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    <description>On Grief: A Podcast about Death is an exploration of what the people closest to the dead and dying know about death that the average lay person is too scared to ask.
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    <copyright>© 2026 On Grief: A Podcast about Death</copyright>
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    <itunes:subtitle>We all die, but almost none of us talk about it</itunes:subtitle>
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    <itunes:summary>On Grief: A Podcast about Death is an exploration of what the people closest to the dead and dying know about death that the average lay person is too scared to ask.
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      <title>Episode 107: The Right to Die With Exit International's Philip Nitschke</title>
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      <pubDate>Thu, 31 Oct 2019 11:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
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      <itunes:episode>107</itunes:episode>
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      <itunes:subtitle>While most of us respect that the terminally ill or very old might want to exercise their right to die, not many have come around on the idea that any adult with mental capacity should have the right to end their life on their own terms.
Philip Nitschke joins me to explain why Exit International provides information and works to move legislation past a medicalized model to bring this crucial right to more people.</itunes:subtitle>
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        <![CDATA[<p>While most of us respect that the terminally ill or very old might want to exercise their right to die, not many have come around on the idea that any adult with mental capacity should have the right to end their life on their own terms.</p>

<p>Philip Nitschke joins me to explain why Exit International provides information and works to move legislation past a medicalized model to bring this crucial right to more people.</p>

<ul>
<li>    In this episode, we discuss:</li>
<li>    Societal taboos around this topic</li>
<li>    The interest by the general public in understanding this right</li>
<li>    What are the new trends in this area</li>
<li>    Why people who want to exercise this right need a plan in place</li>
<li>    What a SARCO pod is</li>
<li>    And much more...</li>
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<p><a href="https://exitinternational.net/" rel="nofollow">Exit International</a></p>

<p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aIY7lumxQxE" rel="nofollow">The SARCO pod video </a></p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>While most of us respect that the terminally ill or very old might want to exercise their right to die, not many have come around on the idea that any adult with mental capacity should have the right to end their life on their own terms.</p>

<p>Philip Nitschke joins me to explain why Exit International provides information and works to move legislation past a medicalized model to bring this crucial right to more people.</p>

<ul>
<li>    In this episode, we discuss:</li>
<li>    Societal taboos around this topic</li>
<li>    The interest by the general public in understanding this right</li>
<li>    What are the new trends in this area</li>
<li>    Why people who want to exercise this right need a plan in place</li>
<li>    What a SARCO pod is</li>
<li>    And much more...</li>
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<p><a href="https://exitinternational.net/" rel="nofollow">Exit International</a></p>

<p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aIY7lumxQxE" rel="nofollow">The SARCO pod video </a></p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>While most of us respect that the terminally ill or very old might want to exercise their right to die, not many have come around on the idea that any adult with mental capacity should have the right to end their life on their own terms.</p>

<p>Philip Nitschke joins me to explain why Exit International provides information and works to move legislation past a medicalized model to bring this crucial right to more people.</p>

<ul>
<li>    In this episode, we discuss:</li>
<li>    Societal taboos around this topic</li>
<li>    The interest by the general public in understanding this right</li>
<li>    What are the new trends in this area</li>
<li>    Why people who want to exercise this right need a plan in place</li>
<li>    What a SARCO pod is</li>
<li>    And much more...</li>
</ul>

<p><a href="https://exitinternational.net/" rel="nofollow">Exit International</a></p>

<p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aIY7lumxQxE" rel="nofollow">The SARCO pod video </a></p>]]>
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      <title>Episode 117: Widows</title>
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      <itunes:episode>117</itunes:episode>
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      <itunes:subtitle>Thank you to everyone who was patient during the hiatus. 

In this episode, Shannon Culver, Alexie Landry, Janice Tsao, and Sarah Keast join me to discuss what life is like for widows, specifically young widows.</itunes:subtitle>
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        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, we discuss:</p>

<ul>
<li>How young widows are treated differently than older widows</li>
<li>What strange things people say to you when you&#39;re a widow</li>
<li>How people often try to burnish a dead spouse instead of being realistic about their lives</li>
<li>What taboos there are around dating again</li>
<li>How being a young widow changes how you parent</li>
<li>And more.</li>
</ul>

<p>Lost and Found can be found on the web: <a href="https://lostandfoundto.com/" rel="nofollow">https://lostandfoundto.com/</a> and on instagram: <a href="https://instagram.com/lostandfoundto" rel="nofollow">@lostandfoundto</a></p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, we discuss:</p>

<ul>
<li>How young widows are treated differently than older widows</li>
<li>What strange things people say to you when you&#39;re a widow</li>
<li>How people often try to burnish a dead spouse instead of being realistic about their lives</li>
<li>What taboos there are around dating again</li>
<li>How being a young widow changes how you parent</li>
<li>And more.</li>
</ul>

<p>Lost and Found can be found on the web: <a href="https://lostandfoundto.com/" rel="nofollow">https://lostandfoundto.com/</a> and on instagram: <a href="https://instagram.com/lostandfoundto" rel="nofollow">@lostandfoundto</a></p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, we discuss:</p>

<ul>
<li>How young widows are treated differently than older widows</li>
<li>What strange things people say to you when you&#39;re a widow</li>
<li>How people often try to burnish a dead spouse instead of being realistic about their lives</li>
<li>What taboos there are around dating again</li>
<li>How being a young widow changes how you parent</li>
<li>And more.</li>
</ul>

<p>Lost and Found can be found on the web: <a href="https://lostandfoundto.com/" rel="nofollow">https://lostandfoundto.com/</a> and on instagram: <a href="https://instagram.com/lostandfoundto" rel="nofollow">@lostandfoundto</a></p>]]>
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      <title>Episode 116: Complex Grief with Lindsay Joy Taylor</title>
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      <itunes:episode>116</itunes:episode>
      <itunes:title>Complex Grief with Lindsay Joy Taylor</itunes:title>
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      <itunes:author>Karen Geier</itunes:author>
      <itunes:subtitle>Lindsay Joy Taylor of the Joyful Jewelry Box  (https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheJoyfulJewelryBox) joins me to discuss her incredible story of managing grief.</itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:duration>16:52</itunes:duration>
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        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, we discuss:</p>

<ul>
<li>Traumatic loss as an infant</li>
<li>What people say to children when they lose parents</li>
<li>The perils of being high functioning while grieving</li>
<li>When she knew she needed therapy</li>
<li>How to navigate therapy when your memories are scant</li>
<li>How she turned her pain into a new career</li>
<li>And more...</li>
</ul>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, we discuss:</p>

<ul>
<li>Traumatic loss as an infant</li>
<li>What people say to children when they lose parents</li>
<li>The perils of being high functioning while grieving</li>
<li>When she knew she needed therapy</li>
<li>How to navigate therapy when your memories are scant</li>
<li>How she turned her pain into a new career</li>
<li>And more...</li>
</ul>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, we discuss:</p>

<ul>
<li>Traumatic loss as an infant</li>
<li>What people say to children when they lose parents</li>
<li>The perils of being high functioning while grieving</li>
<li>When she knew she needed therapy</li>
<li>How to navigate therapy when your memories are scant</li>
<li>How she turned her pain into a new career</li>
<li>And more...</li>
</ul>]]>
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      <title>Episode 115: Equine Learning</title>
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      <itunes:episode>115</itunes:episode>
      <itunes:title>Equine Learning</itunes:title>
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      <itunes:author>Karen Geier</itunes:author>
      <itunes:subtitle>Gail Carruthers from Skye Blue Acres (http://www.skyeblueacres.com) joins me to discuss how horses can help people through their grief.</itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:duration>18:40</itunes:duration>
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        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, we discuss:</p>

<ul>
<li>The neuroscience of why we bond with horses</li>
<li>Why Gail decided to change her life to work with horses</li>
<li>What the primary benefits of Equine Learning are</li>
<li>Who is an ideal candidate for Equine Learning</li>
<li>What types of activities comprise Equine Learning</li>
<li>What horses can teach us about grief</li>
<li>And more...</li>
</ul>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, we discuss:</p>

<ul>
<li>The neuroscience of why we bond with horses</li>
<li>Why Gail decided to change her life to work with horses</li>
<li>What the primary benefits of Equine Learning are</li>
<li>Who is an ideal candidate for Equine Learning</li>
<li>What types of activities comprise Equine Learning</li>
<li>What horses can teach us about grief</li>
<li>And more...</li>
</ul>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, we discuss:</p>

<ul>
<li>The neuroscience of why we bond with horses</li>
<li>Why Gail decided to change her life to work with horses</li>
<li>What the primary benefits of Equine Learning are</li>
<li>Who is an ideal candidate for Equine Learning</li>
<li>What types of activities comprise Equine Learning</li>
<li>What horses can teach us about grief</li>
<li>And more...</li>
</ul>]]>
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      <podcast:person email="" href="http://karengeier.com" role="host">Karen Geier</podcast:person>
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      <title>Episode 114: Laurie Kilmartin</title>
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      <pubDate>Thu, 09 Jan 2020 06:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
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      <itunes:episode>114</itunes:episode>
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      <itunes:subtitle>Comedian Laurie Kilmartin lost her dad to cancer and rather than grieve privately, she mounted a comedy show and later a book about her experiences.

Dead People Suck ISBN: 9781635650006 </itunes:subtitle>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Laurie Kilmartin joins me to discuss her experiences with hospice and the death of her father.</p>

<p>In this episode, we discuss:</p>

<ul>
<li>Why she decided to write jokes about her dead dad</li>
<li>How her family reacted to her making jokes about the aburdity of death</li>
<li>What you should make sure you do with your relatives while they&#39;re still alive</li>
<li>What to do when you&#39;re drowning in a dead person&#39;s stuff</li>
<li>What it&#39;s like watching the Oscars with your dead dad</li>
<li>And more...</li>
</ul>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Laurie Kilmartin joins me to discuss her experiences with hospice and the death of her father.</p>

<p>In this episode, we discuss:</p>

<ul>
<li>Why she decided to write jokes about her dead dad</li>
<li>How her family reacted to her making jokes about the aburdity of death</li>
<li>What you should make sure you do with your relatives while they&#39;re still alive</li>
<li>What to do when you&#39;re drowning in a dead person&#39;s stuff</li>
<li>What it&#39;s like watching the Oscars with your dead dad</li>
<li>And more...</li>
</ul>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Laurie Kilmartin joins me to discuss her experiences with hospice and the death of her father.</p>

<p>In this episode, we discuss:</p>

<ul>
<li>Why she decided to write jokes about her dead dad</li>
<li>How her family reacted to her making jokes about the aburdity of death</li>
<li>What you should make sure you do with your relatives while they&#39;re still alive</li>
<li>What to do when you&#39;re drowning in a dead person&#39;s stuff</li>
<li>What it&#39;s like watching the Oscars with your dead dad</li>
<li>And more...</li>
</ul>]]>
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      <title>Episode 113: Suicide</title>
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      <itunes:author>Karen Geier</itunes:author>
      <itunes:subtitle>Content Warning: This entire episode is a frank discussion of suicide.

Seth Amitin, LCSW joins me to discuss what we know about suicide, what the myths are surrounding suicide, and how grieving people who die by suicide is different.</itunes:subtitle>
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        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode we discuss:</p>

<ul>
<li>Does everyone have suicidal ideation?</li>
<li>How do you know whether you&#39;re having a fleeting thought of suicide or it&#39;s something more </li>
<li>How to be a supportive family member, friend, partner to a person who is suffering suicidal ideation</li>
<li>What can you do if you&#39;re a family member, friend, partner and you&#39;re concerned for a person suffering from suicidal ideation</li>
<li>When is hospitalization recommended?</li>
<li>Should you try to place an involuntary hold on a person who is suffering?</li>
<li>And more...</li>
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        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode we discuss:</p>

<ul>
<li>Does everyone have suicidal ideation?</li>
<li>How do you know whether you&#39;re having a fleeting thought of suicide or it&#39;s something more </li>
<li>How to be a supportive family member, friend, partner to a person who is suffering suicidal ideation</li>
<li>What can you do if you&#39;re a family member, friend, partner and you&#39;re concerned for a person suffering from suicidal ideation</li>
<li>When is hospitalization recommended?</li>
<li>Should you try to place an involuntary hold on a person who is suffering?</li>
<li>And more...</li>
</ul>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode we discuss:</p>

<ul>
<li>Does everyone have suicidal ideation?</li>
<li>How do you know whether you&#39;re having a fleeting thought of suicide or it&#39;s something more </li>
<li>How to be a supportive family member, friend, partner to a person who is suffering suicidal ideation</li>
<li>What can you do if you&#39;re a family member, friend, partner and you&#39;re concerned for a person suffering from suicidal ideation</li>
<li>When is hospitalization recommended?</li>
<li>Should you try to place an involuntary hold on a person who is suffering?</li>
<li>And more...</li>
</ul>]]>
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      <title>Episode 112: Death Doula</title>
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      <pubDate>Thu, 12 Dec 2019 06:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
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      <itunes:title>Death Doula</itunes:title>
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      <itunes:author>Karen Geier</itunes:author>
      <itunes:subtitle>Madeleine Domingue joins me to discuss what a Death Doula does, why you need one, and what myths still exist about the practice</itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:duration>17:00</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit>
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        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, we discuss:</p>

<ul>
<li>What does a Death Doula Do?</li>
<li>What kinds of things can you ask a Death Doula for?</li>
<li>How Death Doulas can help facilitate better communication around death</li>
<li>What Death Doulas DON&#39;T DO</li>
<li>When you should engage a Death Doula</li>
<li>How can you become a Death Doula </li>
<li>And much more....</li>
</ul>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, we discuss:</p>

<ul>
<li>What does a Death Doula Do?</li>
<li>What kinds of things can you ask a Death Doula for?</li>
<li>How Death Doulas can help facilitate better communication around death</li>
<li>What Death Doulas DON&#39;T DO</li>
<li>When you should engage a Death Doula</li>
<li>How can you become a Death Doula </li>
<li>And much more....</li>
</ul>]]>
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      <itunes:summary>
        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, we discuss:</p>

<ul>
<li>What does a Death Doula Do?</li>
<li>What kinds of things can you ask a Death Doula for?</li>
<li>How Death Doulas can help facilitate better communication around death</li>
<li>What Death Doulas DON&#39;T DO</li>
<li>When you should engage a Death Doula</li>
<li>How can you become a Death Doula </li>
<li>And much more....</li>
</ul>]]>
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      <title>Episode 111: Funerary Traditions</title>
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      <pubDate>Thu, 05 Dec 2019 04:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>info@ongriefpod.com (Karen Geier)</author>
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      <itunes:episode>111</itunes:episode>
      <itunes:title>Funerary Traditions</itunes:title>
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      <itunes:season>1</itunes:season>
      <itunes:author>Karen Geier</itunes:author>
      <itunes:subtitle>Three guests join me to discuss Funerary Traditions: Rabbi Andy Kahn, a Rabbi from New York, Khadijah, a woman who volunteers to prepare Muslim women's bodies in the Greater Toronto Area, and David Kunian, Music Curator at the New Orleans Jazz Museum to discuss Funerary Traditions you might not be familiar with.</itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:duration>17:18</itunes:duration>
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        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode we discuss:</p>

<ul>
<li>    The history of the Jewish Funeral in America</li>
<li>    What happens from the time a Jewish person dies to the funeral</li>
<li>    What makes Jewish funerals different from Protestant funerals</li>
<li><pre><code>What happens at the unveiling
</code></pre></li>
<li><pre><code>Why Muslim bodies are prepared by volunteers
</code></pre></li>
<li><pre><code>What happens in the preparation of Muslims for burial
</code></pre></li>
<li><pre><code>What prayers are said at a funeral
</code></pre></li>
<li><pre><code>Why there are no Quran passages on Islamic headstones
</code></pre></li>
<li><pre><code>What is the history of the Jazz Funeral?
</code></pre></li>
<li><pre><code>What to expect from the parade to the Repast
</code></pre></li>
<li><pre><code>How did black communities band together to ensure their members received a proper funeral
</code></pre></li>
<li><pre><code>What is the ettiquette of a Jazz Funeral?
</code></pre></li>
</ul>

<p>And more...</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode we discuss:</p>

<ul>
<li>    The history of the Jewish Funeral in America</li>
<li>    What happens from the time a Jewish person dies to the funeral</li>
<li>    What makes Jewish funerals different from Protestant funerals</li>
<li><pre><code>What happens at the unveiling
</code></pre></li>
<li><pre><code>Why Muslim bodies are prepared by volunteers
</code></pre></li>
<li><pre><code>What happens in the preparation of Muslims for burial
</code></pre></li>
<li><pre><code>What prayers are said at a funeral
</code></pre></li>
<li><pre><code>Why there are no Quran passages on Islamic headstones
</code></pre></li>
<li><pre><code>What is the history of the Jazz Funeral?
</code></pre></li>
<li><pre><code>What to expect from the parade to the Repast
</code></pre></li>
<li><pre><code>How did black communities band together to ensure their members received a proper funeral
</code></pre></li>
<li><pre><code>What is the ettiquette of a Jazz Funeral?
</code></pre></li>
</ul>

<p>And more...</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode we discuss:</p>

<ul>
<li>    The history of the Jewish Funeral in America</li>
<li>    What happens from the time a Jewish person dies to the funeral</li>
<li>    What makes Jewish funerals different from Protestant funerals</li>
<li><pre><code>What happens at the unveiling
</code></pre></li>
<li><pre><code>Why Muslim bodies are prepared by volunteers
</code></pre></li>
<li><pre><code>What happens in the preparation of Muslims for burial
</code></pre></li>
<li><pre><code>What prayers are said at a funeral
</code></pre></li>
<li><pre><code>Why there are no Quran passages on Islamic headstones
</code></pre></li>
<li><pre><code>What is the history of the Jazz Funeral?
</code></pre></li>
<li><pre><code>What to expect from the parade to the Repast
</code></pre></li>
<li><pre><code>How did black communities band together to ensure their members received a proper funeral
</code></pre></li>
<li><pre><code>What is the ettiquette of a Jazz Funeral?
</code></pre></li>
</ul>

<p>And more...</p>]]>
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      <title>Episode 110: EMDR with Dr. Roger Solomon</title>
      <link>https://ongrief.fireside.fm/110</link>
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      <pubDate>Thu, 21 Nov 2019 11:15:00 -0500</pubDate>
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      <itunes:title>EMDR with Dr. Roger Solomon</itunes:title>
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      <itunes:season>1</itunes:season>
      <itunes:author>Karen Geier</itunes:author>
      <itunes:subtitle>EMDR is touted as a cutting edge, highly effective treatment for many conditions, including PTSD and Grief. Dr Roger Solomon joins me to discuss what EMDR is. </itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:duration>17:05</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit>
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        <![CDATA[<p>What is EMDR? In this episode, we discuss:</p>

<ul>
<li>The science behind this treatment</li>
<li>Who can benefit from it</li>
<li>Who is precluded from doing it</li>
<li>What the phases of the treatment are</li>
<li>What happens in a session</li>
<li>What kind of results can people expect?</li>
<li>And more...</li>
</ul>

<p><a href="https://www.emdr.com/" rel="nofollow">https://www.emdr.com/</a></p>

<p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kl9GoXIzBzQ" rel="nofollow">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kl9GoXIzBzQ</a></p>]]>
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      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>What is EMDR? In this episode, we discuss:</p>

<ul>
<li>The science behind this treatment</li>
<li>Who can benefit from it</li>
<li>Who is precluded from doing it</li>
<li>What the phases of the treatment are</li>
<li>What happens in a session</li>
<li>What kind of results can people expect?</li>
<li>And more...</li>
</ul>

<p><a href="https://www.emdr.com/" rel="nofollow">https://www.emdr.com/</a></p>

<p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kl9GoXIzBzQ" rel="nofollow">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kl9GoXIzBzQ</a></p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>What is EMDR? In this episode, we discuss:</p>

<ul>
<li>The science behind this treatment</li>
<li>Who can benefit from it</li>
<li>Who is precluded from doing it</li>
<li>What the phases of the treatment are</li>
<li>What happens in a session</li>
<li>What kind of results can people expect?</li>
<li>And more...</li>
</ul>

<p><a href="https://www.emdr.com/" rel="nofollow">https://www.emdr.com/</a></p>

<p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kl9GoXIzBzQ" rel="nofollow">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kl9GoXIzBzQ</a></p>]]>
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      <title>Episode 109: Pet Grief Part Two</title>
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      <pubDate>Thu, 14 Nov 2019 11:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>info@ongriefpod.com (Karen Geier)</author>
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      <itunes:episode>109</itunes:episode>
      <itunes:title>Pet Grief Part Two</itunes:title>
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      <itunes:author>Karen Geier</itunes:author>
      <itunes:subtitle>Adam Clark, LCSW, AASW and founder of Head, Heart &amp; Hooves Counseling (https://www.headhearthoovescounseling.com) joins me to delve deeper into Pet Grief from a clinical perspective.</itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:duration>15:27</itunes:duration>
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      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode we discuss:</p>

<ul>
<li>Different kinds of Pet Loss and why each has unique challenges</li>
<li>Do pets miss their owners in a divorce?</li>
<li>What can you do to actively move your grief forward</li>
<li>Why our bond with service animals complicates grief</li>
<li>Am I crazy for throwing a pet funeral?</li>
<li>And much more...</li>
</ul><p>Special Guest: Adam Clark.</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode we discuss:</p>

<ul>
<li>Different kinds of Pet Loss and why each has unique challenges</li>
<li>Do pets miss their owners in a divorce?</li>
<li>What can you do to actively move your grief forward</li>
<li>Why our bond with service animals complicates grief</li>
<li>Am I crazy for throwing a pet funeral?</li>
<li>And much more...</li>
</ul><p>Special Guest: Adam Clark.</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode we discuss:</p>

<ul>
<li>Different kinds of Pet Loss and why each has unique challenges</li>
<li>Do pets miss their owners in a divorce?</li>
<li>What can you do to actively move your grief forward</li>
<li>Why our bond with service animals complicates grief</li>
<li>Am I crazy for throwing a pet funeral?</li>
<li>And much more...</li>
</ul><p>Special Guest: Adam Clark.</p>]]>
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      <title>Episode 108: Pet Grief Part One</title>
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      <pubDate>Thu, 07 Nov 2019 11:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
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      <itunes:author>Karen Geier</itunes:author>
      <itunes:subtitle>Wendy Van De Poll, from the Center for Pet Loss Grief https://centerforpetlossgrief.com/  joins me to discuss how we have overlooked the impact of Pet Loss Grief far too long.</itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:duration>17:33</itunes:duration>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Wendy Van De Poll, Certified End of Life and Pet Loss Grief Coach and Bestselling Author, joins me to discuss the tough topic of Pet Grief.</p>

<p>In this episode, we discuss:</p>

<ul>
<li>How to mentally prepare for losing a pet</li>
<li>Should you be present when your pet is euthanized</li>
<li>Why we still trivialize pet loss grief</li>
<li>Should you get a new pet right away?</li>
<li>Should you throw away all the items from your deceased pet?</li>
<li>How to talk to kids about Pet Grief</li>
<li>And much more...</li>
</ul>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Wendy Van De Poll, Certified End of Life and Pet Loss Grief Coach and Bestselling Author, joins me to discuss the tough topic of Pet Grief.</p>

<p>In this episode, we discuss:</p>

<ul>
<li>How to mentally prepare for losing a pet</li>
<li>Should you be present when your pet is euthanized</li>
<li>Why we still trivialize pet loss grief</li>
<li>Should you get a new pet right away?</li>
<li>Should you throw away all the items from your deceased pet?</li>
<li>How to talk to kids about Pet Grief</li>
<li>And much more...</li>
</ul>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Wendy Van De Poll, Certified End of Life and Pet Loss Grief Coach and Bestselling Author, joins me to discuss the tough topic of Pet Grief.</p>

<p>In this episode, we discuss:</p>

<ul>
<li>How to mentally prepare for losing a pet</li>
<li>Should you be present when your pet is euthanized</li>
<li>Why we still trivialize pet loss grief</li>
<li>Should you get a new pet right away?</li>
<li>Should you throw away all the items from your deceased pet?</li>
<li>How to talk to kids about Pet Grief</li>
<li>And much more...</li>
</ul>]]>
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      <title>Episode 106: Child Grief</title>
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      <pubDate>Thu, 24 Oct 2019 10:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
      <author>info@ongriefpod.com (Karen Geier)</author>
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      <itunes:episode>106</itunes:episode>
      <itunes:title>Child Grief</itunes:title>
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      <itunes:author>Karen Geier</itunes:author>
      <itunes:subtitle>What should we know about the way children grieve to make us better at helping them cope? Andrea Warnick, licensed psychotherapist with a specialty in Child Grief, joins me to discuss.

https://andreawarnick.com/</itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:duration>17:58</itunes:duration>
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        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, we discuss:</p>

<ul>
<li>How to prepare children if someone they know is going to die soon</li>
<li>How to help children understand what death is before it happens in the family</li>
<li>How to recognize normal child grief patterns</li>
<li>When to know if a child&#39;s grief is more complicated</li>
<li>How do other factors (such as the media, divorce, or animal deaths) complicate child grief</li>
<li>What to never say to children who are grieving</li>
<li>And much more...</li>
</ul><p>Special Guest: Andrea Warnick.</p>]]>
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      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, we discuss:</p>

<ul>
<li>How to prepare children if someone they know is going to die soon</li>
<li>How to help children understand what death is before it happens in the family</li>
<li>How to recognize normal child grief patterns</li>
<li>When to know if a child&#39;s grief is more complicated</li>
<li>How do other factors (such as the media, divorce, or animal deaths) complicate child grief</li>
<li>What to never say to children who are grieving</li>
<li>And much more...</li>
</ul><p>Special Guest: Andrea Warnick.</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, we discuss:</p>

<ul>
<li>How to prepare children if someone they know is going to die soon</li>
<li>How to help children understand what death is before it happens in the family</li>
<li>How to recognize normal child grief patterns</li>
<li>When to know if a child&#39;s grief is more complicated</li>
<li>How do other factors (such as the media, divorce, or animal deaths) complicate child grief</li>
<li>What to never say to children who are grieving</li>
<li>And much more...</li>
</ul><p>Special Guest: Andrea Warnick.</p>]]>
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      <title>Episode 105: Caitlin Doughty</title>
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      <pubDate>Thu, 17 Oct 2019 04:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
      <author>info@ongriefpod.com (Karen Geier)</author>
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      <itunes:episode>105</itunes:episode>
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      <itunes:subtitle>Author and Funeral Director and host of Ask A Mortician Caitlin Doughty joins me to talk about her book Will My Cat Eat My Eyeballs? (ISBN  039365270X) and other things she has learned about death and dying in her career.</itunes:subtitle>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Caitlin Doughty answers questions from kids and myself alike. We discuss:</p>

<ul>
<li>What are the legalities of cannibalism?</li>
<li>Will animals dig up my body if I&#39;m not buried deeply enough?</li>
<li>Can you be cremated on a funeral pyre in America?</li>
<li>Can you still be buried alive?</li>
<li>And many more...</li>
</ul><p>Special Guest: Caitlin Doughty.</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Caitlin Doughty answers questions from kids and myself alike. We discuss:</p>

<ul>
<li>What are the legalities of cannibalism?</li>
<li>Will animals dig up my body if I&#39;m not buried deeply enough?</li>
<li>Can you be cremated on a funeral pyre in America?</li>
<li>Can you still be buried alive?</li>
<li>And many more...</li>
</ul><p>Special Guest: Caitlin Doughty.</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Caitlin Doughty answers questions from kids and myself alike. We discuss:</p>

<ul>
<li>What are the legalities of cannibalism?</li>
<li>Will animals dig up my body if I&#39;m not buried deeply enough?</li>
<li>Can you be cremated on a funeral pyre in America?</li>
<li>Can you still be buried alive?</li>
<li>And many more...</li>
</ul><p>Special Guest: Caitlin Doughty.</p>]]>
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      <podcast:person email="" href="http://karengeier.com" role="host">Karen Geier</podcast:person>
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      <title>Episode 104: Adam Cayton-Holland</title>
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      <pubDate>Thu, 10 Oct 2019 12:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
      <author>info@ongriefpod.com (Karen Geier)</author>
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      <itunes:episode>104</itunes:episode>
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      <itunes:subtitle>Comedian Adam Cayton-Holland joins me to discuss his book and one man show Tragedy Plus Time: A Tragi-Comic Memoir (ISBN 1501170163) and how the sudden death of his sister changed his life</itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:duration>47:23</itunes:duration>
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        <![CDATA[<p>CONTENT WARNING: EPISODE CONTAINS FRANK DISCUSSION OF SUICIDE.</p>

<p>In this episode, Adam Cayton-Holland talks about the death by suicide of his younger sister right when his career was about to take off. </p>

<p>In this episode, we discuss:</p>

<ul>
<li>What his family was like</li>
<li>How his sister Lydia&#39;s mental health changed</li>
<li>What the family did to intervene with Lydia</li>
<li>How Adam&#39;s grief manifested</li>
<li>What Adam learned about his family&#39;s grief</li>
<li>What kind of therapy worked for him</li>
<li>And more...</li>
</ul><p>Special Guest: Adam Cayton-Holland.</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>CONTENT WARNING: EPISODE CONTAINS FRANK DISCUSSION OF SUICIDE.</p>

<p>In this episode, Adam Cayton-Holland talks about the death by suicide of his younger sister right when his career was about to take off. </p>

<p>In this episode, we discuss:</p>

<ul>
<li>What his family was like</li>
<li>How his sister Lydia&#39;s mental health changed</li>
<li>What the family did to intervene with Lydia</li>
<li>How Adam&#39;s grief manifested</li>
<li>What Adam learned about his family&#39;s grief</li>
<li>What kind of therapy worked for him</li>
<li>And more...</li>
</ul><p>Special Guest: Adam Cayton-Holland.</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>CONTENT WARNING: EPISODE CONTAINS FRANK DISCUSSION OF SUICIDE.</p>

<p>In this episode, Adam Cayton-Holland talks about the death by suicide of his younger sister right when his career was about to take off. </p>

<p>In this episode, we discuss:</p>

<ul>
<li>What his family was like</li>
<li>How his sister Lydia&#39;s mental health changed</li>
<li>What the family did to intervene with Lydia</li>
<li>How Adam&#39;s grief manifested</li>
<li>What Adam learned about his family&#39;s grief</li>
<li>What kind of therapy worked for him</li>
<li>And more...</li>
</ul><p>Special Guest: Adam Cayton-Holland.</p>]]>
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      <title>Episode 103: History of Grief</title>
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      <pubDate>Thu, 03 Oct 2019 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
      <author>info@ongriefpod.com (Karen Geier)</author>
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      <itunes:episode>103</itunes:episode>
      <itunes:title>History of Grief</itunes:title>
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      <itunes:author>Karen Geier</itunes:author>
      <itunes:subtitle>Author Brandy Schillace (Death's Summer Coat - ISBN 1681773244 ) joins me to discuss the history of the Western way of grieving. </itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:duration>16:41</itunes:duration>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Brandy Schillace and I discuss:</p>

<ul>
<li>What we know about grief from what&#39;s available in recorded history</li>
<li>What the Reformation did that changed the way we view the dead</li>
<li>How the Victorians turned even death into a commercial endeavour and an opportunity for class markers</li>
<li>How the traditional American way of mourning came to be</li>
<li>What social media is doing to shape our way of grieving</li>
<li>And more...</li>
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<p><a href="https://brandyschillace.com/" rel="nofollow">Brandy Schillace&#39;s website</a><br>
<a href="https://www.amazon.com/Deaths-Summer-Coat-History-Teaches/dp/1681773244" rel="nofollow">Buy Death&#39;s Summer Coat here</a></p><p>Special Guest: Brandy Schillace.</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Brandy Schillace and I discuss:</p>

<ul>
<li>What we know about grief from what&#39;s available in recorded history</li>
<li>What the Reformation did that changed the way we view the dead</li>
<li>How the Victorians turned even death into a commercial endeavour and an opportunity for class markers</li>
<li>How the traditional American way of mourning came to be</li>
<li>What social media is doing to shape our way of grieving</li>
<li>And more...</li>
</ul>

<p><a href="https://brandyschillace.com/" rel="nofollow">Brandy Schillace&#39;s website</a><br>
<a href="https://www.amazon.com/Deaths-Summer-Coat-History-Teaches/dp/1681773244" rel="nofollow">Buy Death&#39;s Summer Coat here</a></p><p>Special Guest: Brandy Schillace.</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Brandy Schillace and I discuss:</p>

<ul>
<li>What we know about grief from what&#39;s available in recorded history</li>
<li>What the Reformation did that changed the way we view the dead</li>
<li>How the Victorians turned even death into a commercial endeavour and an opportunity for class markers</li>
<li>How the traditional American way of mourning came to be</li>
<li>What social media is doing to shape our way of grieving</li>
<li>And more...</li>
</ul>

<p><a href="https://brandyschillace.com/" rel="nofollow">Brandy Schillace&#39;s website</a><br>
<a href="https://www.amazon.com/Deaths-Summer-Coat-History-Teaches/dp/1681773244" rel="nofollow">Buy Death&#39;s Summer Coat here</a></p><p>Special Guest: Brandy Schillace.</p>]]>
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      <title>Episode 102: Mortician</title>
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      <pubDate>Thu, 26 Sep 2019 06:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
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      <itunes:episode>102</itunes:episode>
      <itunes:title>Mortician</itunes:title>
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      <itunes:author>Karen Geier</itunes:author>
      <itunes:subtitle>***UNLOCKED FULL EPISODE. Visit patreon.com/ongriefpod to support the podcast and unlock full episodes in the future.*** 

In this episode, I ask Mortician and Funeral Director Erin Bodishbaugh all the questions about their job everyone's afraid to ask</itunes:subtitle>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Mortician and Funeral Director Erin Bodishbaugh explains what being a mortician is like.</p>

<p>In this episode, we discuss:</p>

<ul>
<li>What kinds of people become morticians</li>
<li>Why mortician school weeds out the goths</li>
<li>What an average day at work is like</li>
<li>What are the misconceptions about dead bodies</li>
<li>What surprises they&#39;ve had on the job</li>
<li>Everything you&#39;ve ever been curious about with cremation</li>
<li>What requests they&#39;ve had to turn down</li>
<li>What the best eulogy they&#39;ve ever witnessed was like</li>
<li>And more...</li>
</ul><p>Special Guest: Erin Bodishbaugh.</p>]]>
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      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>Mortician and Funeral Director Erin Bodishbaugh explains what being a mortician is like.</p>

<p>In this episode, we discuss:</p>

<ul>
<li>What kinds of people become morticians</li>
<li>Why mortician school weeds out the goths</li>
<li>What an average day at work is like</li>
<li>What are the misconceptions about dead bodies</li>
<li>What surprises they&#39;ve had on the job</li>
<li>Everything you&#39;ve ever been curious about with cremation</li>
<li>What requests they&#39;ve had to turn down</li>
<li>What the best eulogy they&#39;ve ever witnessed was like</li>
<li>And more...</li>
</ul><p>Special Guest: Erin Bodishbaugh.</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Mortician and Funeral Director Erin Bodishbaugh explains what being a mortician is like.</p>

<p>In this episode, we discuss:</p>

<ul>
<li>What kinds of people become morticians</li>
<li>Why mortician school weeds out the goths</li>
<li>What an average day at work is like</li>
<li>What are the misconceptions about dead bodies</li>
<li>What surprises they&#39;ve had on the job</li>
<li>Everything you&#39;ve ever been curious about with cremation</li>
<li>What requests they&#39;ve had to turn down</li>
<li>What the best eulogy they&#39;ve ever witnessed was like</li>
<li>And more...</li>
</ul><p>Special Guest: Erin Bodishbaugh.</p>]]>
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      <title>Episode 101: I Die</title>
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      <pubDate>Fri, 23 Aug 2019 11:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
      <author>info@ongriefpod.com (Karen Geier)</author>
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      <itunes:episode>101</itunes:episode>
      <itunes:title>I Die</itunes:title>
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      <itunes:author>Karen Geier</itunes:author>
      <itunes:subtitle>**UNLOCKED FULL EPISODE*** For more free episodes, visit Patreon.com/ongriefpod 

To understand death, we have to ask people who have been there what it's like. I asked Dr. Eben Alexander, a Neurosurgeon and Near Death Experiencer to tell me what happened to him.

I also induce a Near Death Experience with the help of a substance called 5-MeO DMT.</itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:duration>51:32</itunes:duration>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Please note: this episode is not intended to endorse the use of substances that are illegal.</p>

<p>In this episode, we explore what it is like to die. I discuss this with Neurosurgeon and Bestselling Author Dr. Eben Alexander (The Map of Heaven) who tells me about his Near Death Experience.</p>

<p>I also discuss how we can simulate a Near Death Experience through a drug called 5-MeO DMT (&quot;The toad&quot; or &quot;Bufo&quot;) with Hilary Agro, a researcher and anthropologist who studies psychedelics, and I take 5-MeO DMT and describe my induced Near Death Experience.</p>

<p>Please note that for legal reasons, I am unable to discuss sourcing of 5-MeO DMT</p><p>Special Guests: Dr. Eben Alexander and Hilary Agro.</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Please note: this episode is not intended to endorse the use of substances that are illegal.</p>

<p>In this episode, we explore what it is like to die. I discuss this with Neurosurgeon and Bestselling Author Dr. Eben Alexander (The Map of Heaven) who tells me about his Near Death Experience.</p>

<p>I also discuss how we can simulate a Near Death Experience through a drug called 5-MeO DMT (&quot;The toad&quot; or &quot;Bufo&quot;) with Hilary Agro, a researcher and anthropologist who studies psychedelics, and I take 5-MeO DMT and describe my induced Near Death Experience.</p>

<p>Please note that for legal reasons, I am unable to discuss sourcing of 5-MeO DMT</p><p>Special Guests: Dr. Eben Alexander and Hilary Agro.</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Please note: this episode is not intended to endorse the use of substances that are illegal.</p>

<p>In this episode, we explore what it is like to die. I discuss this with Neurosurgeon and Bestselling Author Dr. Eben Alexander (The Map of Heaven) who tells me about his Near Death Experience.</p>

<p>I also discuss how we can simulate a Near Death Experience through a drug called 5-MeO DMT (&quot;The toad&quot; or &quot;Bufo&quot;) with Hilary Agro, a researcher and anthropologist who studies psychedelics, and I take 5-MeO DMT and describe my induced Near Death Experience.</p>

<p>Please note that for legal reasons, I am unable to discuss sourcing of 5-MeO DMT</p><p>Special Guests: Dr. Eben Alexander and Hilary Agro.</p>]]>
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