the bottom of the sea... Do not go looking for them at the bottom of the sea!"

In what ways have you allowed past faults, struggles, failures and sins to be an obstacle in receiving the love and mercy of God? How might this be overcome?

Learn more about (or purchase) the book, I Believe in Love here!

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BONUS: The Christmas Story

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Tue, 13 Dec 2022 01:15:00 -0600

Following up on the surprising popularity of our reading of "Yes, Virginia There is A Santa Claus" last year, we decided to share some more Christmas stories this holiday season. We both will be inviting listeners into our homes and into our families as we celebrate this year by sharing some of our favorite Christmas stories. We invite you (and your family) to enjoy... in the words of Linus from the Peanuts, what Christmas is all about. This is a purely "sit back and relax," "story time" sort of "shorty" episode. We hope this reading will be a blessing to you this Christmas season. Thank you for listening and allowing us to be a part of your lives this year! Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!

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BONUS: 'Twas the Night Before Christmas

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Tue, 13 Dec 2022 01:00:00 -0600

Following up on the surprising popularity of our reading of "Yes, Virginia There is A Santa Claus" last year, we decided to share some more Christmas stories this holiday season. We both will be inviting listeners into our homes and into our families as we celebrate this year by sharing some of our favorite Christmas stories. We invite you (and your family) to enjoy this timeless story that Fred reads to his children every year! This is a purely "sit back and relax," "story time" sort of "shorty" episode. We hope this reading will be a blessing to you this Christmas season. Thank you for listening and allowing us to be a part of your lives this year! Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!

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There's Something About Mary

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 07 Dec 2022 00:15:00 -0600

Questions answered in the second half:

How do we know Mary was special or set apart?
What is the Immaculate Conception?
What is Original Sin? Where is that in Scripture?
Where is Mary’s Immaculate Conception found in Scripture?

Purchase the book, Hail Holy Queen by Scott Hahn here.

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BONUS: Hearing God's Voice in the Liturgy

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Sat, 26 Nov 2022 06:00:00 -0600

In this BONUS episode of Draw Near, Fred is joined by Catholic convert, speaker, and creator of Lectio the Liturgy, Julie Storr. They talk about being a convert, the purpose and meaning of the Liturgy, hearing God's voice and how we can prepare our hearts and minds more fruitfully for Mass. Finally, we close with Julie's reflection for this first Sunday of Advent.

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You Can't Do This by Yourself... (PREVIEW: I Believe in Love Book Study)

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Fri, 25 Nov 2022 02:00:00 -0600

In our walk with the Lord, we can be tempted to take pride in what we see as "our own accomplishments." We may not realize it or admit it, but it is easy to succumb to. We can also give into discouragement when we believe ourselves to not be living up to our own standards (or the standards of others). Our "I Believe in Love" book study launches November 29, 2022 on Suscipe.co. We thought it would be great to offer another preview of some of the discussions! Please enjoy this clip from Chapter 3, where we discuss how St Therese's "Little Way" is a better, and more sure approach to the temptations toward pride on one hand, and discouragement on the other.

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What Are We Thankful For?

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 23 Nov 2022 02:00:00 -0600

As we celebrate Thanksgiving this year, we have found ourselves reflecting a lot on gratitude and the Lord's faithfulness. It's always good to take some time and reflect on what we have to be thankful for. Because we enjoy sharing our own lives with our listeners, we thought we would discuss those things that we are most thankful for this Thanksgiving. We hope this will be a blessing to you this year. As Scripture and experience both make clear, the word of our testimony is a great way to edify one another and inspire gratitude.

Even during a season of quiet, where at times it seems like the Lord has been asleep in the boat during the storm (more on this in our I Believe in Love book study), we have found ourselves overwhelmed with thankfulness. Listen to hear why!

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He Still Has You! (PREVIEW: I Believe in Love Book Study)

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Tue, 22 Nov 2022 01:00:00 -0600

Does God seem distant, silent or nowhere to be found? Are the storms raging and you feel left out at sea? Our "I Believe in Love" book study launches November 29, 2022 on Suscipe.co. We thought it would be great to offer another preview of some of the discussions! Please enjoy this clip from Chapter 2, where we discuss how, HE STILL HAS YOU! You will not sink!

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Why Can't Women Be Priests?

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Mon, 21 Nov 2022 02:00:00 -0600

In this episode, we are joined by our good friend, Fr Patrick Behm. We ask him a number of questions we have received from listeners. In particular, Fr Behm spends some time carefully walking through the Church's teaching on the priesthood, and why women cannot be ordained. He also makes the case for why Jesus clearly was not, and cannot be, sexist. Additionally we talk being a godparent, cremation and whether or not we can donate our bodies to science. We also spend some time on Heaven, homilies about hell, and the value of our prayers for those who have died. We briefly discuss mental health and suicide. We wrap up with weddings outside of the Church and participation in non-Catholic weddings, online ordination, why the Catholic "Our Father" is in some ways different from the Protestant version, and finally, the hardest parts about being a priest and the greatest joys.

***** TRIGGER WARNING: SUICIDE *****
If you are struggling with suicidal crisis or emotional distress, free and confidential help is available 24 hours a day, 7 days a week in the United States.
Call: 988 to reach the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline or visit them online at: https://988lifeline.org/

Looking for more on the question about the Our Father and the Doxology, you can find it here.

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PREVIEW: I Believe in Love Book Study

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Mon, 21 Nov 2022 01:00:00 -0600

Our "I Believe in Love" book study launches November 29, 2022 on Suscipe.co. We thought it would be great to offer a preview of some of the discussions! Please enjoy this clip from Chapter 1.

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I Never Thought I'd Be a Yelling Mom

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 09 Nov 2022 02:00:00 -0600

"They never told you in marriage preparation that some days, you won't like each other very much." Continuing our series on marriage and family life, Kara is joined by speaker, musician, podcaster, wife and mom, Noelle Garcia! Sharing from the heart and the "realness" of daily life as Catholic wives and moms, Kara and Noelle discuss the hardest and the greatest things about marriage and motherhood. What advice is there for those who struggle with mom guilt (or guilt in general)? How do you handle different parenting styles and different approaches to home life between spouses? What are the biggest challenges and joys of motherhood and how do we approach these and maintain joy? All of these questions are answered in this episode!

Trigger Warning: Noelle also shares her testimony of faith in the midst of the grief of a miscarriage.

NOTE FROM FRED: "This is by far one of the most beautiful episodes of Draw Near. Although I am not a mother, I found my heart deeply touched, moved and inspired by the discussion. Noelle's testimony, having recently undergone the same trial with my family, was very healing. I encourage all dads, all Catholic men desiring to live the faith and follow Christ, listen to this episode. We have much to learn from our sisters in Christ."

Learn more about David and Noelle Garcia McHugh by visiting their website. Listen to their podcast here! Check out the Fingers Under the Door comic on Instagram!

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Reckless Love?

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 26 Oct 2022 02:00:00 -0500

In this episode, we share some exciting news and rejoice in being back in the studio together for the first time since May! Reflecting on leading a time of music and prayer this past summer, we discuss one of our favorite songs, "Reckless Love" by Cory Asbury. Though not a new song, it is a phrase that has been debated. Is God's love reckless? What does that even mean? Does the phrase "reckless love" of God even mean "reckless" in the usual sense of the word? We would say no, not at all. So what does it mean? Listen as we get more personal and share a bit our journey with you as we reflect on the words of this song.

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Read Kara's blog that we reference in this episode here.

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Wives and Wine

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 12 Oct 2022 02:00:00 -0500

The ladies had to get their 2 cents in on this family series! If you enjoyed the husband/dad episodes, you'll love this one more. Tune in to hear Kara chat with her good friend (and Fred's wife) Krystal Shellabarger about marriage and motherhood.

"We basically sat down with wine and recorded things we talk about all the time! We chat about being a wife, and the good, the difficult, and the proud moments of motherhood."-Kara

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Fatherhood: Baptism by Fire (Wives and Whiskey)

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 28 Sep 2022 02:00:00 -0500

Kara is back in this episode!!! We are continuing the series on family life, and joined by none other than Kara's husband Beej, as well as our friend Taylor Schroll. In this episode three dads share from their own experience and offer some perspective on the struggles and the joys of being a father. Complete with a few sports analogies, whiskey sipping, and Kara poking fun (in love of course), we hope you enjoy this lighthearted discussion on fatherhood.

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Embracing Fatherhood

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 28 Sep 2022 02:00:00 -0500

Becoming a father, and the reality of being a father in the day to days of life can be both stressful, terrifying and joyfully rewarding all at once! Phillip Grothus joins us once again for an authentic, reflective, but lighthearted look at being a dad. Sharing both the highs and the lows, Fred and Phillip share from their own experience, how their relationship with Christ and the faith they profess shapes the kind of fathers they strive to be. They also discuss perceptions, experiences, and cultural norms that tend to make being a father a challenge some times and offer some advice on overcoming these obstacles.

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St Luke's Take on The Our Father (and Kara's)

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 28 Sep 2022 01:45:00 -0500

Kara is back in this episode!!! With a reflection on the Our Father as it appears in the Gospel of Luke.

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PREVIEW: Embracing Fatherhood

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Mon, 19 Sep 2022 06:00:00 -0500

Here is a short heartfelt preview of what you have to look forward to in our next episode in a series on marriage and family life. We are joined once again by, Phillip Grothus (and others). Topic: Fatherhood. Enjoy!

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Don't Go to Bed Angry? - With Taylor Schroll

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 14 Sep 2022 02:00:00 -0500

Beginning a series on marriage and family life, Fred is joined by friend and co-host of the Forte Catholic Podcast, Taylor Schroll for a fun and lighthearted discussion on marriage. What have they learned? What advice would they give themselves on their wedding day? How much more do they still need to grow? Why does Fred insist on mentioning Cobra Kai in every episode of Draw Near? Find out in this episode!

*What are some resources we recommend?

Just Married: The Catholic Guide to Surviving the First Five Years of Marriage by Greg and Lisa Popcak

Love & Respect: The Love She Most Desires, The Respect He Desperately Needs by Dr Emerson Eggerichs

The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman

Three to Get Married by Fulton Sheen

The 21 Undeniable Secrets of Marriage: Taking Your Relationship to the Next Level by Dr Allen Hunt

For Your Marriage

St Francis of Assisi Parish in West Des Moines

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Husbands, Love Your Wives - With Phillip Grothus

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 14 Sep 2022 02:00:00 -0500

Beginning a series on marriage and family life, Fred is joined by Draw Near listener and fellow Cobra Kai super fan, Phillip Grothus for a discussion on marriage. What have they learned? What advice would they give themselves on their wedding day? How much more do they still need to grow? Find out in this episode!

*What are some resources we recommend?

Just Married: The Catholic Guide to Surviving the First Five Years of Marriage by Greg and Lisa Popcak

Love & Respect: The Love She Most Desires, The Respect He Desperately Needs by Dr Emerson Eggerichs

The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman

Three to Get Married by Fulton Sheen

The 21 Undeniable Secrets of Marriage: Taking Your Relationship to the Next Level by Dr Allen Hunt

For Your Marriage

St Francis of Assisi Parish in West Des Moines

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BONUS: Dad Jokes with Phillip Grothus - Part 2

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 14 Sep 2022 02:00:00 -0500

So bad, they are good. In the midst of recording several episodes on marriage and family life, we thought it would be fun to provide listeners with some behind the scenes bonus content. Enjoy!

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BONUS: Dad Jokes with Phillip Grothus - Part 1

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 14 Sep 2022 02:00:00 -0500

So bad, they are good. In the midst of recording several episodes on marriage and family life, we thought it would be fun to provide listeners with some behind the scenes bonus content. Enjoy!

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Saying Goodbye

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Tue, 30 Aug 2022 21:00:00 -0500

Exciting news! Major life changes! And the future of Draw Near. All these are discussed in this episode. We also take a few moments to consider the problems with the way we typically say goodbye and the need to encourage one another. Why should we express gratitude and not take for granted that those closest to us know how much we love and care for them.

Mentioned in this episode:

Hebrews 10:24-25
and let us consider how to stir up one another to love and good works, not neglecting to meet together, as is the habit of some, but encouraging one another, and all the more as you see the Day drawing near.

Romans 15:2
let each of us please his neighbor for his good, to edify him.

1 Thessalonians 5:11
Therefore encourage one another and build one another up, just as you are doing.

Romans 15:5
May the God of steadfastness and encouragement grant you to live in such harmony with one another, in accord with Christ Jesus,

St Pauls examples of praise and thanksgiving for others:
I thank my God every time I remember you.
I thank my God always, making mention of you in my prayers.

St Therese on edifying others:
Miss no single opportunity of making some small sacrifice, here by a smiling look, there by a kindly word; always doing the smallest right and doing it all for love.

A word or a smile is often enough to put fresh life in a despondent soul.

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Our Father Part 6: Lead Us Not Into Temptation & Deliver Us From Evil

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 17 Aug 2022 02:00:00 -0500

Concluding our series on the Our Father, we look at the last two petitions in this prayer. Every human person faces trials and temptations. Scripture refers to a battle between flesh and spirit. What does this mean? What does this petition have to do with it? What value is there in temptation? What does these two petitions teach us about the battle between good and evil. In this episode we will answer all of these questions!

Our Spiritual Warfare Series:
The Invisible World: Angels Part 1
The Invisible World: Angels Part 2
The Invisible World: Demons
The Invisible World: Spiritual Warfare

Detailed notes and discussion questions coming soon!

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Our Father Part 5: Forgive Us Our Trespasses

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Tue, 09 Aug 2022 02:00:00 -0500

"Forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us." This petition in the Our Father offers us both a challenge and an invitation. Each time we pray this, we acknowledge that we are forgiven and so we too must extend forgiveness. But how do we live this? In this episode Fred reflects on this petition and offers some advice from his own experience of finding forgiveness.

Check out our full episode on forgiveness here: As We Forgive

Detailed notes and discussion questions coming soon!

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Our Father Part 4: Give Us This Day Our Daily Bread

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Sun, 07 Aug 2022 23:00:00 -0500

This petition of the Our Father carries with it great meaning and depth. On one hand it is pointing toward the practical daily needs we all have and our dependence upon God. On the other hand, we also see great spiritual truths that should shape our relationship with God and with one another, as well as our role in helping to provide for the needs of others. What are these truths? What are we praying in this petition? What difference does it make? In this episode we will find out!

Detailed notes and discussion questions coming soon!

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Our Father Part 3: Thy Kingdom Come, Thy Will Be Done

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Sun, 26 Jun 2022 22:00:00 -0500

Continuing to dive deep into the Our Father, in this episode Fred takes a look at the petitions, "Thy Kingdom Come" and "Thy Will Be Done." How can the Our Father help us to direct our hearts toward him and better understand his will? How should these two sentences shape our daily lives, our relationships, and the way we approach the world in which we live? Find out on this episode!

Detailed notes and discussion questions coming soon!

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Our Father Part 2: Hallowed be Thy Name

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 15 Jun 2022 21:00:00 -0500

To both grow in the life of prayer, and pray more fruitfully, it is important that we do take the time to reflect on what we are praying, and what those words mean. This helps our prayers to be offered to God with greater devotion and fervency. That said, in this episode we continue our discussion on the Our Father.

This week we will look at the line, “Hallowed be thy name." “Hallowed” can seem a strange and unfamiliar word to 21st Century ears, but it means, “to be made holy;” to be set aside to conform to God’s purpose. This does not mean we somehow make God holy; he is the source of his own holiness. But it does, among other things, remind us of that we hallow God’s name by giving honor, reverence, and adoration to God.

On one hand, we are asking that we recognize God’s name as holy and treat it as such in the way we live our lives. On the other hand, we are also asking that we would live in such a way that others would come to know and revere as holy, the name of the God we profess faith in, and pray to, in this very prayer. In this petition, we are acknowledging that we owe God reverence, and we are reminded that whether his name is revered and kept as holy by others is directly related to how we represent him in the world.

In Isaiah 52 and Ezekiel 36, the Lord laments that his name is blasphemed in the world because of the behavior of those who were to be his ambassadors in the world – his chosen people, Israel. Furthermore, St Paul declares that we are living letters of Christ to be read by all men (2 Cor 3:2-3). Finally, Jesus affirms, “By this all men will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another” (Jn 13:35). How much we need to be reminded of this constantly!

By virtue of our baptism, every one of us is called to a life of holiness and mission. Those two callings converge in this petition. Each one of us is called to share the joy of the Gospel and the love of Christ to a world so desperately thirsty for that love. How well we do this is directly proportionate to our pursuit of holiness and intimacy with Christ in our own lives. The Catechism makes this point very clear, “This work, then, is realized for us and in us only if his name is hallowed by us and in us” (CCC 2808). “Hallowed be thy name,” reminds us not only that this is our purpose, but also in this petition, we are praying that we would make God’s name holy in our lives; so that the world can see the face of Christ in us, and in how we live our lives. We give witness to God’s name and help to ensure that his name is hallowed by striving to do his will; being people of prayer; allowing his grace to animate our lives; seeking first the kingdom; being people of virtue; bearing witness to the love of God in the world (especially toward those who do not share the same values or opinions as us), and putting first our purpose in this life: to know him, love him, and serve him. We are called to do all that we can to cooperate with his will and ensure his name is praised and glorified; that others would come to know his love for all eternity through our witness.

Discussion Questions:
Coming Soon!

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Our Father: Part 1

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 08 Jun 2022 02:00:00 -0500

Many people know how to say the Our Father and learn it from an early age. We can recite it almost without thinking about it. But what do the words of this prayer really mean? Could it be that there is more significance in these words? Jesus Christ gave us this prayer. What is He teaching us in and through this prayer? What can reflection on the words we say so often in this prayer reveal about our relationship with God and how we are to draw near to Him? In this first part of a series on the "Our Father,” Fred begins to unpack, line by line, the profound meaning of this "most perfect prayer" - as St Thomas Aquinas called it - and answers some of these very questions.

Discussion Questions:

What does the Our Father reveal to us about the way we should approach prayer? Our relationship with God the Father? And even the Christian life? How can we apply this truth to our lives? How is this challenging? How is it encouraging?
What is the Gospel message? How has this message impacted your life? What does the realization that we are praying the Gospel message in the Our Father mean for you?
What are some of the initial “take aways” for you regarding the Our Father? How might this effect your prayer of the Our Father?

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Be a Saint or go to Hell (Pt 1)

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 25 May 2022 02:00:00 -0500

Despite the title, this episode (and part two that will follow next time) really is a LIGHTHEARTED discussion on the Four Last Things: Death, Judgment, Heaven, and Hell.

Drawing on our desire to become saints (strive to be a saint and to hell with everything else), as well as our desire to help others become saints, this episode takes a different direction than listeners may expect. Reflecting on the Four Last Things and our own eventual death lead us to a greater intimacy with Christ, and it could do the same in your life! What value is there in such a discussion? What does Scripture reveal to us about death and how we are to live our lives in light of eternity? Listen as we answer these questions in Part 1 on Death and Judgement.

Where is Hell?

Ripperger links
Four Last Things: Death ~ Fr. Ripperger
Four Last Things: Judgment ~ Fr. Ripperger

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Why do THEY have a podcast?

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 11 May 2022 02:00:00 -0500

We recently heard a question about us. Someone asked another friend, "why do THEY have a podcast?" Instead of assuming their intentions behind the question, we prayed with the question. "Why?" In this episode we share why 2 nobodies, sinners, introverts, friends... felt led to begin a podcast. What are we trying to accomplish? What is the future of Draw Near? We also wanted to welcome our hundreds of new listeners, share more of our lives with everyone and answer a couple of common questions we hear.

Why Draw Near?: To grow in holiness together. Quite simply, we want to help others to encounter Christ; to grow in relationship with Him. But, we also want to help others encounter Christ in one another, and grow in relationship with each other. We want to shine the light of Christ so that even when we stumble through the darkness, we do this together following after Christ; that we may be light to one another, encourage one another, and build each other up. With the help of the grace of God, we just want to become saints, and help others to do the same.

Listen to hear more about the future of Draw Near.

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Episodes mentioned:
Why are you Catholic?
Chit Chat and Banter
Virtuous Friendship
4 People you need in your life

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Fr. Stu: A Story of Mercy

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 27 Apr 2022 02:00:00 -0500

With a recent Catholic movie hitting theaters, we thought we would throw our voices in the mix on whether it is worth watching. Yay of nay on Father Stu? Listen to hear a new take on the film... and for some feistiness!
In this episode, Fred and Kara review the movie Father Stu, starring Mark Wahlberg and Mel Gibson. This story is unique, unlike most movies with Christian themes, but filled with messages for all of us! What are those messages? In this episode, you will find out.

Mentioned in this episode:
Article with insights about the making of the movie and with comments from Fr. Stu's close friend about the "language"

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Saints, Karate and Holy Week

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 13 Apr 2022 02:30:00 -0500

In this episode, we spend some time reflecting on the past few weeks and what the Lord has been speaking to our hearts and doing in our lives as we have moved through the end of Lent and into Holy Week. We also discuss the Netflix series, Cobra Kai, and examine some lessons we can draw from it in light of our faith. How does the redemption of Johnny Lawrence resemble our own? Listen to find out! Finally, Kara ends the episode with a prayerful meditation on the Sorrowful Mysteries as we prepare for Good Friday.

Holy Week episode from 2021

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Spiritual Direction

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 30 Mar 2022 02:00:00 -0500

Having a spiritual director can be “trendy.” Nevertheless, there is great value in spiritual direction! We often need help in making decisions for ourselves in the light of faith and going deeper in our spiritual lives; in hearing the voice of the Lord and being accountable for what is or is not happening in prayer. So, who needs a spiritual director? When do we need one most? What can we do if we do not have one? In this episode we are joined by Sr. Fidelis Marie as we discuss the answers to all of these questions and share from our own experiences with spiritual direction.

Mentioned in this episode:
Come, Holy Spirit

Fr Timothy Gallagher and Ignatian discernment

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Take Courage, I Have Overcome the World

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 16 Mar 2022 02:00:00 -0500

Pope Benedict XVI said, “The world promises you comfort. But you were not made for comfort. You were made for greatness.” Yet Jesus tells us in John 16:33 that we can expect tribulation and suffering in this world if we seek to follow Him. How are they both right? What does this mean for us? How are we to live these truths? What role do “comforts” play in our lives? How might they hinder our walk with the Lord? What value is there in trials and tribulation? Jesus tells us in John 17:14 that we can expect trials. But he also says that we should not be afraid, for he has “overcome the world.” What does this mean for us? These are all questions we attempt to answer in this episode!

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Doing Lent... Well?

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 02 Mar 2022 02:00:00 -0600

If you think you are good at Lent… You are not. No one is good at Lent. But there is a good reason for this. Lent is often a challenge because it requires letting go of things that hinder us in following the Lord. It requires taking up the cross and denying ourselves for something much greater and more beautiful: a deeper encounter with the love and person of Jesus Christ. This helps us to begin to think more like Christ, to live more like Christ, to love more like Christ. But how do we do this?
In this episode we invite some of our friends to share some of their own thoughts and experiences of drawing near to the Lord during Lent.

Special Guests:

Link to our previous Lent episode, Why Give Up?

*Some of Kara and Fred’s tips: *

St John the Baptist: "he must increase, and I must decrease."
Pray to your guardian angel to "humiliate you interiorly"
Pray with this question: What is holding me back from growing in my relationship with Christ?
Hear more on this in our "Come Follow Me" episode.

From the segment with Sonja:
Sonja’s LOVE method for prayerful Scripture study

From the segment with Taylor:
If you are not doing the basic fundamentals of living your faith, start there!
Check out our "Made for Greatness" episode for more on this topic.

From the segment with Matthew:
Sign up for Matthew Leonard’s free Lenten study.

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Leading Children to Christ

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 16 Feb 2022 02:00:00 -0600

The Church teaches that parents are the primary evangelists and teachers of their children and goes so far as to refer to the family in the home as “the domestic church.” But what does this mean? Practically, how do we live this out? The Church also places a great emphasis on the role adults play in helping children encounter the love of Christ. In many ways, the Christ children know, the love of God they experience, is that which we model for them.

In this episode we share some experiences from our own families on how we share the love of Christ in our homes and how we strive to be witnesses and hand on the faith.

Whether single or unmarried, parents, aunts, uncles, or just someone who works with children, we believe our discussion can benefit anyone who wants to help the little ones in their lives come to know the love of Christ.

*Some of the tips we discuss: *

Living as a witness: demonstrate the life of prayer and devotion and invite them into that experience.
Be authentic: sometimes the life of faith can be challenging. Its okay to talk about that.
Apologize and seek forgiveness when its needed. Demonstrate God’s mercy and the need to both extend and seek forgiveness.
Use every moment as a teaching moment.
Recognize the great faith children have. Allow God to teach you through them and draw near to the Lord.
Give the reading of Scripture a pride of place in your home. This is how we come to know the Lord most profoundly, in Sacred Scripture.
Help to form older children to become examples to, and in their own way, teachers of their younger sibling.
Embrace the liturgical calendar and incorporate significant dates into the rhythm of family life.
Create a sacred space in your home for prayer and devotion.
Teach you kids how to pray! We recommend the ACTS method for children:
a. (A)doration
b. (C)ontrition
c. (T)hanksgiving
d. (S)upplication
https://hallow.com/2020/06/20/how-to-pray-acts/

Deuteronomy 6:4-9
“Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God is one Lord; and you shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your might. And these words which I command you this day shall be upon your heart; and you shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise. And you shall bind them as a sign upon your hand, and they shall be as frontlets between your eyes. And you shall write them on the doorposts of your house and on your gates.”

The Paradoxical Commandments by Kent M. Keith
https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/6396-the-paradoxical-commandments-people-are-illogical-unreasonable-and-self-centered-lo

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Come, Holy Spirit

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 02 Feb 2022 02:00:00 -0600

Who is the Holy Spirit? Why is a relationship with Him so important? In Scripture, Christ promises the gift of the Holy Spirit, the love of God poured out into our hearts (Rom 5:5). He is Comforter, Teacher, Counselor and Guide. In Acts 15, when the Church is faced with a difficult decision, they seek Him in prayer, trusting in Christ’s promise that the Holy Spirit will lead and guide in all truth. There we hear the phrase, “It seemed good to us and the Holy Spirit.” How can we come to a place where we also can say this about our decisions and our daily lives? How can we learn to hear the voice of the Holy Spirit? How can we experience his promptings in our daily lives? What does this have to do with the love of God? And how has God gifted you in the power and grace of the Holy Spirit to renew the face of the earth? We will discuss all these things in this episode!

We mention the “Seven Gifts of the Holy Spirit” in this episode. These are commonly emphasized in preparation for Confirmation. We love how the Baltimore Catechism describes these gifts:

"The gifts of the Holy Spirit enable us to catch the breath of the Holy Spirit, moving the ship of our soul much faster and farther than we could ever sail it by using the virtues ourselves. For example, we can use the virtue of faith by making an act of faith. But to use this virtue constantly, being aware of God's presence in us and about us at all times, is more than we can do ourselves unless the Holy Spirit does it in us. Likewise, we can make an act of love. But to love our enemies for God's sake and to be willing to die for them, we need the help of the Holy Spirit. THE POWER OF THE HOLY SPIRIT, WHICH OUR SHIP CATCHES BY UNFOLDING THE SAILS OF THE GIFTS, ENABLES US TO DO EVEN THINGS THAT ARE HUMANLY IMPOSSIBLE. IT IS THE GIFTS OF THE HOLY SPIRIT IN THE SOULS OF THE SAINTS THAT EXPLAIN THE SEEMINGLY IMPOSSIBLE THINGS IN THEIR LIVES" (our emphasis added).

These seven gifts are largely aimed at our own growth in holiness:
• Wisdom helps us to see the world through the lens of God’s truth.
• Understanding is the ability to grasp the truths of our faith.
• Knowledge helps you to understand the meaning and purpose God has for you and to actually live up this meaning.
• Counsel is also known as “right judgement.” It is the ability to follow God’s plan in our choices and decisions.
• Fortitude is also known as “courage.” It is the gift to stand up for what is true and right.
• Piety helps us worship God with true devotion and love.
• Fear of the Lord aids someone to have wonder and awe at God.

You can read more about the New Testament (charismatic) gifts in:
• Romans 12
• 1 Corinthians 12
• Ephesians 4

*Want to learn more or dive deeper? We highly recommend the series, The Wild Goose by Fr Dave Pivonka, TOR. You can find it here: https://thewildgooseisloose.com/wild-goose-main-page *

Learn about Lizzie Tecklenburg here: https://www.focus.org/missionaries/lizzie-tecklenburg

Prayers to the Holy Spirit written by Fred and Kara:
Come, Holy Spirit and move upon the waters of my heart. Create in me a new heart - a clean heart! Renew in me a steadfast spirit that I may never be cast from your presence. God who is love, fill me so full of that love that it may overflow into the hearts of all those around me. Lord, God Almighty, help me to love better, to love stronger, to love deeper, to love more fully like yourself. Holy Spirit, God who is love, help me to love well. Amen.

Come, Holy Spirit. Inspire our thoughts. Guide our words and direct our actions. May all of these serve to build your kingdom in our hearts, in our homes, in our relationships, and in the world around us. Lord, Jesus Christ, as you call us out upon the water, may the Holy Spirit fill us anew, baptize us with fresh fire, and give us the courage to keep our eyes on you in the midst of every storm. We ask this through our Lord Jesus Christ, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

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COVER SONG: "Amazing Grace"

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 19 Jan 2022 02:00:00 -0600

Our work and our lives with our familes has kept our plates full in the new year. We also have continued to battle with germs and sickness. Pray for us as we pray for you! We needed some extra time for rest this month. That said, we still want to make sure we get something out for listeners to enjoy.

So, instead, please enjoy this bonus content, a cover of Amazing Grace (My Chains Are Gone) we recorded a while ago. Our arrangement is a bit different as we have added in all of the original verses of Amazing Grace. New full length episodes, coming soon!

(writer credit: John Newton, Chris Tomlin, Louie Giglio )

Cover Vocals: Kara Kardell

Cover Guitar: Fred Shellabarger

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No Longer Slaves

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 05 Jan 2022 02:00:00 -0600

In the most wonderfully busy Christmas Holiday season full of sick kids and lost voices, we were not able to record a full episode for all of you this week!
So, instead, please enjoy this bonus content of a cover of "No Longer Slaves" by Bethel Music we recorded a while ago.
(writer credit: Brian Johnson, Joel Case, Jonathan David Helser)
Cover Vocals: Kara Kardell
Cover Guitar: Fred Shellabarger

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Christmas Bonus: Yes, Virginia There is a Santa Clause by Francis Church

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Fri, 24 Dec 2021 04:00:00 -0600

Following up on our Christmas Spectacular episode, we invite you (and your family) to enjoy a timeless story that Fred reads to his children every year! This is a purely "sit back and relax," "story time" sort of "shorty" episode. We hope this reading will be a blessing to you this Christmas season. Thank you for listening and allowing us to be a part of your lives this year! Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!

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Draw Near Christmas Spectacular!

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 22 Dec 2021 02:00:00 -0600

In this episode, we take a step back, relax, get a little bit silly, and invite you into our own lives and friendship. We discuss some of our favorite Advent traditions as well as some of our favorite Christmas memories and share how we celebrate this most beautiful time of year with our families. We also discuss New Year’s resolutions, what ours are, and offer some suggestions on how to approach the New Year.
This episode was a lot of fun to record. We jokingly called it “Chit Chat and Banter: Christmas Edition,” but maybe “Christmas Spectacular” is better… a little? We invite you to sit down with a cup of hot chocolate… or eggnog if you prefer (see below for a great recipe) and enjoy our discussion!
May the Lord bless you and keep you this holiday season and may his face shine upon you in the new year!

Mentioned in this episode:
Want to learn more about the Jesse Tree? (Isaiah 11:1):
Jesse Trees- What Is It And How To Get Started
The Jesse Tree: Explanation for Catholic Families
Holy Heroes Advent Adventure Jesse Tree Ornaments
Ornaments for the Jesse Tree
The Religion Teacher’s Jesse Tree Kit

The book Fred reads to his kids from every Christmas:
Saturday Evening Post Christmas Book
The Gift of the Magi
Yes, Virginia There is a Santa Clause

Awesome Eggnog Recipe

Need some help on making a good New Year’s Eve resolution, check these out!
10 Simple Spiritual Resolutions for the New Year
Holy Habits: 20 New Year’s Resolutions
8 (Spiritual) New Year's Resolutions for Catholics

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Scripture Passages:

Isaiah 11:1 "There shall come forth a shoot from the stump of Jesse, and a branch shall grow out of his roots."
1 Corinthians 13: 4-8 "Love is patient and kind; love is not jealous or boastful; it is not arrogant or rude. Love does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrong, but rejoices in the right. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never ends."

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Full of Grace

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 08 Dec 2021 02:00:00 -0600

For such a long time, I (Kara) thought the Immaculate Conception was all about Jesus. After all… he was miraculously conceived! BUT this Feast, which we celebrate today on December 8th, is All. About. MARY!

Mary was immaculately conceived in the womb of her mother. She was created without the stain of Original Sin. She was always “Full of Grace.”

In this “shorty” Kara dives into a Scriptural study of key texts to point to Mary’s Immaculate Conception with hopes that each listener would be drawn deeper into the celebration of this feast and Holy Day of obligation.

Questions answered:

How do we know Mary was special or set apart?
What is the Immaculate Conception?
What is Original Sin? Where is that in Scripture?
Where is Mary’s Immaculate Conception found in Scripture?

*Words Referenced: *
Kecharitōmenē: Greek word for “full of grace” in Luke 1:28
Charis: Greek word meaning grace

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Until the King Returns

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Mon, 06 Dec 2021 02:00:00 -0600

In this Scriptural shorty, Kara takes on the topic of the Papacy. Have you ever wondered why the Catholic Church has a Pope? Where is that in the Bible? What is the purpose of the Pope?
Study of Scripture and the teachings of the Church should always point us to the love of Christ! The papacy does this; it points to the love of Christ! How?

Mentioned in this episode:

Matthew 16: 13-20
2 Samuel 7: 11-14; 16
Isaiah 22: 15; 19-23

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God's Ways are Desert Ways: An interview with Sonja Corbitt on her book "Just Rest"

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 24 Nov 2021 02:00:00 -0600

In this episode, we speak with guest, Catholic speaker, author, and podcaster, Sonja Corbitt! You won't want to miss it!!
Sonja is known as the "Bible Evangelista" and that she is! Her knowledge and incorporation of the Scriptures is exactly what we need more of in the Church! Our spiritual growth and knowledge of the faith should not be based on opinion, but rooted in the Word of God! Sonja does this.
This episode unpacks some content in her book, "Just Rest." God's ways are ALWAYS desert ways. He shows us this reality throughout the Scriptures, specifically through the Exodus. We will undergo trials and struggles, but God is working within us in the midst of the deserts!
God wants to bring us to the promised land! But, as seen with the Israelites, before the Promised Land comes the desert. There are lessons to be learned and "dew" to be given within these deserts. Listen to this episode to hear this in depth discussion of "Just Rest" and some profound experiences of Fred and Kara in reading this book.

*Included in this episode: *
"Just Rest" by Sonja Corbitt
Sonja's Lectio Method
"How to Pray Like Mary" by Sonja Corbitt

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What Am I Supposed to Do?

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 10 Nov 2021 02:00:00 -0600

In this episode, we talk about living holiness in our every day lives with special friend and guest, Sister Fidelis Marie of the Missionary Benedictine Sisters.
It's easy to get bogged down discerning the future options, vocations, or the many small choices placed in front of us.
How do we know what we are supposed to do? What happens if we get off the path God wants for us? What if I'm not living in my big "V" Vocation, yet?
Sister Fidelis gives wonderful, spiritually balanced, guidance on discerning where God calls us... DAILY! We also talk about making decisions in life, consolation and desolation, wounds, and the importance of living out the call to holiness each day. We shouldn't wait until a future date to become who God created us to be! Simply say yes to God.

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St. Therese of Lisieux: Living the Heart of the Gospel

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 27 Oct 2021 02:00:00 -0500

In this episode, we again take up the theme of “life lessons” from the Saints. We share our encounters with St. Therese of Lisieux, the “Little Flower,” and share some deeply personal experiences of how her words, and no doubt her intercession, helped us draw near to the Lord during very difficult times. We consider St. Therese a very dear friend and we hope that this episode will help you to also discover just how relatable she is; and how her “Little Way” can help you also find joy and fulfillment even in the smallest and seemingly insignificant moments.

Referenced in this episode:
I Believe in Love
Story of a Soul
I See a Movement blog
Story of a Soul (audiobook)

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Coping with Feelings of Failure

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 13 Oct 2021 02:00:00 -0500

No doubt we have all wrestled with discouragement. Thoughts of our own failures and shortcomings, whether real or only perceived, can often surround us like a heavy storm. We can feel like we have given it our all, but our efforts still seem to fall short of our expectations. It can be difficult to hear the voice of the Lord, much less to see him in the midst of the storm. BUT even if he is asleep in the boat, he is always present in moments of failure... in the storms. And the best part is, he wants to use our shortcomings to bring about something beautiful!

You'll also hear: What can we learn from Paul? How can we see things through the lens of the Gospel and the love of Christ? How do we cope and respond when we are tempted with discouragement, fear, and feelings of failure? What does Fred mean by, "I am a sinner falling up on my way to sainthood"? In this episode Kara and Fred share personal stories from their own lives, and how they cope during moments such as these.

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Praying the Catechism and God's Incredible Love for You

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Sat, 09 Oct 2021 02:00:00 -0500

In this "shorty," in honor of our [website](www.drawnear.me) launch week, Fred builds on the previous discussion about the importance of Scripture study, and the how praying the Scriptures helps us to walk and talk with God.

In this segment, Fred explores the Catechism of the Catholic Church, which is itself filled with Scripture. This book, a summation of the Catholic faith, is not merely a reference book. One can explore its rich depths in a variety of ways. Here, Fred presents a method for praying the Catechism, and reflects on the profound truth and beauty that is revealed in the process.

Catechism of the Catholic Church
Paragraph 1
God, infinitely perfect and blessed in himself, in a plan of sheer goodness freely created man to make him share in his own blessed life. For this reason, at every time and in every place, God draws close to man. He calls man to seek him, to know him, to love him with all his strength. He calls together all men, scattered and divided by sin, into the unity of his family, the Church. To accomplish this, when the fullness of time had come, God sent his Son as Redeemer and Saviour. In his Son and through him, he invites men to become, in the Holy Spirit, his adopted children and thus heirs of his blessed life.

How might we pray this passage? Like this:** Insert your name in the blanks**

God, infinitely perfect and blessed in himself, in a plan of sheer goodness freely created _____________ share in his own blessed life. For this reason, at every time and in every place, God draws close to ______________. He calls ______________ [and all men] to seek him, to know him, to love him with all his strength. He calls ____________ [and] together all men, scattered and divided by sin, into the unity of his family, the Church. To accomplish this, when the fullness of time had come, God sent his Son as Redeemer and Saviour. In his Son and through him, he invites ____________ [and all] men to become, in the Holy Spirit, his adopted children and thus heirs of his blessed life.

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The Word is Alive

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Thu, 07 Oct 2021 02:00:00 -0500

Scripture is the Living Word of God. It is there, in Scripture, that we encounter Christ. It is through study and prayer of the Word that we walk with God and speak with Him. God is alive in the Word!
We might struggle to hear God's voice. Maybe it's hard to grow in holiness. But the one thing that is absolutely essential to grow closer to God is time with Scripture!
In this "shorty," Fred and Kara talk about the importance of Scripture. They share life-changing passages in their own lives, give tips to study Scripture, and teach how to pray with Scripture. It truly is a MUST!

How to pray Lectio Divina

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Mary: Ark of the New Covenant

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Tue, 05 Oct 2021 02:00:00 -0500

It isn’t uncommon for Catholics to hear that we put too much emphasis on Mary... or, “She’s not that important…She’s barely even in scripture.” Well… Mary is ALL over scripture.
This "shorty" (The name we have decided to call short bonus episodes) teaches on Mary as the Ark of the New Covenant.
What is the Ark of the Covenant in the Old Testament? How does Luke's Gospel present Mary as the New Ark? What does this have to do with the Assumption? Find out in this shorty!

Passages referenced:

2 Samuel 6:2–3; 6–12, 16, 18
2 Maccabees 2:4-8
Luke 1:39–46, 56
Hebrew 9:4

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Life Lessons from Assisi

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 29 Sep 2021 02:00:00 -0500

St. Francis and St. Clare have become profound intercessors in our lives who have turned into great friends!
There are many assumptions or misconceptions out there about these Saints...
This Monday, October 4th, is the Feast of St. Francis. Over 800 years beyond his death, he are still "rebuilding the Church!" WHY? HOW?
To honor Francis near his Feast, we wanted to share the amazing lives of Francis and his dear friend, Clare, with listeners! This episode teaches on their lives, while pulling five life lessons we can all learn from their witness of love and holiness!
We hope by the end of this episode, they may hold a place in your heart and become friends of yours, too!

Referenced in this episode:
St. Clare of Assisi Book
St. Francis of Assisi Book

Francis's 5 Elements of Penance:

Love for God
Love for Neighbor
Hatred of Sin
Reception of the Sacraments
Produce worthy fruits of penance

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Virtuous Friendship

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 15 Sep 2021 02:00:00 -0500

Referenced in the episode:
What is Project Timothy video
Project Timothy Testimonials
4 People you need in your life
Male and Female friendships:
Opposite Sex Friendships
Holy Friendship in a hypersexualized world

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Ask a Priest

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Mon, 12 Jul 2021 02:00:00 -0500

On this week’s episode of Draw Near, we are joined by our good friend Fr. Patrick Behm. We explore a variety of topics as we discuss what greatness looks like TODAY, how the past year has impacted Father, a trend toward new age spirituality, and more.

(It's a hodge podge of riveting questions!) You will want to tune in!

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Episode 19: Chit Chat and Banter

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 26 May 2021 02:00:00 -0500

In this episode of Draw Near, we step away from being hosts and turn the microphone over to our friend John Paul, as he asks us questions from listeners. In this fun, light hearted discussion, you will learn more about us, our favorite movies, why we always joke about "chit chat and banter," how our families help us to draw near to Christ, and more questions from listeners!

Just for fun... Fred's Top Ten Family Board Games
1) Wingspan
2) Everdell
3) Calico
4) Isle of Cats
5) Cottage Garden
6) Azul
7) Gingerbread House
8) Machi Koro
9) Alhambra
10) Splendor

Episodes referenced:
Why are you Catholic?
4 People you need in your life

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Most Humble

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 28 Apr 2021 02:00:00 -0500

For all of time God had a beautiful and perfect plan for salvation. And St. Joseph was always a part of that plan! That is something to be particularly proud of, and yet he is one of the greatest examples of humility.

May 1st is the Feast of St. Joseph the worker. This year is dedicated as the Year of St. Joseph. We invite you to spend time learning about this amazing Saint—a model for each of us in humility and holiness!

St. Joseph, pray for us!

**To submit a question to us for the upcoming question/answer episode email: drawnearmovement@gmail.com

Topics covered: St. Joseph, Scriptural summary of Israel’s history, King David, humility, holiness.

Made for greatness (latest episode on holiness)

Small Group Discussion questions:

Describe your knowledge of and relationship with St. Joseph.

What stands out to you about Joseph, the father of Jesus? Why?

Why do you think God chose St. Joseph to be his earthly Father?

How might God be calling you to grow closer to his chosen earthly father?

How did Christ draw you closer to him through this episode?

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Made For Greatness

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 14 Apr 2021 02:00:00 -0500

St. Francis of Assisi, in hearing God say "rebuild my Church," began rebuilding himself in holiness... the people are the Church! The people are called to be rebuilt. St. Francis gave up worldly greatness to be great in the eyes of the Lord. He gave his whole self to God.

In this episode we discuss how the pursuit of holiness begins with our conversion; the loving, humble, response we make to God who has demonstrated his great love for us on the Cross. We also discuss how we live out this call to holiness in the face of many obstacles that work against us. Regardless of any circumstances, growth in holiness and perfection is a pursuit aimed towards heaven but a pursuit that will never end this side of heaven.

Mentioned in this episode:

For You

How to Do Lectio Divina

How to Win the Culture War

The Scourging at the Pillar

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For You

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 31 Mar 2021 02:00:00 -0500

Holy Week is a time to celebrate and remember all Christ has done FOR YOU! His deep and endless love is shown in his willing sacrifice upon the cross. He did this all for you.

"I Thirst" reflection link

Prayer at the end of episode: “To Be A Disciple of Christ” by Fr. Michael Scanlan, TOR

Lord God, you who provide the fire for a transformed life, I come before you this day and beg for the fire of your love and mercy to forgive my sins and free me from my self-imposed bondages.

I pray for the fire of your Spirit to lead me in repentance and conversion so I may be faithful in following you.

I pray for the fire of your love to ignite my heart with love for my brothers and sisters and lead me to intercede in faith for them.

I pray for the fire of faith to be committed to you and your teaching as a servant to His Master.

I pray for the fire of your desire to save all mankind to inflame me so that I can witness to the Good News of Jesus Christ and be a channel for the salvation of mankind.

Lord, I want to burn for you before all peoples.

Jesus, meek and humble of heart, make my heart like unto Thine.

Amen.

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Discernment and Decision Making

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 03 Mar 2021 00:00:00 -0600

If we are trying to love and serve the Lord, and interested in growing in holiness, we always want to make sure to make decisions according to the will of God. However, it is not always easy for us to make decisions. We can be tempted to become anxious and fearful when faced with making an important decision. In this episode Kara and Fred share some thoughts from the treasury of the Church’s teaching as well as their own experience in striving to follow the will of God in their own lives.

Small Group Discussion Questions:

What is your current process of discerning the Lord’s will for your life? In what ways has it worked for you?

What is one thing you learned about yourself through your journey of discernment?

What is one way your relationship with the Lord changed/grew/struggled in moments of decision-making?

Look back on an important decision in your life. How can you see connections to that choice and how God worked in it to bring you here? How might things be different had you chosen the different path?

How did Christ draw you closer to him through this episode?

St Ignatius of Loyola’s key to making a good decision:

“To make a good choice our intentions ought to be simple: only looking at what we were created for; namely the praise of God, our Lord, and the salvation of our souls. So, I ought to choose, in whatever I may do, that which may help me fulfill that end for which I am created.”

Catechism of the Catholic Church, paragraph 1:

"God, infinitely perfect and blessed in himself, in a plan of sheer goodness freely created man to make him share in his own blessed life. For this reason, at every time and in every place, God draws close to man. He calls man to seek him, to know him, to love him with all his strength. He calls together all men, scattered and divided by sin, into the unity of his family, the Church. To accomplish this, when the fullness of time had come, God sent his Son as Redeemer and Savior. In his Son and through him, he invites men to become, in the Holy Spirit, his adopted children and thus heirs of his blessed life."

Recommended questions to consider when making decisions, especially those of greater importance:

“How am I called to serve God?”

“How am I to most fully, and faithfully, live according to my state in life?”

“What does it look like for me to know him, love him, and serve him in my daily life?”

“How does this help me get to heaven?”

“How does it help to get others to heaven?”

Past Episodes Mentioned in the Show:

Four People You Need in Your Life: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/4-people-you-need-in-your-life/id1536166779?i=1000507731144

Why Are You Catholic?: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/why-are-you-catholic/id1536166779?i=1000501933075

The Invisible World – Spiritual Warfare: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-invisible-world-spiritual-warfare/id1536166779?i=1000496584028

The Invisible World – Angels Part 2: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-invisible-world-angels-part-2/id1536166779?i=1000495880373

WHY Give Up?

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 17 Feb 2021 02:00:00 -0600

In this Ash Wednesday episode, we explore the "why" behind our Lenten sacrifices and devotion; as well as some tips on dealing with discouragement during Lent. We also offer some tips and suggestions from our own experience, on how to draw near to Christ during Lent. Lent is a time in which God provides us an opportunity to say, like Peter, “Yes, Lord, I love you more than these.” To put our focus on what matters most and to encounter him in a deeper way. An encounter with Christ that will help to set us on the right path, to think like him, to love like him.

Small Group Discussion Questions:

Why would you intentionally enter into moments of sacrifice in life?
How does making sacrifices in your own life relate to the life of Christ? How can we grow in understanding Jesus better by uniting our sacrifices to his?
Think of past Lenten sacrifices. What was something you gave up? What was your intention behind giving that up? Did it bring you closer to Christ?
How did Christ draw you closer to him through this episode?

Mentioned During this episode: Come, Follow Me: https://drawnear.podbean.com/e/come-follow-me-1606269394/

Life Weeds: https://nosidebar.com/life-weeds/

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4 People You Need in Your Life

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Thu, 04 Feb 2021 11:00:00 -0600

We are made for relationships... and yet it seems so hard to find those intimate Catholic friendships. You know... the kind where you don't have to pretend to have it all together. The kind where you feel guided, supported, and loved! The friendships where at different times you are being led and then leading and then walking side by side through life. Listen to this episode to hear the 4 roles we need in our lives when it comes to friendships. What does it mean to have a Paul? A Timothy? Barnabas and Silas?

Small Group Discussion Questions:

Everyone needs a Paul, a Timothy and a Barnabas. What has been your experience with these relationships?

How has a Paul, a Timothy, and/or a Barnabas helped you to grow in your own relationship with Christ?

In what ways are you helping draw others closer to Christ as a Paul? As a Barnabas?

How did Christ draw you closer to him through this episode?

Topics: friendship, mentoring/accompaniment, Pauline Scripture, made for relationship.

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As We Forgive

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 20 Jan 2021 02:00:00 -0600

The Our Father prayer says, "Forgive us our trespasses AS we forgive those who trespass against us." Mt 6:12, 14-15. Each time we pray this, we acknowledge that we are forgiven to the measure we forgive. Listen to this episode to deepen your spiritual understanding of this call to forgive others and ourselves, which is accomplished through Christ.

Included topics: forgiveness, grace, confession, love, Our Father, Sermon on the Mount.

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Life of Prayer

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 06 Jan 2021 02:00:00 -0600

In a follow-up episode to Prayer: Intimate Friendship with God, we continue the conversation on prayer with friend and speaker Matthew Leonard. No matter where we are in our relationship with God, He is always calling us to grow in the spiritual life... to grow in union with Him. Prayer is how we do that.

Included topics: Attention and focus in prayer, how prayer relates to grace received in the Sacraments, modes of prayer, spiritual maturity, and conformity with Christ.

Prayer: Intimate Friendship with God

Matthew Leonard

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Prayer: Intimate Friendship with God

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 23 Dec 2020 02:00:00 -0600

The spiritual IS the practical. Nothing in our spiritual lives (or lives in general) is more integral than a prayer life. This is where we grow in friendship with God! Listen for more on this topic, biblical examples and teachings, and tips to overcoming obstacles in prayer.

Small Group Discussion Questions:

Why is prayer important? What impact, if any, does prayer have on your life?

What devotions, prayers, or times of prayer have had the most influence in your relationship with God?

What are some common obstacles to prayer? How can you overcome these obstacles?

In what ways is God calling you to grow deeper in the life of prayer?

How did Christ draw you closer to him through this episode?

Show Notes:

Come Follow Me

Willingness to Suffer

Why are you Catholic? (testimonies)

Lectio Divina explained (credit to Evangelical Catholic)

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Why are you Catholic?

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 09 Dec 2020 02:00:00 -0600

There are many questions that we often may never intentionally reflect on. In this episode, we ask each other a couple of these questions and share parts of our testimonies. What led Fred to convert to Catholicism? What impacted Kara's faith in a dramatic way?

As promised, here are a few questions to reflect on for your own life after you listen:

Why do you believe in God?

Why are you Catholic?

What difference has your Catholic faith made in your life?

How has your encounter with Christ in the Eucharist changed your life?

Who, in your life, has shown you the love of the Father?

When has your faith been most challenged? How did this impact you?

How have you experienced the grace of God in your life this past week?

When was the first time your were aware of God's presence in your life?

I Thirst Reflection

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Come Follow Me

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 25 Nov 2020 02:00:00 -0600

Jesus’ call to “Come, follow me” was not just for Peter, Andrew, James, and John—it’s for each of us today. In this episode, we explore what it means to drop our nets, let go of what holds us back, and embrace the daily invitation of discipleship. With Scripture, Church teaching, and real-life reflections, we’ll uncover how following Christ transforms ordinary lives into a mission of purpose and renewal.

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Redemptive Suffering

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 18 Nov 2020 15:00:00 -0600

In this short episode, we welcome a friend and well-known Catholic speaker, Matthew Leonard. We had a great conversation with him about love, prayer, the interior life, and suffering. As a follow-up to our "Willingness to Suffer" episode, we wanted to share the audio from the short portion of our discussion regarding suffering. We hope you enjoy!

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Willingness to Suffer

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Wed, 11 Nov 2020 02:00:00 -0600

Jesus tells us narrow and difficult is the path that leads to life. Does this mean we will naturally experience hardships and suffering?

What is the cause of suffering? Why do bad things happen to good people? Does God even ASK us to suffering? Find out the answers to these questions and more in this episode of Draw Near.

Small Group Discussion Questions:

How have you experienced the grace and presence of God in moments of suffering?
This episode emphasized the redemptive meaning behind suffering referencing how a child is the beauty that comes from the suffering of childbirth. How did God transform your suffering to become redemptive for the sake of your salvation or the salvation of others?
Christ’s sacrificial love for you begs for a response. How do you respond to God’s love through your words, witness, prayer, actions etc.?
How did Christ draw you closer to him through this episode?

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The Invisible World: Spiritual Warfare

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Fri, 30 Oct 2020 02:00:00 -0500

The devil and his evil ones tempt us and try to do all they can to draw us away from God... to steal our lives. Listen to find out how to combat spiritual warfare!

St. Michael the Archangel, pray for us.

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The Invisible World: Demons

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Mon, 26 Oct 2020 02:00:00 -0500

Continuing the series on the Invisible World, demons are quite real. Evil wants to remain hidden, because it can do so much more damage in the dark. Listen to this episode to bring evil and the attempts to drag you away from God into the light!

(Note: God is all powerful and has dominion over good AND evil. There is no fight. The fight is already won when we run to God.)

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Episode 3: The Invisible World: Angels part 2

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Fri, 23 Oct 2020 09:00:00 -0500

Continuing the "Invisible World" series, Fred and Kara provide practical tips to increase devotion to guardian angels and allow them to work more in our lives. The invisible world works in the visible world... in your life!

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The Invisible World: Angels Part 1

drawnear.me@gmail.com (Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell) — Tue, 20 Oct 2020 11:00:00 -0500

90% of God's creation is INVISIBLE! In this "Invisible World" series, Fred and Kara talk about angels and demons. This first episode will answer the questions: What are angels? How do they interact in the visible world? How can we invite them into our lives?

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